r/AdultGamers Feb 19 '26

Mod Announcement Self Promotion on the Subreddit

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Like many "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Self promotion could mean a product someone is trying to sell, streaming channels but most commonly its sharing Discord communities, dedicated game servers or recruiting for personal friend groups.

We understand some games require you to squad up and we're not saying you can't reach out to more than one person and coordinate to play together. What we don't allow is recruiting individuals for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc).

The point of the subreddit is for individuals to find other individuals to game with.

If you have questions, please reach out to ModMail and we can update this post with additional information. Thank you.


r/AdultGamers 13d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 37M, Canada. Realizing my lack of friends

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Hey all! I've been kind of going through the motions it feels with what to do these days. Spending some of them just scrolling my phone or Steam library wondering what to do until it's too late to do anything.

I'm a fan of sci-fi and fantasy mostly, but I dig most genres despite the medium. My music tastes tend to be pretty all over the place too so always down to share in your favourite too. I'm very left leaning as well for anyone who cares.

I'm in love with BG3 and wouldn't hesitate to play it again, but I'm honestly down for most games if the company is right.

PC, PS5 and Switch are my main haunts.

Would you like to know more?

Then shoot me a DM!


r/AdultGamers 6h ago

Looking for Gamers - GMT 34f Looking for fellow gamers

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Hey everyone! PC gamer, hoping to connect with some fellow fans who share my passion for horror. Playing Dead by Daylight a lot recently. It would be awesome to find people who also enjoy other genres, like thrillers or fps. I'm always on the lookout for new recommendations and discussions. Let me know if you're into spooky stuff and more! It'd be great to chat with some kindred spirits.


r/AdultGamers 12h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 45M Gamer dude

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(45m) Just here to see if anyone playing any of this games. I am pretty much a single player guy more than playing with a multiple players. I am not on PC everyday but sometime on the weekend. I am in EST timezone and basic opening most day and night on weekends. Rare on weeknight. Basic I am too old to play shooting games due with my hands issue. I am a pretty chill guy.

Here are some games I played:

satisfactory, 7 days to die, star valley, Minecraft.

Hit me up if other games I should try with multiplayer.


r/AdultGamers 6h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 37M - CO-OP players wanted

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Looking for gamers, Europe zone, but not picky, to start some Co-op games on PC like Peak, Minecraft and so. I watched some game plays and that is all, I will start from zero so... patience.

If u are interested to just laugh, have a good and stress time, send me a message or just go with the post. I have different times to play as job change rosters in a bad way.


r/AdultGamers 1h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29/M/CST/Xbox,PC chill vibes, genuine conversation and late night gaming.

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Howdy! I'm looking to hopefully meet someone who can both be my duo and a longterm friend. I'm avaliable at different times depending on my schedule for work. Some times I'm avaliable for like 72 hours straight and other times just night time or mornings.

A few things I’m into:

Gaming: WoW, Outlast Trials, R.E.P.O., survival games, and plenty of other stuff. I’m always willing to try something new.

I’m getting back into WoW after not playing for a while, so I’m basically relearning everything again. I’d love to find some chill people who are willing to play with me, show me the ropes, or even learn things together. I mostly just want to have fun, laugh at stupid things, and enjoy having people to play with again. That being said I’m also cool with making friends to play plenty of other stuff with. For me I am just looking for some genuine conversation, plenty of laughing and a good vibe.

Music: I listen to a pretty wide range of stuff and I’m constantly looking for new music, so I’m always down to trade recommendations or throw a playlist together. Would be pretty cool to find someone to jam with while playing or just hanging out day to day.

Horror: Movies, games, creepy stuff, lets have a horror movie night or something randomly.

Anime: Tokyo Ghoul, FMAB, Fire Force, Gachiakuta, and plenty of others. Always happy to get recommendations too.

Reading: Fantasy, mythology, and anything with a good story. I can absolutely disappear into a book and forget the outside world exists.

I like joking around and being goofy, but I also genuinely enjoy having deeper conversations about life, hobbies, random thoughts, goals, or whatever happens to come up.

You don't have to be a hardcore gamer, amazing at WoW, or into everything I like. Just be chill, willing to actually talk, and ready to have fun.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hey”. If you read this far down I appreciate you.


r/AdultGamers 13h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38M Looking to find a new gaming buddy for Grounded 2 plus others!

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Looking for a friend for Grounded 2 mainly, xbox preferred but as its cross play not a deal breaker for other platforms. Recently been wanting to play it but dont fancy doing it solo and none of my other friends are interested in it.

