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What’s a skill almost everyone thinks they’re good at until they meet someone who’s actually great at it?

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u/1tacoshort 1d ago

Acting. It looks all natural and straight forward. I've done some self-tapes and done some acting and discovered that it's really hard to appear natural.

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u/Blockchains_Release 23h ago

Even just standing still and looking natural is surprisingly hard. The moment a camera is on you, you suddenly forget what to do with your hands.

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u/HerbLoew 22h ago

I don't even need a camera on me for that

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u/snowdenn 22h ago

Natural talent baby!

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u/Working-Glass6136 20h ago

Anxiety, you old friend...

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u/SesameStreetFighter 18h ago

This is why I can't dance unless it's choreographed. I'm suddenly aware of my entire body and unable to make it do more than "look like many neurons misfiring all at once."

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u/dragonmp93 17h ago

Insert Spongebob Brain.gif here.

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u/Shazam1269 7h ago

Insert Elaine dancing gif here

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u/yrogerg123 9h ago

Well fuck now I remember I have hands

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u/searcherguitars 22h ago

I used to work at a Shakespeare company, and we had a senior member who liked to say to young actors, moments before we made an entrance, "Don't think about your hands."

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u/Superb_Leg_1585 21h ago

That's the evilest thing I could ever imagine🥹

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u/1Dive1Breath 21h ago

Straight diabolical 

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u/gsfgf 19h ago

Only thing worse would be to tell newbies "you're now breathing manually" before going onstage for a musical.

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u/otheraccountisabmw 21h ago

I’m stealing this.

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u/happysri 21h ago

Absolutely. Someone did an analysis’s of Martin Freeman’s acting and my god the number of factors involved in a very plain scene of him doing nothing were crazy. The way he leans, uses his eyes and mouth and so many other micro expressions that contributed to making the scene normal.

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u/ObscureAcronym 21h ago

Have you got a link to that? It sounds really interesting.

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u/Lucky_Enthusiasm_949 17h ago

Right, I want one too!

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u/happysri 15h ago

It came up on YouTube sometime after his after his Fargo season. I can’t seem to find it now. It wasn’t a big channel I don’t think, maybe it’ll popup on my feed randomly again hopefully.

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u/1phis 13h ago

Was it an interview or someone's voiceover of a bunch of scenes?

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u/happysri 12h ago

Voiceover of his scenes. Sorry I can’t find it.

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u/gizmodriver 7h ago

There’s a scene in Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy where he’s just walking into a room, but he’s doing this dopey little point with one finger and it’s very funny.

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u/brickson98 22h ago

Makes me think of the scene from Talladega Nights: “I felt like I was on a spaceship... and uh, I'm not sure what to do with my hands.”

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u/WingerRules 21h ago

It's kind of harder to see in this YouTube transfer, but how Harrison Ford handles his hands in this scene while walking away from the tape machine made go "this guy is a genius". The way he leaves his fingers on it and then lets one stay on and then slide off was definitely intentional.

For people who dont know the movie, the whole premise of the move is based around the tape recording.

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u/-Tesserex- 20h ago

I recall Sir Patrick Stewart saying that the correct answer is nothing. Leave your hands at your sides if you must. 

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u/Low-Client-375 20h ago

Ricky Bobby?? That you?

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u/latitudesixtysix 19h ago

It’s got to be like going to the dentist and suddenly being aware of your tongue and what it’s doing

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u/Autumn1eaves 17h ago

One thing I try to do, as a casual improv actor, is have a prop with my hands.

I did an audition tape for an unpaid thing recently, and I held a piece of paper that was supposed to look like a script, but had a visual joke printed on it.

When you have something to do with your hands, even to start with, it helps you know what to do with your hands when you don't have anything in them.

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u/Glad-Veterinarian365 20h ago

::Jack donaghy with 2 coffee mugs::

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u/elros_faelvrin 19h ago

The moment a camera is on you, you suddenly forget what to do with your hands.

See I've been practicing like this by having mild paranoia and pretending I am in a personalized version of The Truma Show /s

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u/Mavian23 18h ago

For me it wasn't the camera so much as all the people behind the camera looking at me.

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u/Sir_Eggmitton 15h ago

I’ve discovered that just leaving your hands at your side looks a lot less awkward than it feels.

(Unless I’ve actually just looked like an idiot this whole time.)

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u/creepy_doll 13h ago

Do people going about their daily lives actually look natural, or is what we think of as natural a mental idea film and actors have made?

