mine really isn’t horrible. most of the straight guys there either don’t care or support(which is suprising considering it is a catholic dominated school and even saying the word gay will get you a write up). I do have this homophobe who picks on me at PE, things like whispering “im going to shove my finger up his ass” Dont threaten me with a good time. I also go to a youth grou (a place where a bunch of catholics go to a place after school for worship) and it isnt that horrible and the only homophobe is the guy leading the youth group. I’d say my life in a red state is pretty good compared to the average. what about you?

So much has unfolded between my childhood bff and I over the last 2 months (late July through August), and this weekend, he told me that he likes me, but he's scared of actually dating me cause he doesn't wanna ruin the dynamic of our friend group. I told him that I feel the exact same way. Apparently we both started feeling an attraction towards each other on the very same day. He asked if we should just ignore it and I said ignoring it wouldn't really make sense cause we both know how we feel abt each other, then I suggested taking things slowly and seeing how it plays out, he didn't respond to that.

We haven't really texted each other as much as we do, but we saw each other today at school, and didn't say anything to each other, we just hugged. He initiated the hug. It was longer than our usual hugs and he held on tighter than he normally does

It’s the first of the month, so it’s time for the monthly mental health check-in.

I would like to say I’m doing good, but honestly, that would be a lie. I’ve just been getting sadder and sadder. I think having a friend would help, and it does, but only a little.

I get pretty jealous of people my age when I see how happy they are while I’m just sitting here feeling sad. It’s hard for me to remember the last time I actually had a good time, but it’s really easy for me to remember the last time I cried. That was literally an hour ago at school.

People always say, “It gets better,” but honestly, it doesn’t feel that way for me. Ever since I moved to Florida, my life has felt like it’s gotten worse and worse.

But enough about me. How are you guys doing? I’d love to hear your stories. Some of the stories you guys share honestly put a smile on my face.

I dont wanna go into too much personal detail. But im getting really frustrated with my situation so I wanna rant.

Im a teenager so naturally I wanna start dating. But my family makes it FUCKING IMPOSSIBLEEEEE, because they all introduce me to people as a girl (Granted some of them dont know, but some of them do. And they say they support but apparently im too young and dumb to understand, so they call me a girl.)

So basically im stuck in this werid in-between, whenever I have a crush on a boy he thinks im a girl, and im too shy to tell him. And I also don't wanna tell him because what if he has feelings for me, and i ruin it by telling him im trans??

It's kinda humiliating, I definitely feel more confident in myself now that im later in my transition. But this shatters that confidence like so fast, it's AWFUL.

Singapore schools suck

Idw my o levels to come

Id rather sleep in all day

Sept holidays come sooner

I had my first day back at school today the semester seems like it will be fun. And there is a guy in my forensics class that I think is gay idk he just sets off my gaydar, I do already know him from elementary school but he went to online school but know he's back

Hope he's gay because he is cute :3

Sorry if I'm being weird

(Didn't know what to tag this)

today I'm gonna start the gym lol, my goal is mainly improve my body and my physical condition, wish me luck!!!

our relationship started off as a joke

the date was 7/7 and in hindi it means saat-saat which means 'together' and we got together

but to the main point

well

yeah

im still with him

sounds bad

but okay

we have been dating for about 2 months now

and

i have genuinely fallen very deeply with him

but he told me

that he had exchanged nudes and stuff with another guy during the early days of the relationship and I okay

it's fine

but i found out yesterday it was till 30th July that he was talking to that guy...

we started dating on 7th July

for 23 fkin days...

it hurts alot

but what hurts more is that he said. 'i love you' to that guy

and well

like any same man

i talked to that guy and found out that he was genuinely into my bf and my bf was just considering him fwb and whatnot

and they had exchanged nudes for a total of 5 times and he still has some

i was silent on that

and he told me they had been talking before me and my bf got into a relationship and how 'i' was supposedly my bfs crush and so he accepted when we got into a relationship jokingly

it still hurts and I do genuinely love him

but

uhm

i can't forget that he said to someone else that he loves them even if it was fake

as according to him he just wanted to keep that guy(his hb) in his life and he wasn't ready to give up on him

and he does regret it

according to him

he wasnt in love with me at the time

and i was just a crush and he got together and he thought I was just some fuckboy and not serious for him

it was not a open relationship and i genuinely loves him

maybe not as much as I do now

but yeah i did

and i also know

that he has changed

he has...

actually fallen very deeply with him

but the thing he has done doesn't leave my mind

yet my heart can't let go

i genuinely...

love him

and i.. don't know what to do

hi lol been rlly bisyw school and competitions I'm BACKK NOW

I kinda assume the freedom and apps means u have more chances of dating a guy.

I feel like my issue is that i will never say anything first (i dont really have crushes anyways idk anyone well enough) ANYWAYs im kinda fem so anyone would notice im gay. So like i dont think people not knowing is an issue.

