My last review seemed to strike a nerve with some people. Oh well can’t please everyone. Not everyone is going to like everything. Again I’ll state I go into these with a completely open mind and don’t do any research until I finished watching. This was another first watch for me.
I knew a little bit about this movie going in. As in I know it was about a young white woman and an approaching middle age black man who meet and get engaged on vacation, and come home to spring it on mom and dad. I was expecting a lot of outdated point of views on racism and specifically interracial relationships. But what I got was a really smart film. Dialogue that was so far ahead of its time, that was delivered through thoughtful and passionate performances.
Katharine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy were tremendous in their roles as the liberal minded parents, who were shocked to say the least when their daughter comes home to San Francisco to tell them, I am engaged to a black man that I just met. Joey Drayton played by Katharine Houghton was the naive, worry free, and happy go lucky daughter. She was grew up in the liberal city of San Francisco. Yes this was still during the civil rights movement but it's a far cry from the Deep South and most of the country. Her parents were staunch liberals, and Joey was raised by their black maid/cook/nanny, Tilly. But even being as "open minded" as they believed themselves to be the minute a black man was presented as their possible future son in law. There was an initial state of shock, but when Spencer Tracy finally gathers his thoughts and speaks up about his concerns. It wasn't the typical they are beneath us, or we should be with our people talk. It was more of a concern of the problems they will face in the future being mixed race. His main concern was protecting his daughter from the ugliness in the world. As a father I get that. It really was an unexpected take and I didn't expect THAT to be the focus of everyone.
Hepburn sold all of her emotions with her eyes. The shock and confusion in the beginning. Later on the love when she saw the love that they had for each other. The anger when her husband couldn't see it. Then again the happiness when Tracy makes a complete turn to support the couple. On the flip side Tracy's face said everything. It was so animated. You could watch the movie on mute and see every emotion in his expressions. His speech to close out the movie was masterfully delivered. As was every interaction he had with every male character in the movie. His character was always always respectful to Poitier's. He addressed him as a man, an equal. Not as a black man that was beneath him. Poitier being black was never a reason he wasn't good enough for his daughter. In fact Poitier being good enough for his daughter was never the issue.
I was really excited to see Poiter as Dr. Prentice. I have seen some of his work and I have always wanted to dive deeper into his roles. But for most of the movie in my opinion he didn't have much to do. He was almost a prop so all of these other characters could go through the series of emotion from shock to acceptance and everything inbetween. Then his parents fly in for dinner. The conversation Dr Prentice and his father played by Roy E Glenn had in the study was so powerful. Especially the way it cuts to Mrs. Prentice played by Beah Richards and Spencer Tracy having a parallel conversation to the one being had inside. Poitier really shines in this scene. The words hold true today. I was born to immigrant parents, the weight of my parents journey into and in America is a weight that has been thrown around my whole life. I feel like I have had this conversation many times in my life. When Portier finishes his speech with, "you see yourself as a colored man, I see myself as a man." I was in tears. Amazingly acted and amazing dialogue.
Everyone in this movie shines. My only real complaint is Joey Drayton. Her character seemed one dimensional the whole movie. Just insanely optimistic and oblivious to race relations in America. She was annoyingly positive. But she looked gorgeous while being annoyingly positive, shrug.
Tilly the maid not wanting an uppity black man snatching up the girl she raised since a baby was an interesting and accurate take. Racism and classism existed and exists in America. But classism exists in our own races and ethic groups. Again this was something I was not expecting. So many surprises.
Immediately when the two fathers agreed that the two were crazy and rushing into things, while the mothers seemed to be on the side of love. I was reminded of the meeting of the parents in Father of the Bride. I know there was a kooky comedy remake with Bernie Mac and Ashton Kutcher. But I haven't seen it and refuse to. So that all I have to say about that. All in all I love the movie. An extremely well written and masterfully acted script on a race relations set during the civil rights movement in America. I was very surprised to find the script was written by a white man, William Rose. The discussions being had were very smart, and makes me wonder what experiences he had in his life to be able to so accurately write them. Great movie would watch again. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️