Sorry for the long story. Tw euthanasia decision.
Iāve worked in animal rescue for years. Iāve fostered puppies, adults and seniors, I havenāt found it too hard to be emotionally distant enough to make difficult euthanasia decisions when theyāre needed. Until this little guy⦠A 13 y/o Pom was surrendered to my work looking half dead to put it politely. From what Iāve been told, he spent most of his life living in a cage and may have been kept outside from puppyhood until around 4 years old too. There are no rescues where I live who could take him and my work will only cover a health check and vaccinations. Anything beyond that would be my responsibility if I took him in myself.
Iām fortunate to have a good income and can afford comfortably the petsā I have, but Iām also renting and trying to save. I donāt have unlimited money sitting around that I can throw at a dog, so Iām trying to be realistic rather than making an emotional decision because I feel so attached and bad for this little dude.
At his vet check I asked very directly, what do we know is wrong with him, should I euthanise him, is it unethical keeping him, or is he treatable and adoptable, whatās the more ethical option? We found out he has severe dental disease with only 4ā5 teeth remaining. The vet said a dental and extractions would resolve the dental problem and originally quoted $1,200ā$1,600 NZD, saying they could probably work with me to get it closer to $1,200.
He also has significant hair loss making him look worse than he is I guess, possibly alopecia X, and is very malnourished. The vet said this could be related to his previous neglect and difficulty eating because of his teeth, although there could also be an underlying nutritional disorder, time will tell. Heās on a good a high quality diet with me at the moment. He has some early arthritis too, but I only really notice it when he gets up after sleeping. I paid for bloodwork which came back completely clear. The vet did say that given his age and the overall picture, they wouldnāt be disagree with euthanasia based on the financial and welfare considerations. But medically, there wasnāt anything they felt was an obvious reason he needed to be euthanised now. The dental was the main issue. So after that appointment I had in my head how much Iād be willing to spend and I pretty much decided okay heās my dog. Iāll give him his retirement home.
Weāre now on day 10. He has an amazing appetite with me, loves exploring the yard, loves the sofa etc and is generally a very sweet little old man. He sleeps a LOT, but is overall happy from what I can tell. He wonāt be one for dog walks or cuddles on the sofa but is 80% of the time a chill lil man.
The problem is that Iāve just been called to book his dental, and the quote has jumped from $1.2ā1.6k to $1.8ā2k NZD. Iām assuming medication and other costs have been added, but the increase has really thrown me and I feel like the vet was dishonest with me.
I already spent around another $300 on him, plus the $200 Iāve spent on bloods and antibiotics. Suddenly Iām looking at $2k+ on a 13 year old dog who may have other potential unknown issues down the track.
Iām also looking at the other issues. He isnāt 100% toilet trained. He does leak/toilet in his crate overnight daily. He doesnāt have a UTI. He is entire and scent marks which seems like a big habit for him. He also growls when heās woken up in the evening and when I transfer him into his crate. I understand this as very typical abused senior dog behaviour and Iām comfortable managing it, I used to do behavioural work with dog for years, but it does mean finding a suitable house sitter when we travel which could be more difficult. Heās only 2kg, so at least heās easy to physically manage.
Iām planning to get quotes from other vets because the price increase has made me reconsider things and Iām pretty upset with my vets for misrepresenting costs imo. But I think what I really need is a reality check from people who have been involved in rescue/senior dog care. Am I being unreasonable or going too far by wanting to or not wanting to spend this kind of money on him with the other issues/porential issues?
Iām not looking for people to tell me what I want to hear. I genuinely want to know if Iām letting my emotional attachment override what is sensible for me and what even is sensible in this case. Iāve made euthanasia decisions for animals before but this guys story just gets me.