I'm 38M from the UK, on evenings and weekends, sometimes daytime. Been playing a variety of games recently such as ESO, some small indie games but find myself looking for someone else to play with. My gaming tastes vary a lot from co-op/friendslop like Subnautica 2, Phasmophobia, to a lot of single player with the Mass Effect trilogy being my all time favourite. I dont really do horror games, they just dont appeal to me, and not a huge fan of competitive multiplayer either but will play them sometimes.

I wont pretend to be very good at games, never have been, just here to enjoy them although sometimes can come in clutch!

Comment or DM, either's fine.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 40M/US/EST/PC Looking for adventuring friend!

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My main game is Final Fantasy XIV, but I've been playing a lot of EverQuest Legends lately. I'm getting back into playing Conan Exiles a little bit and I also play a lot of MTG Arena and Granblue Fantasy Relink. Another game I would get back into with someone is Destiny 2 or Monster Hunter Wilds. I like to voice chat, but don't feel like I need to always be talking. I'm very available, emotionally mature, and I just want to game with someone fun and chill. I like to talk about anime, existential topics, philosophy, art, music, etc. I'm pretty easy to get along with. Let's game!


r/AdultGamers 23h ago

Looking for Gamers - [PST West Coast] 38M PST Xbox looking for

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Hey y'all. 38M here playing on Xbox Series X. I don't play incredibly much as I work and have a 3 year old toddler. But I'm looking for some people to maybe play some chill games with. I'm honestly not dead set on any game in particular. Hell I don't even know what games are co-op anymore lol. I do enjoy the likes of Diablo 4, Overcooked, Borderlands, Fallout, CoD Zombies.

I may be up for buying a game to play with someone, but I also have a lot of games downloaded and have GamepPass ultimate as well. So I'm sure we can find something to play. I'm not looking for crazy multiplayer. Just looking for chill vibes, some conversation, some fun and a reason to play my Series X more. Also I do have a mic. So hit me up if you think we might get along, throw me some game ideas. Maybe we can make this a thing.

I would normally be able to play nightly after 8 pm PST depending on what my life looks like that day. But I'd be able to game most nights.

Thank you all for reading this, and I hope to see you in a game lobby real soon!


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Anyone Else Tired of Playing Games Alone? 29M East Coast

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Hey! I’m a pretty laid-back guy from Virginia who’s getting a little tired of playing games solo and would love to meet some new people. I’m 29 and figured I’d put myself out there and see who I might meet. 😊

I’m totally happy making online friends, but if you’re somewhere around Virginia/Northern Virginia, even better! It’d be cool to eventually have people nearby to game with, grab some food, hang out, or just chill.
For games, I’m usually playing Apex Legends (Gold), Enshrouded, Voyagers of Nera, Baldur’s Gate 3, or Lethal Company. I’m also always down to try something new if it looks fun.

I’m not really a super competitive or sweaty gamer. I’m more into having a good time, joking around, talking about random stuff, and getting to know the people I’m playing with. Honestly, the conversation and company are just as important to me as the game itself.

I’d love to meet people who are down to actually become friends rather than just play a couple matches and disappear. If we click, maybe we can eventually hang out in person too.
If that sounds like your vibe, feel free to comment or DM me! 🎮


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [pst NA] Since there is no subreddit for /ancientgamers I thought I'd give this a try. 51yo guy. Been gaming since 1981. 😐

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Looking for fellow gamers who share my tastes and might wanna group up for some gaming. Like the title says, if it was a console and mass produced after 1981, i probably played something on it. Now i game on pc via Steam. My gaming tastes are pretty varied and I'm down to buy almost anything if the reviews are good. Usually i dont buy games full price though. I wait for sales.

I'm available most weekdays for 1-5 hours btween 5pm pst. til about midnight.

Please be an adult not only in age. Just dont be a jerk. I'm usually a bit stoned when i play, and fair warning i swear like a sailor. Oh, and if you frequently use slurs of any kind in your speech for any reason whatsoever then move on. (This is the #1 reason by far why i stop gaming with others.)

I'll just list some of my favorite games from past to present to give you an idea of my tastes.

Overwatch

Cyberpunk

Fallout series (4 and NV are my faves)

Palworld

Red dead series (my all time #1)

Civilization (V in particular)

Far cry series

State of decay 2 (i was late to the party. Recently discovered. Love it)

Wasteland 3

Xcom series

Final Fantasy series

Arc raiders

Total war series

Mass effect series

Witcher series

Elder scroll series (IV and V mostly)

So you can see i lean heavy to rpgs, turn based strategy and a few fps mixed in. But i also play sports games, racing games, puzzle based games, and played many mmorpgs over the years. Just not in about 10 years. 😅

If you are pretty chill and consider yourself a generally nice person, and share a lot of the same game tastes as me, hit me up! Send me a dm on reddit.