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u/gsfgf 19h ago

That's way harder than acting, imo.

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u/kida24 19h ago

Where do I put my hands???

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u/AltruisticRide1231 11h ago

Jack Donaghy

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u/photowagon 8h ago

Two coffee cups.

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u/Without-a-tracy 1d ago

Haha, jokes on you!

I'm autistic, I never know what to do with my arms, my walk always feels fake, and blinking/eye contact is always something I think about!

(/hj)

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u/KirbyQK 1d ago

Is THAT why?

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u/Beautiful-Visual4606 1d ago

Have you tried masking? You might have a life long acting career in front of you!

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u/Adept-Armadillo-5602 23h ago

oh my god im just amazed by the fact that some people can control their facial expressions and stuff … I could never

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u/False_Cookie8226 1d ago

Studying Charlie Chaplin helped me to understand physical acting. How to embody a character. But it was the realization that for the most part good acting comes down to a certain level of twitchiness... tensing the eyes at the right time, the fraction of a second snarl, subtle tiny movements that people don't usually think about because they occur naturally. Go back and watch some of your favorite actors, odds are you notice those twitchy micro expessions, really study the actors subtle little twitches. Then watch bad acting and note the lack of such subtle nuances.

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u/AnnabethDaring 23h ago

In my acting experience (lots, but no big movie roles, but a lot of masterclasses and lessons etc), it’s about becoming the character.

“Method acting” is really the main kind of acting. Setting aside all the flashy “I’m the joker even off set” stuff, it’s about understanding the character, their background, their motivations, their temperament. You have to set aside “You”, and become the kind of character/person who would do X thing.

Why would a mother be willing to risk her life and even her values for her child? 🤔 what would such a character be capable of?

Or a cowardly character, what is their main driving force? Self preservation? Even at the cost of betraying your friends? How would they think? How would they move?

It’s all about exploring different roles and temperaments. :) playing pretend, like with imaginary objects and places that aren’t visually there, but emotionally there. An actor shouldn’t need the flashy car explosions to express the true fear of dying—so it’s paramount that they get into the scene mentally and emotionally.

“In the zone”, “flowstate”. When doing certain scenes, even if im just in front of a camera or class in an otherwise empty room, if you did it right, an emotionally charged scene should leave you moved. Fearful, tearful, shaky, anxious, whatever emotions you’re trying to convey. It’s best if you really can BECOME that character. You cant just decide “oh i know this character is stupid but that’s dumb so im going to do whatever i want”. You have to be willing to understand your character, even if they do things you never would.

This is what lets an actor get into their character to the point that you’re not rehearsing your movements and “lip quivers”, it’s real. It’s not about timing an eye twitch.

It’s about feeling so driven with emotion that the twitch happens because of it.

I hope that explains it a bit! 😁 there’s always more to it but that’s how actors do it.

Ive seen scene partners be too preoccupied about whether the camera gets their “good side” or if they look pretty as they cry, and it’s obvious, every time.

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u/False_Cookie8226 22h ago

Sure, but again good actors achieve the twitchiness. Acting is emoting, emotions express themselves as subtle twitches, an involuntary catch in the throat as you speak. If you ain't twitching nobody cares.

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u/Ok_Plum_9849 23h ago

There are many bad actors who think that conveying intensity just requires them to look rapidly from one eye to the other (of the person they’re talking to) repeatedly. It’s so vampire diaries.

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u/Dasseem 1d ago

Wave like a human being!

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u/Brad_Brace 23h ago

I just get entirely distracted by the fact that I'm shaking from head to toe, and by the fact that everybody hates me and will mock me for years to come. So saying lines and moving it's not an issue, since inside my head my soul is begging for death.

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u/Good-Celebration-686 23h ago

It’s like when you have to walk on stage to accept an award or do a speech or something and you suddenly realise you have no idea how to walk, how to swing your arms and what to do with your head.

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u/OberonFirst 23h ago

Hey, that's me everyday ! Except there are zero cameras anywhere

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u/Alternative_Suit_902 23h ago

Even voice acting looks way easier than it actually is, I was surprised how bad I was when I tried it

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u/hologram137 20h ago

Watching Eartha Kitt voice Yzma for the emperors new grove made me realize just how much talent it really takes

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTDo6kk2E/

https://youtu.be/pe1a-SKeUug?is=sHfaqZcrbXMjURH5

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u/omniwrench- 16h ago

The more I see accomplished VAs at work, the more I notice them act as they would if they were on camera - there’s a lot of physicality in good voice acting

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u/Poonchow 14h ago

A lot of them are trained theater actors or just regular film actors who never landed big roles. The competition for getting VA work is insane and doesn't pay very well unless you're one of the dozen or so mega stars that end up in EVERY project.

