r/AskReddit 1d ago

What’s a skill almost everyone thinks they’re good at until they meet someone who’s actually great at it?

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u/xenosthemutant 1d ago

Fun fact: 70% to 88% of drivers consistently report that their driving skills are above average.

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u/ShataraBankhead 23h ago

Seems accurate. My entire life, Dad has always complained about drivers throughout the state. "Nobody knows how to drove on 280" or "People drive like idiots on 65". I asked him, so is there any road or highway where people are decent drivers? "No!".

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u/Blacky05 16h ago

The funny thing is, he's not wrong.

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u/jdehjdeh 15h ago

My grandpa always used to say "drive as if everyone else is a maniac who is trying to kill you".

This was a guy who drove convoy for the military so I figured he knows his shit when it comes to driving.

The older I get the more he is proved right every day.

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u/InteriorLemon 17h ago

this sounds very Birmingham.

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u/Tahllunari 17h ago

I was thinking the same thing. 280 and 65 are both really obnoxious and it seems like there’s always a wreck or car debris slowing everyone down.

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u/Heinz_Tech_Support 15h ago

BHamster checking in. 65 and 280? Definitely the Ham. Though it looks like they’re more about that Bankhead area life now.

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u/Yung_Bill_98 11h ago

Even if 99/100 are excellent drivers the shitheads will still stand out

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u/dave_campbell 9h ago

Ahh yes. The Birmingham metro area driver.

My ex used to complain about ladders falling off trucks during her commute. I thought she was crazy. Then I started doing a similar commute.

Ladders. Always ladders.

What’s with these bama fans and their inability to secure ladders to their trucks???

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u/Narwalacorn 2h ago

Anyone who drives slower than me is a doddering old fool who needs to get off the road. Anyone who drives faster than me is a crazy asshole with a death wish. And anyone who drives the exact same speed as me clearly has road rage and is trying to piss me off on purpose.

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u/Altruistic_Paper4636 2h ago

And that's just Birmingham. Atlanta is far worse.

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u/wilsone8 1h ago

Reminds me of my favorite quote from Justified: “If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.”

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u/somewhat_random 17h ago

The problem is how you define driving skills. E.G.:

"I can zip through traffic and drift through corners in complete control because I am a good driver"

"I am a good driver because I always stay 10% below the posted speed limit"

"I am a good driver because I always keep my hands at 10 and 2 O'clock and keep my seatbelt fastened and stop at yellow lights."

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u/MorePhinsThyme 13h ago

Personal casual analysis:

"I can zip through traffic and drift through corners in complete control because I am a good driver"

Honestly, if he can actually maintain drifts in complete control, then this guy is a TALENTED driver, but if he's not smart enough to keep this type of thing to closed courses (or at least seriously rural off-times), then he's a shitty driver (and what he said shows that this is the case).

"I am a good driver because I always stay 10% below the posted speed limit"

Nope, this is just a bad driver. Nobody with actual driving skills would do this, and this is unsafe (not necessarily for you, but your actions can cause others to crash) in almost every situation where traffic isn't slowing you down. My grandmother drove like this. She wasn't a good driver.

"I am a good driver because I always keep my hands at 10 and 2 O'clock and keep my seatbelt fastened and stop at yellow lights."

There's not enough here to judge much, but even driving schools aren't uniformly teaching 10 and 2 anymore, because forcing a specific position is bad for driving fatigue, and thus not safe. Obviously, you should always buckle-up, but that's common sense. And stopping for yellow lights is a bad idea, but not awful, and you can be a decent driver and still do this.

And I do think I'm above average at driving.

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u/suoretaw 11h ago

And stopping for yellow lights is a bad idea

What do you mean? If you can safely stop when the light turns yellow, you absolutely should.

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u/MorePhinsThyme 11h ago edited 10h ago

Rereading how I wrote that, I was likely a bit overcritical there, but only a bit. If you're making sure you stop at every yellow (which is how I read the quote he's trying to say), then you're not doing what you just said.

And personal opinion, I think it's safer if you treat them as "If you can safely proceed through when the light turns yellow, you should." But I do agree that stopping safely when the yellow is that middle distance away where there's reasonable doubt is also reasonable.

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u/theREALbombedrumbum 22h ago

My hypothesis has always been that it's because everybody compares their driving skills to what they think they are capable of, not how they actually drive day to day.

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u/xenosthemutant 21h ago

Ohhh, good point.

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u/mattsl 12h ago

It's 100% this. Also many people use this same "logic" to argue against self driving cars. 

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u/clunkclunk 18h ago

It's because Crashes Georg who lives in a Camry and has 10,000 accidents a day and is an outlier and should not be counted.

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u/qft 18h ago

The other 30% slap a student driver bumper sticker on their car with zero intention of ever getting better

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u/ActorMonkey 1d ago

I am a terrible driver. Just lucky.

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u/Key_Entry_497 17h ago

The 2 things no one admits to being bad at are driving, and sex.

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u/xenosthemutant 10h ago

I'm not bad at driving!

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u/GenitalFurbies 16h ago

If you turn your head to check your blind spots and use your blinkers you probably are.

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u/Suspicious_Bicycle 13h ago

Are they all residents of Lake Wobegon?

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u/OneCruelBagel 12h ago

This could actually be "true", because the different drivers might be using different criteria for judging driving... Some people might say they're a good driver because they can hold their car in a drift as they go round a roundabout, others might say they're a good driver because they haven't had an accident in a decade because they just stick to the middle lane or 40mph. Both of those would say they're better than the other one ... and would be able to justify it to an extent.

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u/Prestigious-Loan-858 13h ago

I needed 20 years of ALL kinds of situations in driving until i thought i was above average. That included car and motorcycle racing, motorcycle and car crashes, drifting, mountain camping with trailers, even old tractor driving you name it... If you just drive to work all your live you suck at driving. Probably don't even know what your vehicle is capable of.

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u/SavvySillybug 10h ago

Mine used to be really good, but I haven't needed to drive daily for over nine months. It's crazy how quickly that skill fades. I drove to see a movie and had to do a three point turn for every parking garage ramp and a seven point turn to get into a spot.

I also killed the engine at a red light turning green trying to start too quickly and lifted the clutch too hard, but the clutch on that car is really damn worn, that probably would have happened to most drivers.

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u/slappythejedi 5h ago

i try to remind myself of this, and that my skills arent as good as i feel like they are, so that i will always drive more carefully.

it usually works lol

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u/wasabiburning 9h ago

If you find yourself in traffic... congratulations, you are the traffic.

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u/whatyoudowhenimalone 9h ago

Fun fact: That might be true, if the 22% are REALLY bad at it!

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u/No-Newspaper-7693 7h ago

Seems possible that this is true. I wouldn't be surprised if 1 in 8 drivers account for the overwhelming majority of accidents and tickets...making 88% of drivers better than the average.

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u/ZebraComet 7h ago

That's the info I was looking for and was reminded of when seeing this post.

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u/WaywardHeros 6h ago

Everybody going faster than me is a reckless lunatic and everyone going slower is a sluggish moron.

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u/CommitteeofMountains 2h ago

That last 12% really pull down the mean, though.

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u/2PetitsVerres 16h ago

It’s actually possible if the drivîng skill distribution is skewed. Like way more than 50% of people ear’ les than the average salary, due to very high salary skewing the salary distribution, biaising the average way above the median.