Ok so this is going to be a long rant about the Cranford Facebook community page and how I was treated because I was honestly shocked at how some of the older adults in this town act.
Backstory:
I’m super interested in urban planning so I thought I’d take it upon myself to relay some somewhat confusing information the town has collected about the Streetscape Project. Thought I was doing something nice for the community I’ve lived in my whole life but this turned out to be an eye opening experience.
I made 3 posts about the project
- Pros and cons
- Talks about the trial runs
- FAQ about the project
All of the posts were unbiased information simply to shed light on the study efforts done by the town. Also I commented anonymously under the name “Cranford.Lobster” lol and it was on the page Cranford NJ Area - Families.
Community response:
There were, of course, many supportive messages but the overwhelming majority of the messages were either hate or straight up misinformation. Here are the main comments I received.
- People claiming I worked for the town/project. Fair, I can see people thinking that. But then I received at least a dozen messages (from my 3 posts keep in mind) of the moderator telling me I was a part of the project. The moderator can see my real name and bio, realizing that her claim that I’m getting a kickback was obviously false. I encouraged her to look at my profile, just for her to ignore my comment and have her tell me over and over that I work for the town. Great. So even the moderators are here to spread fake information at fit their agenda.
- Saying the project will cause more traffic. At first the angry crowd of people commenting said they wanted a thorough traffic and parking study to be done, not knowing a few studies were actually done in 2024. So I provided the studies regarding how the town and state has found this project will help with traffic. After providing this information in plain language I was flooded with grown adults telling me how dumb I was because, I kid you not, they “can see it won’t work”. So these adults insist they want studies, then when given studies they choose to not believe the evidence coming from people who do this work for a living. Respectfully you have to be very brazen and ignorant to call me dumb and think you’re smarter than an expert in the field regardless of the topic.
- I also receive straight up false “facts” like “the study shows it will cause a football field of traffic” or “the people who work on Eastman don’t agree with the plan”. Both comments of which I responded with sources of how this blatant misinformation. I’ve asked at least a dozen people what source they’re getting their information from just to receive only 2 responses which either disproved their point or was from another Facebook post that was based off of literally nothing. Wow. Either people have a problem admitting they’re wrong or they can not read.
This is seriously concerning. Are these folks going to just harass and destroy every project developed to help this town continue thriving? The speed at which misinformation spreads on these pages is crazy. And the negativity of these groups is astonishing, why is hate spreading so fast, this is not the Cranford I remember.
And I hate to point fingers but every single person (without fail) who I received hate from was 65+. People who likely rarely use the downtown and statistically don’t stay in Cranford much longer. Disgusting how at their age they have the desire to harass people and how they can’t tell the difference between misinformation and reality. They really shouldn’t be on social media and I’m not saying this to be funny, I mean this could genuinely affect them and their family negatively in the future.
This page made me seriously doubt the literacy and critical thinking of the adult population of this town. It also made me concerned with how strongly worded some of these people can get. Why are people angrily telling me I’m dumb while literally just providing information from studies I didn’t do myself.
Anyways I’m glad people on this sub have common sense and if anyone would like to post support of the project on the Facebook page please do so, your voices are important. Have a lovely day Cranforidians.