(Feel free to comb through my profile to make sure I'm not some weirdo. I'm mostly a lurker, but pretty vanilla for reddit.)


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CST] 35M / CST / PS5 & PC - Looking for a chill, low-stress gaming duo or squad

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Ayoooo,

Hope you’re having a solid day so far!

I work from home with a pretty flexible schedule, which gives me plenty of downtime to game, but playing solo gets old fast. I’m looking to connect with some cool, low-stress people to build a genuine, long-term gaming friendship with, jump on voice chat, laugh off stupid mistakes, and just have fun.

I play on PS5 and Steam and stick strictly to casual vibes. I game to decompress, unwind, and have a good time after work, definitely not to sweat, rage quit, or take things too seriously 😅

My go-to rotation right now is Dead by Daylight, Fortnite unranked ZB, and Stardew Valley when I want to fully chill out. I also have PS+ Extra and a solid Steam library, so I’m always open to downloading and trying new co-op, survival, or horror titles if we vibe.

Outside of gaming, I’m big into staying active, watching horror movies, listening to podcasts, trivia, and talking about random life stuff, psychology, or philosophy. I also love animals and have pets, so pet pics in chat are always welcome.

A few quick preferences: please be 21+, 420 friendly, and looking for someone to actually game and hang out with consistently rather than playing once and disappearing.

If you think we'd get along, shoot me a DM with a quick intro, your age, what platform/games you're on, and tell me your absolute favorite comfort snack so I know you made it all the way to the end.

Hope to run some games soon 🤙🏼


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CT] 33M | Casual Gaming

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I mainly play on PS5, but have a PC too. My close friends don't like playing anything else other than sports games (which I do play madden, cfb, and FC). But I am looking for some other people to play some games with potentially too! Mainly looking to play with women. I have enough inappropriate convos with the guys, would be nice to have normal convos for a change..

I'm usually on later at night (depends on the day on how early/late) since I am married with 2 kids and a full time job.

Games I have been wanting to play with my buddies, but they won't play cause they "like girls" lol...

  • Grounded 2
  • Valheim (when it hits PS5 on 9/9)
  • Battlefield 6
  • Ready or Not
  • Halo Campaign Evolved
  • 7 Days to Die
  • Borderlands 4 (haven't gotten far in it yet)
  • Balders Gate 3 (beat it once solo, but still fun to play through)
  • Phasmophobia
  • Minecraft (start up a realm?)
  • ESO
  • FO76
  • No Man's Sky

Laundry list of games for sure, but just tossing out ideas of what I like to / would like to play with others.

Gamertag: DrTouchYouRight

  • on ALL platforms: xbox (which I don't use anymore), ps5, steam, snapchat, discord, etc.

r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35M // Trying to make friends for socializing and playing games, No low effort here

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So yeah like i said, I’m 35 and looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few friends on Discord.

Preference is 20+ Im not trying to fall in love with you, so it doesnt matter to me lol

From Tennessee, my favorite foods are Pizza, Cheese dip, and Lasagna. Top 3 movies, The Thing, No country for old men, Bladerunner. I dont have many hobbies anymore but im trying to gain new ones now that im finally settled in life, maybe try to get back into old ones.

Most of my longtime friends have either moved on to different platforms/consoles, have different schedules now, or life has just gotten in the way. So I figured I’d put myself out there and see who I might click with.

I primarily play Xbox. I’m into horror games and RPGs, with The Elder Scrolls and Souls series being some of my favorites. Right now I’ve been playing ARC Raiders, and I just downloaded Once Human, so I’m about to jump into that.

Outside of gaming, I’m into metal/heavy metal and classic rock. I’m also much more of a winter/rain person than a hot, sunny-weather person. Give me a cold rainy day over 95° and sunny any time.

Personality wise, Im very social, usually dont have a problem chatting up strangers but at the same time I can still be introverted. I guess it all depends on the situation. When I’m comfortable around someone I’m very outgoing. I like joking around and I’m usually pretty good at making people laugh. Dark humor, dry humor, goofy humor.

I’m not really looking for anything specific beyond meeting some decent people to talk to, game with, talk about random stuff in life, and hopefully build some actual friendships.

If any of that sounds like we’d get along, feel free to message me.

My dc is .handsome.jack.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30M - Balkans

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Hello everyone! I posted a pic of my favorite games so if you think we might have something in common, feel free to dm me or whatever.