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u/ChedCapone 13h ago

Eartha Kitt? It came up organically!

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u/Nefertitis_Fjord_216 10h ago

Mark Hamill is another one who's fun to watch if you see any of his old Joker performances. He gets very into the physicality of it.

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u/RaynefromWeglot 1h ago

Yzma and Kronk are the most iconic voice duo ever.

Both of them are so deeply engraved into my memory that I don't even need to click those links to hear them perfectly

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u/Johnny_Banana18 22h ago

Most people think voice acting is just doing impressions, but you have to make that character be mean, sad, cry, sing, ect.

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u/Beneficial-Act-9933 20h ago

Even doing impressions can be hard. Anybody who says they can do impressions it's always the same culprits. Mickey mouse where they just do a high voice and the laugh, goofy where they jsut say gwarsh and schwartzenger where they jsut yell GOT TO DA CHOPPA.

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u/gsfgf 19h ago

schwartzenger where they jsut yell GOT TO DA CHOPPA.

Though, an anchor phrase like that is the best way to get into character for an accent.

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u/realjeremyantman 10h ago

I entertained my kids by imitating a late Finnish comedian Jope Ruonansuu and best anchor phrase to find his accent was apparently really throaty "öhö öhö". I think you could spell it in English like "a her a her" with silent r:s. 

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u/Beneficial-Act-9933 18h ago

Not really. A really good arnold impressionist is Josh robert Thompson who's great at doing an arnold impression because he can do Arnold just talking.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXwDFfFx1cs

skip to around the 40 seconds and you can hear it. Also Red Letter media is great and he's been a great guest when he goes on. He does a good George lucas too.

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u/No_Explorer6054 11h ago

i only ever tried voice acting for personal projects with friends and oh god, the amount of effort you have to do to catch the emotions was insane

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u/The_OtherHalf 21h ago

Ec tetera

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u/_lukey___ 13h ago

my latin class is fake jeff

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u/TheGuyfromRiften 16h ago

i think you don't even get the immersion of being in a set or even surrounded by other actors and bouncing off of them.

idk if all voice acting is the same but i saw some people say they're handed a large stack of papers and with no context they have to act out these scenarios doing the same take dozens of times

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u/schplat 7h ago

It varies.. Much of the time, the animation for what's being voiced is available in a rough sketch/wireframe form (and on rare occasions fairly complete animation), so they can see the action behind what's being said, which is a major prompt for how to do the performance.

Other times, it's just pure studio work, and the animators will have to work in the action to match the final voice lines.

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u/GarysCrispLettuce 20h ago

That's probably why Ricky Gervais' latest animated show is such a flop.

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u/matsuphoto 15h ago

This reminds me of the Japanese VA that does Zenitsu from Demon Slayer. Bro works hard

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u/gsfgf 19h ago

My improv group was playing Utter Nonsense last night, and that shit was hard. Funny as hell, though.

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u/Jackalope-Shrike 16h ago

Voice acting for a game design class was how I discovered I’m not just monotonous, I’m the noticeably autistic kind of monotonous. Doesn’t matter how expressive I try to be, deadpan is all I’ve got.

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u/awooj 8h ago

Unfortunately I am very expressive and have great inflection in my own head but apparently not out loud. I can come out sounding very harsh, not at all excited, upset, deadpan instead of sarcastic, you get the point. It’s led to some insane misunderstandings over the years.

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u/admiralvic 13h ago

I think voice acting is an interesting one.

I knew I'd be bad when I started doing voice overs, I just underestimated how bad. Something that is even worse once you get into editing.

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u/BreezyTugboat 10h ago

I have read books upon books to my child for years, always trying to really voice the characters. I finally realized I'm a competent narrator, which is NOT the same as being a good VA. It's SO HARD.

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u/glidejanger 22h ago

People have much much more quirks than they believe they do, and acting is great at exposing that. Everyone would benefit from some acting training.

