r/EngineeringStudents • u/GoldDistribution447 • 27m ago
Rant/Vent I am at a loss
So I was just in here a few days ago about working loads of hours while in school. Well now I have a new issue, or so it feels like…
So I am a mechanical engineering student (second-year) for some context. It has been a dream of mine to be an engineer although when I was younger, I could never put my finger on why I wanted to be an engineer. I kind of thought of engineers as the cool people that make pretty much everything and I wanted to hop on that train and be a part of the engineering industry.
Well.. I have been having some second thoughts. Do I want to do mechanical engineering? I don’t know. I am stuck between civil and mechanical engineering because I think I like the construction side of things, HOWEVER…
My parents are kind of getting to me. They tell me that maybe I am not cut out for engineering and that I am losing passion. And I think it’s taken a toll on me. I cannot get back into the “I can do it!” mindset. It’s making me depressed. On top of that, it’s been an expectation for me to do summer classes and work full time. I did that this summer. But the issue is is that since graduating high school, I feel like it’s nonstop. I have been taking summer classes every semester since starting junior year of high school for dual enrollment and now that expectation has followed me into college.
I don’t think that I am losing passion, I think it’s more of being burnt out rather than losing passion. My other issue is that my father keeps telling me that I am going to end up being a science teacher. Like, numerous times a week. He’s told my entire family about it and they keep telling me about it.
TL;DR: I am having “a little less than a quarter” life crisis and don’t know what to do and my parents are putting it into my head that I am not cut out for engineering and that I need to go into another profession.

