Hello folks. Addressin recent "Advice" posts over the last few days, some of those have elicted a visceral rage in most of us. We appreciate those of you whom have been able to see the bigger picture of whats at stake and make helpful comments on those posts who's actions or prior inactions elicit anger and outrage. And we thank you fer reportin rule-breakin content.
We all have big hearts fer the kitty cats. Sometimes, the fate of a kitty cat rests in the hands of those whom can redirect OP's behavior to a concept they had not considered before, tangable suggestions such as explicitly statin the name of a rescue/ shelter or how to find one. This is rescue work over the internet. And if you need to vent over how frustratin things are, make a post (minus the namin people while followin reddit and sub rules). Do not vent in someone else's advice post.
The context with the recent difficult advice posts has been the kitty could be dumped or killed. Criticisms, shamin, hostility towards OP only help you feel good about yourself fer tellin someone off. You may even feel like an "advocate." but there is a turnin point when advocacy needs to pause and "rescue work" in the form of advice and practical suggestions must take place. Angry or backhanded comments frequently have the opposite effect on OP by them not wantin to engage to work through on findin a good solution and drivin them closer to choosin to dump or allow kitties to be killed.
It doesn't really matter if the OP made a post thoughtlessly unaware we would see red or that they posted bravely knowin that pitchforks would rise. They are askin fer advice and help. They are seekin the best way forward. Your comments can dissuade them from seekin help altogether or nudge them closer to keepin kitties alive and housed. Those are the stakes. Dumped or killed. Or in a home and alive.
The anger, the outrage over the fate of these kitty cats, we get it. You are not the only one who is pissed off. Your mod team isn't immune to or desensitized to it either. I myself lost my cool and went all caps at one point. And I had other things I wanted to type that would violate reddit's sitewide rules. Sometimes we need a gentle reminder to keep the big picture in sight, and the goal is savin those kitty cats by offerin advice and/ or encouragement.
To our newer folks on the sub, we welcome you and the mod team thanks you fer bein able to keep your personal rage in check and add helpful comments fer these difficult posts that could determine kitties find a home and stay alive.
To our trusted advocates u/washington_705, u/BigJSunshine, and u/paisleycatperson thank you fer months of bein supportive of others when they need support and keepin your cool offerin advice while seein the bigger picture of what is at stake with the blood boilin advice posts of late.
Fer everyone, what things have ticked you off in cat advice posts across reddit; what was your response? What helps you or would help refocus and stay calm?