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u/Kundrew1 1d ago

But actors are just playing themselves they don’t have any talent /s

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u/Good-Celebration-686 23h ago

That’s a cruel thing to say about the Rock

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u/TJohns88 17h ago

He was great in 127 Hours

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 22h ago

Which is funny cause the dude is an incredible actor. First wrestling (which is a huge live performance) and then his film career.

Obviously he plays a lot of similar characters over and over but when you see him flip to something else like in the Jumanji movies etc he absolutely nails it.

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u/The_OtherHalf 21h ago

Incredible actor but with a range the size of a 54 year old Dwayne Johnson. Sure he's bigger than most men and me but a jab is a jab!

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u/hyphychef 18h ago

Leave Will Smith out of this.

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u/Geminii27 16h ago

Also about actors.

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u/yuval16432 23h ago

For a select few of the famous ones that’s definitely true though

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 22h ago

More like they're just playing limited roles/are typecast into them.

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u/MorePhinsThyme 14h ago

Some are typecast, some are mediocre actors, and some just take the roles they enjoy at this point in their career.

Also, some of those mediocre actors have a lot of charisma/screen presence as that one character, so they're great at what they do, even if what they do isn't to lose themselves into every character.

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u/applespicebetter 21h ago

On the flip side it's amazing how much acting, even at extremely amateur levels, can help you with speaking to people, speaking in front of people, job interviews, etc.

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u/gizmodriver 7h ago

It’s so true. Part of the reason I have my current job is because my acting background made me a good public speaker. I can speak clearly confidently, and I have zero stage fright as long as I know what I’m talking about.

u/DynamicDouchebag 36m ago

That's interesting. Do you have any recommendations? Like acting classes, or theater training or maybe even YouTube? 

I'm free for a couple months, and that sounds like a good investment. I'd love to know :)

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u/Ni_Peng_NeeeWom 1d ago

Sir Ian has entered the chat

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u/langolier27 19h ago

Sir Ian, Sir Ian, Sir Ian

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u/No_Atmosphere8146 12h ago

Action. WIZARD! YOU SHALL NOT PAAASS! Cut.

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u/Ecstatic-Clue2145 20h ago

Acting is an art in that it's not really supposed to resemble real life. Attempting to takes a lot of effort like life drawing. And even that isn't "real real" life. Acting is supposed to have a purpose. Tell a story. Say as much as possible with as little as possible. It's very intentional. Like any art. The illusion is that it is "believable" that someone can behave that way. So that's the key word. Art is not "real" it's "believable."

And "real" natural behaviors doesn't necessarily look good on screen.

Like if you just video real people they're not achieving any of the things acting is supposed to do.

Being "natural" is more like a flavor of acting. Because it doesn't at all feel natural to do. And if you really think about it it doesn't seem natural. It's just a style that is more common nowadays. That's way it's so hard because people think it means to try to not seem like your acting. You have to LEARN to act then learn to act in this style. If you were actually being natural then you're not acting. It makes sense when you think of it that way I think.

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u/afxz 19h ago

It’s similar to realism in prose fiction. Writing a ‘realistic’ novel still takes an incredible amount of groundwork and application. It’s not the ‘default’ style that pours out when you sit down to write. It’s an achieved effect just as much as fantastical or lyrical prose is, when the writer noticeably ‘turns it up’. 

Realism or naturalism is the height of artifice in the arts. 

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u/turb0_encapsulator 23h ago

someone who I hired wanted me to do a video testimonial. I was so awful.

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u/hologram137 20h ago edited 19h ago

Maybe it’s my ADHD and problems with daydreaming lol but I always thought I’d be really good at absolutely absorbing myself into a story and really becoming that character. I can cry easily just imagining that I’m in a particular situation, or I’m a particular person in a particular situation.

The problem ofc, is being able to do that while 20 cameras are on you on a busy set and a director and co-actors that don’t want to have to do too many takes if they don’t have to, all counting on you.

So basically one of the most crucial skills for being an actor, the ability to perform in front of an audience and not just alone or with a few others lol

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u/Dramatic-Law4978 23h ago

As an actor the brutal reality is that you just have to be naturally good at it. If you are you are and if you aren't you aren't and no amount of lessons can change that.

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u/ants_are_everywhere 20h ago

this is said about many fields and is almost never true. In fact I'm not aware of any skill for which it's shown to be true.

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u/nodtomod 19h ago

Exactly. Which is why they call acting a craft. Something you have to work on and develop.