Due to nature of the work(working on a ship), i’m available in various timezones + i don’t have that much time for gaming, but when i’m at home(GMT+2), i spend a lot of my free time on playing games. I currently own Xbox Series X, along with a gaming laptop and a Switch, so i play on several platforms 🤣 i’m looking for casual company to play with or even just to chat about games.

I’ve been checking the rulebook and i hope i haven’t breached any guidelines or group rules with this post or photo or other details.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 26M [EST] Just looking to see more people online!

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For the most part, I just want to add and see more people online. I’m also curious to see what everyone is playing. I mostly play single player story and indie games (currently playing SMTV Vengeance, played the GOW trilogy & The Talos Principle before that, have played countless other games and have an endless backlog), but I’m open to playing multiplayer games with anyone who wants to. I’m also hoping to fine people to play co op story games with! Feel free to message me your PSN ID or ask for mine!


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 41M TX/ CST- Sunday gaming friends.

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Most of my gaming friends have stopped playing as much, or all together, as time has gone on. Used to play fortnite the most but now toggle between Arc Raiders and Palworld. I only game myself on Sundays as I'm normally too busy every other day of the week. Oh and I'm on Xbox.

Lastly I'm up front about if we arent meshing so I'll let ya know and not just stop playing. I hope for you to be the same way.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35/m/Cst LF gaming friends.

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Little about myself 35 male looking for people to play some games with. I have Xbox ps5 and pc. Been playing palworld lately. My work schedule makes it hard to game all day and night so if that’s a bad thing I’m sorry. Looking for people to play some games with and just chill and relax. Me and my son (26) game and hangout and talk on discord. I have a wide variety of games and I’m not stuck to 1 game or genre. I am married and have kids so please be respectful and courteous. If interested send me a message.

Looking for 26+ male or female doesn’t matter. I’m not asking for your every bit of attention cause you won’t always get mine. Even if we aren’t playing the same game just hangout on discord with us and talk.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38m est FL PC/PS5/ xbox pc or just chatting

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good morning,

second ever post so here we go!

looking for people to play games with or chat with. i usually play pc because i always have that around but i do have ps5 i can play on my days off and i have xbox pass for pc for 3months when i decide to activate that.

currently into soulsframe atm but im looking to get into the first descendants again. im always up for free to play games but i do buy stuff on steam on discounts. future games i plan to try are aniimo, aion 2, path of exile 2 when its free, guild wars 3 if they go free to play and more. i also play alot of single player games and im excited for gta 6 and the next final fantasy 7!!! The only genre of games i don't play is sports games and realistic racers but love racers like need for speed or forza.

outside of games i like most entertainment(tv, movies, music, etc) anime tho i haven't watched any new in a lot of years but i kinda keep up with it still. big animal lover and have 2 dogs. not to big on exploring outside my house but doesn't mean i wont. just kinda easy going and chill.

chat wise i haven't used discord in a long time but i have it, if we connect i dont mind texting alot and im up for voice chat when i can.

lost track of what im doing thanks to YouTube.... so i guess ill end it here lol. all ages welcome and location isn't to big of a deal since my gaming times are kinda random unless im off work. umm... enjoy your day!


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32M EU looking for CoD buddies

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32M, EU, looking for people to game with regularly. Currently playing BO7 and Warzone, also testing MW4 and will play it when released.

Outside gaming I’m interested in tech, software development, psychology, music, series/TV, reading.

Looking to make friends, not just fill a squad. I’m not the best, so K/D doesn’t matter too much. If we click, happy to keep gaming and chatting beyond CoD.

DM or comment if interested.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35M NZ, Online - Looking for friends, gaming buddies :)

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I’m 35M from NZ, looking for some genuine online friends and gaming buddies to chat with regularly, and possibly become long term friends. I’m definitely more on the quiet and shy side at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m pretty easy going and enjoy talking about games, life, gym and dieting, memes, music, TV. I enjoy joking around and having fun, but also can do more deep conversation.

I like to play a variety of different games from horror, co-op, survival horror, shooters, souls games, competitive shooters. And I’m always happy to try new games and enjoy company when gaming. My go to games are overwatch, helldivers 2, darktide, phasmo in VR, any fun coop or comp shooters, keen for valo if your Oceania located. I'm also keen to try my hand at marvel rivals, have resisted it as I have spent so long learning overwatch but I'm keen to give it a go.

