r/rollerderby • u/BitterMediocreSkater • 9h ago
How to handle feeling unsafe around newer skaters?
Alright. I know this is probably kind of dickish of me, maybe not, I’ll concede to yall on that but regardless- I’m struggling with feeling unsafe around newer skaters and getting annoyed by it.
I’m about a B level skater. This is my 4th year and 2nd-ish (2.5?) season. I’m by No Means a pro or a vet nor do I claim to even know what these people are even doing wrong exactly… I just am tired of being laid out and hurt by newbies who can’t fall forward and take out everyone near them by means of low blocking when they fall.
I’m struggling with it internally and haven’t talked to coaches about it because I don’t feel like it’s my place given that I’m not on the A team. I don’t care if I get knocked over by a big hit, or if I trip over someone else, or even if I get tripped by a veteran/“better” skater who’s fallen backwards - and I know that’s a me problem!
I just get SO frustrated when its certain newer skaters that I’ve noticed always fall backwards and always trip people. Like, if its a newer skater and its once or twice I don’t catch myself caring. But there are skaters I really love as humans, but that I feel So unsafe skating near because they cannot seem to fall in a way that doesn’t wipe out half the track and it always ends up hurting like a motherfucker.
ANYWAYS rant part over, can anyone lend some advice? How do I get the fuck over it? I’ve kept this to myself for fear of sounding like an ass to coaches or my closer teammates - but also am I even being an ass for feeling annoyed with and a little afraid of these people? Help pls.