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u/Dramatic-Law4978 16h ago

You can get better sure but honestly you will still be mediocre at best I'm afraid. Thats really why only 1 or 2 people in every year at drama school make a career out of acting.

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u/Nick_pj 16h ago

But also, even if you’re an excellent actor it’s still incredibly hard to make a career out of it. 

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u/Dramatic-Law4978 15h ago

True. It's very luck based.

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u/alchemist2 19h ago

I dunno about that. Singing, for example. Some people can do it, and some people can't (like me).

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u/ants_are_everywhere 18h ago

It's funny you say that because I actually ran this experiment.

I had always been an awful singer. I spent only a few weeks learning the basics of vocal techniques and vocal exercises and the results really surprised me.

It clearly moved me from awful singer to actually pretty good territory. Not nearly as good as someone who studied opera or voice for 4 years at a high level, but a very solid starting point. I stopped there because I lived in an apartment at the time and I wasn't going to become the annoying singing neighbor.

Now I actually really enjoy singing but only if I take the time to warm up first. Otherwise I can't control pitch, tone, or volume very well, which was a huge part of why I thought I couldn't sing.

But it's clear that, like anything else, if you train properly and for long enough you can sing. Barring, of course, physical problems that prevent you from using your muscles, or hearing your voice properly, etc.

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u/Nick_pj 16h ago

Speaking as a professional singer, I think this is only partially true. 

Think of it like kicking a football. Some people have a natural coordination with it, and some people seem to find it really challenging. Oftentimes, that initial aptitude then determines how much you pursue it further, which in turn affects skill level. Singing is the same - it’s just a specific kind of physical coordination that some folks have an aptitude for. 

It’s almost a joke in my industry (opera) that most of the professionals were actually not the “amazing singer” in their high school or even college / university. 

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u/Lozzanger 12h ago

Some people are naturally talented at singing. The really excellent ones practise and learn.

I’m 43. I’ve always been a slow runner. I’m no longer a slow runner as I’ve been working hard at improving my running style.

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u/WorkFurball 17h ago

It'a true for driving and navigating at least.

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u/Fweet_Sactory 15h ago

You have to be naturally good at slam dunks, otherwise we'd see more of them in the WNBA.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 22h ago edited 18h ago

Apparently I could have been one?

Back at uni my girlfriend was doing a psychology class and they had to do a video interview of someone with an addiction, or someone pretending to have one. The point was to assess the students questions not the other persons acting ability so it really didn't matter how they performed.

So we did an interview about me quitting smoking. I've never smoked in my life, I just pretended. Apparently her teacher was also right into theatre and straight up couldn't believe I'd never smoked and was just making it up, wanted her to get me to come do plays and stuff.

My best theory is I'm on the spectrum and grew up when unless you had severe behavioural issues you were at best "the weird kid", so I started learning to act normal super early. No idea how well that would translate into actual acting as I've never tried but turns out I have zero issues taking on a personality and acting it out in front of a camera at least in a casual setting.

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u/awooj 8h ago

I get nervous in front of a camera but have also been acting basically every day of my life just to be normal and very few people ever picked up on it. I was always the friend nominated to do all the talking if anyone ever needed anything lied about though like to a parent or a creepy guy, but most people just called that good people skills. I’ve got boatloads of charisma but I spend a lot of time alone so it’s not of much use.

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u/wonderful9235 21h ago

Please don't say that I want to be good one day 😩

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u/velvetvagine 14h ago

So what’s with Juilliard and Meisner and all the other names I don’t remember, what are they teaching? There must be a way to improve — we’ve seen it happen with certain actors, especially over something like a seasons long tv show.

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u/Dramatic-Law4978 5h ago

You do realise Julliard is a school and Meisner was a teacher. What's your point? You have talent and you study and you go out there and maybe have a career (if luck hits you). If you don't have it you don't have it. If they are cast in the first place then you clearly have something.

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u/Ashes_ToAshes_ 13h ago

My favorite example of this is Johnny Depp.

Moves to LA to become a musician, becomes semi-interested in acting simply because he's drinking buddies with a pre-fame Nicholas Cage.

Goes to an audition to support his friend (who is actually trying to get the role), auditions and gets picked because the directors daughter thought he was good looking. Lands nightmare on elm street with essentially zero professional training.

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u/Dramatic-Law4978 5h ago

Like I said. He had the born talent and the luck.

