The title sums it up. I'm a 24F and I am constantly freaking out about my personal finances and losing sleep over working a 8-4 and side hustles and being utterly exhausted and it feels like I'm still not making enough.
For context, I am a singer and I got my undergraduate degree in Vocal Performance and Theatre Arts before moving to a larger city to pursue my artistic career (I really dont want to argue with people about "choosing a bad major" so keep those thoughts to yourself please). I had help with paying for my degree so I have no student loans luckily, and I have always considered myself financially savvy but a couple recent emergencies have really put a bad taste in my mouth. My cat had to be hospitalized and unfortunately the entire expenses added up to $15K (again, I dont want to hear that I shouldve put her down or something) and I have a couple doctors expenses that are going to total around $3k out of pocket by the end of the year. Luckily, Ive been working since highschool and I saved everything I made in an emergency fund that was $9k and I have family who loaned me the extra money for my cat so I wouldn't have credit card debt, but the expectation is to pay them back about $5k whenever I can. So I'm feeling stressed about needing $8k more and rebuilding my emergency fund, which I now want to be between 15-20k because yeeeesh what a vet bill.
I am currently working 32-40 hours a week at an 8-4 making $17 an hour, I teach private lessons and workshops at a music school for about 2-8 hours a week making $30 an hour (and will hopefully be working more as I get more students), and I work a social media side hustle that gives me $50 a month (this one is just fun and less than an hour of work a week). I am actively performing so I have about 10 hours of rehearsal each week as well, not paid other than a very small stipend, but as you can see my schedule has gotten overwhelming very quickly and I am constantly exhausted.
Financially, I expect to make around $2,200 a month. I have no car payment, no student loans, and not any outstanding expenses that are immediate other than paying back my family so all my monthly money is divided up like this.
Rent- $650
Transportation/Gas - $150
Groceries - $200
Eating out - $100
My cat - $100
Laundry - $20
Subscriptions - $12
Performance things (like voice lessons) - $200
House maintenance - $50
Personal expenses - $100
Fun money - $75
So totaling about $1657 for regular expenses, that leaves me with around $543 a month of extra money. I am currently putting $100 a month into my emergency fund and just started my Roth at $75 a month so we are down to $367. I also have a dear friend's birthday this week so I'm planning on spending about $200 total for their birthday expenses (plus I feel like we can assume around this much comes up in random unexpected expenses), so that leaves me with $167 a month extra.
This feels like next to nothing when looking at such big goals like paying back my family and rebuilding my fund. I was going to begin auditions for graduate school this year but will have to pay for all the planes and auditions myself so I dont even know if i can afford to go to school and not be working while I'm paying this off. I think I just am hoping someone will tell me I'm on the right track (or wrong track!) with my thinking and budgeting, but I would love any and all advice on what to move around in my budget. Thank you guys so much!!