Cons list might help, but pros list destroyed me personally. Having to go through all the good just made me forgot about the bad.
I think focusing on the bad is important not to idealise the other person. Not make them the villain, just realise they weren't perfect.
This list with both options is actually better way if you are tempted to break up to find things to keep trying.
So in that case I would advise you not to. As mentioned, having to go through all the good and the happy moments actually made me suffer more. Just do the "cons".
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u/Brynhildr16 17h ago
Cons list might help, but pros list destroyed me personally. Having to go through all the good just made me forgot about the bad. I think focusing on the bad is important not to idealise the other person. Not make them the villain, just realise they weren't perfect.
This list with both options is actually better way if you are tempted to break up to find things to keep trying.