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u/noisyturtle 18h ago

This was always crazy to me until I had to make student films with terrible actors. It seems so simple to just be you, or stay in a character, but some people genuinely lose all charisma when you get a camera in front of them. I still don't understand how someone with a big personality can turn into a mouse on a dime, it baffles me. Acting is like the easiest thing to do, you just read lines, but some people just freeze up.

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u/Adezar 21h ago

I had done quite a bit of public speaking for my job and I had an opportunity where they wanted to record me, but it was also scripted.

Reading a script and sounding natural is 100x harder than I ever thought. Really gave me a whole new respect for actors that make it look effortless.

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u/awooj 8h ago

I’m so charismatic on my own but give me a script and you’d think it was my first day being a person.

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u/SourNotesRockHardAbs 19h ago

it's really hard to appear natural

As an autistic, I agree.

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u/Demonweed 19h ago

Also, once you get in to it, it's almost like stage acting and screen acting are totally different disciplines. If you really whisper naturally on stage, even the front row is probably going to miss your lines. Yet if you do a stage whisper while inches away from the face of a scene partner in film or television, it's going to play badly in close up shots. Perhaps the main reason they haven't properly diverged is the tradition of "live before a studio audience" productions where screen actors had to incorporate some stage techniques to engage with those live audiences.

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u/kylepricehl 16h ago

It's the listening part that really separates amateurs from the pros. Most people when they try it are just visibly waiting for their cue so they can say their next line, whereas great actors look like they're hearing the words for the very first time on take 20.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 22h ago

Celebrity guests on shows are a really good indication of this, they seem super wooden and stiff compared to the actual actors.

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u/SaltyPeter3434 16h ago

Or athletes appearing in commercials and making it obvious they are not actors

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u/mayorofbeargulch 20h ago

Half of on camera acting is being able to ignore the camera believably.

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u/toddbbot 17h ago

They are really the most accomplished liars in society. They can fake interest, emotions, love, sex and be believed. I’d personally never date one.

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u/port443 15h ago

Haha I was recorded for some instructional stuff. Just me and a camera guy, not like a bunch of people.

At one point the camera guy was like "Hey man, you've got all this personality while we are talking. Maybe you could pretend the camera is a person?"

Yea I sucked; I wasn't even TRYING to act.

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u/eric23456 14h ago

This video shows beginner, intermediate, expert, and oscar winning actors performing the same scene. The difference is amazing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQ1jbdu1NaM&t=1s

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u/Razzler1973 13h ago

When you see a regular famous person guest star, like an athlete, you can really see the difference between actual acting and just saying the lines

Most sound so awkward and you realise 'I probably wouldn't even sound as good as that'

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u/Civil-Gas7313 16h ago

I was the actor/drama queen of my family as a kid and then I took an actual acting class in college and almost failed 😭 my professor was like a director or something. One of my classmates was even in a Doritos commercial.

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u/Boo_and_Minsc_ 16h ago

I can confirm. Acted when I was younger, saw myself on tape and it was Yogurt commercial levels of acting. It is extraordinarily hard. Mostly we think it is easy because we are usually exposed to the best of the best who make it look easy, but I recommend you watch some straight to DVD shlock and you will be appalled at what you see, then remember those are people who have been taking acting lessons and working at their craft for years.

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u/Ashmedai 9h ago

Seriously. I'm reminded of various critiques of some actors over the years, where they get all particular, saying that he/she has no range and always play themselves and what not. Um, no, man. Even doing that bit and being the single likable personality that they are is a skill.

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u/EscapeAggressive7067 21h ago

I’ve tried it too, and yeah, acting is one of those things that looks effortless right up until you actually have to do it. Making something feel natural on purpose is ridiculously hard.

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u/pushaper 20h ago

I read the Micheal Richards memoir recently and the way he came about basing Kramer on being a dog was pretty neat but the thought process into action is quite incredible.

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u/roboroach3 20h ago

Same, made some very amateur movies with mates and was full cringe watching it back.

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u/langolier27 19h ago

This part. I’ve studied it and worked at it for nearly 30 years now and it is incredibly difficult to maintain presence in the moment, not try to “do” something.

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u/CapPuzz24 18h ago

can you elaborate, is that meaning to defeat your anticipation?

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u/hypnoticlife 17h ago edited 17h ago

Im not an actor and not the person you’re asking. But I’ve gathered acting is supposed to be a natural dialogue. If you’re just repeating your lines you’re doing it wrong. It’s about getting into the actual conversation in front of you and being invested in feeling what the character is feeling at that moment and truly reacting to the other character as if their emotion is real. It should all be a flow of just being in a real situation but the lines are already written.

