Nearly debt free... only thing left is my mortgage. It was a multi year journey. Spent all my money that I made in my 20s and had a blast. Had the debt royale flush going into my 30s and decided to change course, get serious, and do something that future me would thank me for. Basically followed the snowball method, paid off smaller debts first, starting with the credit cards, then the car note, then the student loans, then my condo.
Then I bought a larger condo. That's the mortgage that I carry today - and I rent out the previously paid off condo for long term cash flow as I shift from paying loans to saving for retirement. And I did it all myself, no spouse, not living at home, and no roommates after college.
I even paid back my mother, who didn't have much income at the time, but she gave me about 1k when I was at my poorest, which was the year after I finished college so I could have groceries and gas for a bit longer. I paid her back $1,500 and she was like, what's this money for. I said, paying you back the money you lent me when I was a student. She accepted it and was thankful - but she didn't even remember giving it to me or that I owed her anything. I carried it on my conscious for 20 years and she didn't remember it. That's life.
Yes, it took me 20 years to pay off my student loans (private undergrade and out of state grad school). I never missed a single payment, not during the great recession or COVID. My father was the co-signer on those loans, and I was very proud to tell him it was paid off so he didn't need to worry since he's long since retired. He was appreciative but seemed to have put it out of his mind a long time ago. I think it was a 30 second conversation with him. No big parade, no party, just "okay thanks for letting me know".
Out of all the debts paid, the student loans was the most emotionally satisfying. Owning a home and a car is also satisfying don't get me wrong, but in a different way, more like psychological safety, as it feels like that's my floor. If everything goes to hell, I always have that place to live and that car to fall back on that nobody can take away (yes, I know property taxes).
Now the name of the game is retirement, all that savings going into tax deferred plans. All that interest expense saved that's going to me instead of some bank and then gaining interest of it's own. Now the only thing left to do is not screw it up. Thanks for reading.