Hey everyone, i’m making this post hoping someone can help me figure out what i’m doing wrong and how i can get my hair back to how it looked about a year ago.
for most of my childhood, i always kept my hair really short, so i had no idea that my hair was actually wavy/curly. Last year i decided to grow it out, and as it got longer, it naturally started becoming wavy and then curly. this was honestly the first time i realised i had some texture in my hair.
at that time, i started using shampoo + conditioner (random) for my hair and also got a curl gel. but the problem was that whenever i used those products, i felt like i was getting a lot more hair fall and i also had pretty bad dandruff. eventually i got fed up with it and decided to cut my hair( zero cut), hoping the dandruff would go away and i could start taking better care of my hair from scratch.
i cut my hair in december, and now it has finally grown out to a decent length again. the problem is that my hair isn't curling/waving like it used to.
earlier, i used completely random shampoo and conditioner and somehow my hair had much better curls. now i'm actually using a curl shampoo, curl conditioner, hair cream and then hair gel, but somehow things have become worse in terms of definition.
the products are definitely making my hair more moisturised than before, which is good, but now my hair takes forever to dry and becomes extremely silky/soft. it feels like the products are weighing my hair down. my hair doesn't hold its shape, it just falls flat, and the curls don't really form even though i'm following the usual curly-hair routine.
what confuses me even more is how differently my hair behaves depending on what i use:
shampoo only: extremely frizzy and looks almost straight
shampoo + conditioner: very silky and straight/flat
curl products: moisturised but very heavy, takes forever to dry and loses its shape and not curly not even wavy
sometimes my hair randomly becomes wavy/curly, but other times it looks almost completely straight
i genuinely don't know what i'm doing wrong .
i'd really appreciate some advice from people who have gone through something similar. how can i get my hair back to how it looked a year ago? should i be using fewer products? could i be over-moisturising my hair or using products that are too heavy for my hair?
also, i'd really like help figuring out what my actual hair type is. i'm guessing somewhere around 2a/2b, but i'm honestly not sure.
any advice about routine, products, washing, styling technique or figuring out my hair type would be really appreciated. i just want to understand my hair better and get those natural waves/curls back.