I set the dress code as "wear something crazy you already own" and I admit it was mostly so I could dress up as my favourite lesbian (pitfighter Vi from Arcane) and show it off to all my friends after it didn't quite come together in time for a con.

Just broke up with my negging ex FOR GOOD yesterday, who’d subtly point out flaws in me and compare me to instagram models/ “fantasy women”. Thought I’d share the fit. So excited to focus on myself and redirect my love and energy to good things :)

I think I've got a good base but I'd like to take the outfit to the next level. I'd love to hear any advice folks here have for me!

Dyed pants recently and I think shirt goes pretty good with it!

Also tiny detail, i know the draw strings didn’t get dyed fully so kinda splotchy. It’s a little detail that’s bothering. idk what to do about that. Considering using a marker to making them darker maybe. Do you think it’d stand out too much?

I’m naturally a very light blonde and very straight passing. Does it look fine? Sorry for the weird lighting, it didn’t stick AMAZINGLY to the top but I do really like it :3

hi i’m relatively new to caring how i dress and i’m struggling to style these skirts. i don’t like labels but to describe myself i’m somewhere between chapstick and fem, sometimes more fem. bonus points if it’s acceptable in a casual corporate work environment! thanks <3

Hello my sapphic siblings! I wanted to see if anyone had good recommendations for places/shops to find fun button ups. I am an absolute sucker for a fun print on a button up that doesn’t feel like I’m wearing straight vinyl. I’ve tried thrift stores in my area with minimal success.

Thank you!

This was the outfit of choice for the night

I impulse bought these pants because they were actually long enough on me (I'm 6'1"), thinking I could make an outfit with them, but now that I'm actually trying to, I feel like they can't escape being, like, white soccer mom vibes.

I'd describe my style as flannel chapstick lesbian with a more alt leaning. I really only tried them with a simple black cami or a black blouse with a spider-web-esque collar; also tucked into doc martens (but they just made me look like a pirate? lol)

Monday- cleaning 😈
Tuesday- more clanging and packing
Wednesday- I’m home!!! 😆
Thursday- a bit more cleaning…
Friday- relaxing 😌
Saturday- grocery shopping
Sunday- going to a fairy… Forest…? Park…? thing!

My best friends birthday party .. themed “death to my 20s funeral”
Details I enjoyed.. dragon ring. My necklace matching with my bag. New lip tint. Tights!

going to the gay clubs tonight and i have been trying really hard to have going out outfits that make sense, works with my body shape, and aren’t basic

so im wondering if this ticks all the boxes??? not sure if i love the belt or if i should add more accessories?? any help, thoughts, whatever is so appreciated!!

also not sure sure what im gonna do with my hair yet so if anyone has ideas on that too that’d be great🩷

even the heteros at my v straight workplace were impressed

Hey gays, this is my first time putting a classy outfit together so i tried, i have a mullet and did a sort of italian slick back. How is this outfit and the hair? Any improvement? Ps. For shoes im wearing my low dr martens since they are classy

How’s to fix the fit? Maybe the shorts are the wrong shade? 🤔

I have too many options and don't know what to wear at all. it's a very casual wedding, the bride is wearing a burgandy dress so don't need to worry about the white shirt. a lot of my friends really like the green + brown combo but I kinda feel like it just looks like shaggy from scooby doo. help!

hi guys i want to get more into different scents/perfumes/colognes i could wear to smell good and hopefully impress the ladies. i’m open to most scents but no fruity scents. i think vanilla, woody, earthy type stuff would fit my personal vibe.

y’all have any recs that would be found at burlington, tjmaxx, marshall’s,etc? i’m a college student so funds are low🫩. maybe anything online less than $50 too?

thank you guys so muchhhh 🙏🏾😸

I’ve been loving wearing denim on denim, but it’s challenging to find the right shoe to go with it sometimes - for this one I wore chuck’s, but I feel like I can do better.