r/teaching • u/Professional-Loan263 • 1h ago
Vent I can officially check "getting death threats from a parent" off of my teacher bingo card :)
So it's kind of just as the title says.
For context : Last school year, I had a student (A) attack another student (B). A choked B, like had B pinned to a wall and B's feet were off the ground. I, the gen ed teacher, and the BI were the only people in the room. We both were able to get the kids separated. A was arrested and B was sent to the hospital (they had a seizure from lack of oxygen to the brain). My BI and I were summoned to court about a week later and had to testify. While on the stand, I made sure to mention multiple times that A is a good kid, he just made a bad choice. The judge had A spend 5 weeks in JDC and was on probation for the summer.
Now, I don't teach A or B anymore. A moved to the high school side of my school and B moved to another state. However, at some point of the summer, A's mom convinced herself and A that I ALONE was the reason A spent time in JDC. You know, the teacher who barely makes enough money to pay rent is the reason your child who choked the fuck out of another kid for no reason spent time in JDC.
Last night, A's mom added a bunch of the students in A's class that I taught last year to a group chat and started texting about how I deserve to die and how she's going to come up to the school to deal with me. (I think this is funny because the BI literally said worse shit in court than I did, but she isn't wishing him death or threatening him). She was also trying to convince the other kids to attack me if they got the chance... which wouldn't happen because those kids each came up to me individually, telling me about the situation and how they just want me safe. They even showed admin the texts. They're my Velcro babies, even though I'm not their homeroom teacher anymore <3
So it's the second day of school, and I had to report this to admin. I'm now on damn protective watch until further notice... which means the SRO and admin have to check in on me at least 3 times a day, and A is not allowed near me. Which is hard because I assist with their ELA class AND frequently have lunch duty with them.
I kept joking with admin that I could check this off of my bingo card (because I am literally not scared or worried at all), so that's where the title comes from. We can only go up from here though! (I say, in SPED teacher fashion)