That is, don’t act. Just be the character and react to your partners as that character. We all play characters in real life if you think about it long enough.

Actors need to be focused on their partner rather than themselves is a subtle part of it.

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u/langolier27 9h ago

Yeah, simply react. All of the preparation needs to be let go and just be in the moment

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u/CelticSnakes 18h ago

Memorizing PAGES of dialogue for a play?

Or even for a film or show where you have multiple takes? A show like Hinterland was filmed twice for each scene, in English and Welsh.

I can remember things from when I was four, 55 years later. Ask me to remember a line and sound/look natural doing so? FAIL.

I am awed by professional actors’ abilities.

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u/SilentStranger4108 18h ago

I totally get that, being natural on camera is actually way harder than it looks and takes so much practice to feel truly effortless.

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u/gizamo 17h ago

Similarly, lying. People think they can do it when needed, but the vast majority are pretty terrible at it, especially when pressed by anyone who knows how to dig a little.

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u/ketchuptheclown 17h ago

Writing too. I took a screenwriting class and while it's all simple and common sense, it can be very tricky trying to get a point across.

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u/lloopy 16h ago

Whenever you think acting is easy, ask yourself how Steve Buscemi commands the kind of money he does. Ask yourself why Ben Affleck is as terrible at acting as he is. It's not like he doesn't have access to great acting teachers. It's not like he can't afford great teachers. It's not like he hasn't been doing this for a very long time. So why is he bad at it?

Acting isn't easy. Most people are terrible at it.

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u/Comprehensive-Act-13 15h ago

Everyone thinks they can act, until they have to act. They have no idea the level of skill involved. People like Olivia Colman are gods as far as I’m concerned.

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u/KookyFirefighter266 15h ago

Ralf Schumacher!!

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u/DYSFUNCTIONALDlLDO 12h ago

Same, or perhaps even more so, with voice acting as well. I have one of the deepest voices in the world, so fuckin' EVERYONE tells me I should be a voice actor. I ended up doing some fandub of a badass video game boss for fun, and it ended up being significantly harder than I expected to simply make it sound decent. In fact, I really had to BECOME the character. If I found myself trying to SOUND like a badass character, I would basically delete that recording without even checking to see if it sounded good, and I had to put myself in the mind of that character and BECOME it, which was not easy. Needless to say, I don't have enough passion to put effort into becoming a voice actor, and that fandub will forever be a one-time thing.

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u/bumpoleoftherailey 11h ago

I was watching La La Land recently, and the scene where Emma Stone is doing the audition with her phone really brought home to me what an absolute skill acting is. https://youtu.be/AbhNXMPP4eI

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u/PickledDildosSourSex 11h ago

Sir Ian, Sir Ian, Sir Ian, Sir Ian....

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u/GucciTheSnowman 11h ago

Probably because you don't have a team of people editing and producing your tapes.

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u/wasabiburning 9h ago

I think that's why so many famous actors are known for just playing themselves. Tom Cruise, Jason Statham, the Rock, Ryan Reynolds, etc. Meanwhile the real actors, the chameleons, are guys like Daniel Day Lewis. There's not many of them.

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u/QualityCoati 9h ago

I'd go a step further and say it's even harder to act like someone else's normal.

Sure, you might know how to act normal on camera, but if you only know how to play yourself in a film, then you've got no depth.

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u/frankmint 8h ago

An acting coach once told me, "they applaud because they won't/can't do it - it's hard."

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u/BookkeeperPercival 7h ago

Everyone imagines how easy it would be to act when you're on set surrounded by world class actors. They don't understand that all those people are there because they can act that good while alone in a white box

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u/shadowfaxbinky 7h ago

It’s really apparent when you get (non-actor) celebrity cameos on TV shows and some of them are just so incredibly stilted and wooden and unnatural sounding. Even bad actors tend to be better than that.

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u/CommunicationTime265 7h ago

This a good one. A lot of people think they can act lol.

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u/adudeguyman 18h ago

You don't have to be very natural anymore. Just more natural than AI.

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u/Coffee_pecking_order 9h ago

"anyone who thinks acting is hard never dug post holes for a living."

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u/1tacoshort 5h ago

It’s a different kind of hard but I think you knew that.