But i always kinda thought that as you turn 18 and have access to online methods it will become easier.

I know i dont NEED a bf but life is hard and it would be nice for someone to lean back on. Especially because sometimes i get myself into shit and i cant fight so i use my friends boyfriends (who I’m friends with a couple) as intimidation. BUT MI NEED ME OWN ONE.

ANYWAYS IS DATING EASIER FOR 18+ YES OR NO!

😊😊🚌🚌(btw the bus emoji is so cute)

so, i was in a park with my friends and we were talking about some random gay stuff and suddenly some random older woman came up to us and started talking that she felt so sorry for our parents that they have such f*ked up children as us and that people like us should be forcibly sent to a mental hospital, blah blah blah

we didnt ask you for your opinion, but thanks for the info babe

Some of y'all might have seen the last post I made on here talking about the guy I like. You can see it on my profile, but the TL;DR is, I like him, he's bi, and im not really his friend, but we're acquainted.

Anyway, in about 3 weeks, (Idk, its on the 19th) my school has its homecoming dance, and I really want to ask him, but i don't know how. I don't want it to be big and extravagant because im just not that kind of person.

I could make a note, but then i dont know how to not be creepy in it because of the nature of "love letters" and my subpar hand writting. Even then theyre kinda chessy

Otherwise, it feels like i cant get a moment alone with him to ask, the reason i dont want croweds is because that would make we way too nervous to say anything romance related.

Like i said, ive considered using a note, but that feels way too impersonal, and id die inside waiting for a response.

I really do want to ask him, but i dont know the best way. Everything i think of feels too nerve racking or disconnected.

Met this guy off a dating app i did verfiy its actually him and we are gonna meet up this week or the next in a public space to be fully safe. And dont worry straight people especially homophobes gaydar is trash.

I wasn't very active in the sub(especially recently), but you might remember me as 'artificial crush guy' or smt.

Its sad to leave this sub, but Im very grateful for what it gave me.

You still can find me in otger lgbt+ subs or in r/battlecats.

Goodbye, everyone, love yall 💙

16M, gej, okolice Nowego Sącza – pytanie

Hej! Mam 16 lat, jestem gejem i mieszkam w Małopolsce, niedaleko Nowego Sącza. Zastanawiam się, jak inni nastolatkowie LGBT radzą sobie z poznawaniem osób podobnych do siebie, szczególnie mieszkając w mniejszych miejscowościach.

Czy też macie wrażenie, że w małym mieście trudno znaleźć ludzi, przy których można być po prostu sobą? Jak budujecie znajomości i znajdujecie społeczność LGBT w swoim wieku w bezpieczny sposób?

Chętnie poczytam o waszych doświadczeniach.

Moje czaty są otwarte. To post skierowany głównie do innych chłopaków gejów.

Hej! Mam 16 lat i jestem gejem. Mieszkam w Małopolsce, niedaleko Nowego Sącza, i zastanawiam się, czy są tutaj osoby LGBT (konkretnie geje) w podobnym wieku, szczególnie z Polski lub moich okolic. 🏳️‍🌈

W małym mieście czasami trudno znaleźć osoby, z którymi można być po prostu sobą, więc byłoby miło wiedzieć, że nie jestem jedyny. 🙂

How do yall feel about boykisser? (that cat... thing...?)

Personally, i love em!

- Durin Guy

Is it weird to follow a guy you have a crush on on Instagram and then add him on Snap 2 days later with only two mutual friends (so probably doesn’t look like just quick add)?He’s in my math class, but I don’t know if he’s gay or straight. We’ve never really talked before. I don’t want to come off as creepy or too obvious 😭

Hello! My school is performing Hadestown and I have auditions on thursday. I just wanted to know if anyone had any advice, especially specific to the case of Hadestown, in that it is mainly a using musical rather than acted. I'm going for Hades, but compared to the others going for it I am very short lol... if anyone has any advice, I would appreciate it!!!

Filipinos as in from the Philippines or of descent abroad. Merry Christmas to all of my fellow pinoys

So like obviously im 13 and ik i shouldnt be figuring out my entire life today but i've realised lately that when im older i want to have kids 😭

obviously it would be very difficult considering for a start im a guy who is only attracted to guys, and i dont wanna like adopt i wanna biologically have a kid so its very difficult 🙏

thats all i wanted to say anyways lol

This is kinda a rant kinda asking for advice, I’m 16, just starting junior year, and I’ve never had a boyfriend before or any experience romantically whatsoever for that matter but it’s really all I want, I just can’t find myself really caring about anything else because all I want is to experience teenage love, I don’t really want friends or family, I just don’t really have any dreams or aspirations or goals in life other than having a boyfriend and I just don’t really know what to do, my mental health is shit cuz of this and I have no motivation so I don’t know what to do