A few things about me:

Enjoy PC gaming
Love going to the gym
Exercise in general
Dieting right now, but love cooking
TV shows and movies (horror)
Music mainly metal and punk

Mostly just hoping to find people who are kind, genuine, and want an actual long term friendship. But I always understand we all have lives too and have things get in the way sometimes. If any of that sounds interesting please send me a dm can't wait to hear from you :).


r/AdultGamers 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CST/EST/IDM] 28F/PC/CST - Looking for some gaming buddies

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Hi there, I'm Chilly. It's been a long time since I've posted here, but recently I've found myself wanting some regular friends to hang out with so I thought I'd come looking. Gaming is my main hobby, followed by watching movies and shows. I'm a completionist/achievement hunter, but that doesn't mean you have to be. I just like doing it for fun and try-harding when I feel the itch. My specialties are survivals and horrors, but I'm pretty varied when it comes to the games I have - basically, if I like it, it's going in the library. What matters more to me is the people I'm doing it with.

Right now I'm working on a few games in trying to 100% my library, so if you want some background noise, a body double, or you want to hop in when multiplayer allows, I'm definitely open to sharing. My big personal focuses right now are Escape the Backrooms, Getting Over It, and Ori and the Blind Forest (my favorite game). But I have a ton of other games I can't/won't play because of not having people, like Content Warning, RV There Yet, Peak (need to re-plat again), Phas, etc.

I'm a bit low energy writing this post right now, but if you see this and you happen to be interested, I'll try to wrap up with a strong finish - I'm really hoping to make some friends that are long-term and are actually interested in talking things out if they come up, and having a good time. I don't want to be the one that reaches out all the time, and I'm a bit burnt out at the moment from exactly that. If you're in the same spot as me, maybe we can help each other. Regardless of what we play, I really just want people to show up.

💙 Chilly


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M29 - looking for friends to game with!

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Hey there!

I am a 29 year old male from Denmark. So gmt +1 which means I do play mostly in the evenings around 8-11 pm. I play mostly on PS5 but also on PC from time to time.

I love to game, and often I am also a big fan of just playing by myself. However I do sometimes have the want to play with others so this is my way of seeing if I could find someone.

In terms of games it is mostly racing and various sports games that I like to play multiplayer in. Some favorites in those genres are:

- Gran Turismo

- Dirt Rally

- EA FC

- MLB the show

- NBA 2k

- Golf games

I do also play GTA 5 but have not really gotten into the online bit for the same reason that I didn't really have anyone to play with.

I do have a child and a wife so the times to play are not all the time, but I am sure we would be able to figure something out.

If you feel we could be gaming buddies do hit me up!

- J


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CST] 39M | USA, Central Time, GMT +5 | PC and Switch 2

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Heya! I’ve been on the hunt for more online friends. My old group I’ve been with for years has kind of splintered up, changed schedules, or just plain gotten too busy to get together to the point it’s been over a year since we’ve had a gaming session together.

Up until now I’ve mostly been playing single player. But it’s been so long since I’ve been in a proper multiplayer game, and I’m getting that itch again!

I am almost entirely a PC gamer; I have a huge library and a good amount of multiplayer games. Recently bought a Switch 2, though! It’s the first console I’ve bought since Gamecube.

As far as my tastes for multiplayer, I greatly prefer PvE and cooperative games and am looking for things more on the chill side.

I’m a bit of a sucker for Survival Crafting games, cozy type games, and roguelikes. I also enjoy horde games like Vermintide 2 or Deep Rock Galactic. This is the list of games that I currently have that I’m interested in playing with other people:

Survival Crafting:

Abiotic Factor

Enshrouded

Palworld

V Rising

Valheim

Grounded

Project Zomboid

Don’t Starve Together

Beat’em Ups:

Fight’N Rage

Streets of Rage 4

TMNT: Shredder’s Revenge

Horde Clearing:

Darktide

Vermintide 2

Deep Rock Galactic (and Rogue Core)

Gunfire Reborn

Helldivers 2

Other mentions:

Stardew Valley

Monster Hunter Wilds

Grim Dawn

The Riftbreaker

Remnant II

Sephiria

No Rest for the Wicked

I’ve also got a good number of party games like Party Animals, Boomerang Fu, Ultimate Chicken Horse, some Jack Box games, etc. Not to mention probably a whole lot of other multiplayer games I’m probably not even thinking of.

As far as Switch 2 goes, I’ve got the following games:

Pokopia

Super Mario Bros Wonder

Super Mario Party Jamboree

Smash Bros Ultimate

Kirby Air Riders

Mario Kart 8 Deluxe

Yoshi and the Mysterious Book

Star Fox

Splatoon Raiders

Metroid Dread

Xenoblade Chronicles 1

Zelda BotW

Zelda TotK

Looking forward to hearing from people!