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HEY Y'ALL . I USED TO BE ACTIVE HERE . LIFE HAS BEEN GOOD , YES THAT IS IT .GOODBYE AGAIN.

Have y'all ever had a crush on someone so bad that you got completely obsessed with them, everything about them attracts you. You think about them day and night, you imagine scenarios of you two together. But then getting heartbroken by the fact that you two can't have a future together and crying over the fact that they're so close yet so far.

Yeaaaa it sucks 😭😭

I've had a crush like that, we're still friends. I like to think that I'm over him but every time I see him, all the memories start flooding back, everything about him mesmerizes me 😭😭

I don't think I'm ever gonna get over him as long as we're friends and we keep meeting. I also used to go to the gym with him and oh my god I love him so much 💔😭😭😭

mine are

Rhanaeyra Targaeryan
Laenor Velaryon
Loras Tyrell
Oberyn Martell

what queer characters are yalls fav?

also what characters yall think couldve had an amazing queer plot?

Hi everyone.

I’m 19 and I’ve been feminine for as long as I can remember, pretty much since puberty. I’ve always known people would judge or laugh if they saw that side of me, so I’ve kept it hidden.
I only have one close friend, and they’re the one who suggested I try talking here. I’m still really nervous and not sure what to expect. I’m insecure about almost everything and scared of being judged even online.
I just wanted a place where I could maybe talk a little without feeling like a problem. I’m not looking for big advice or anything intense, just somewhere I can exist and people wouldn’t shame me for being a femboy.

Hey all, i am looking for literature coming from Pakistan, in urdu or english, with a central or main character as a gay man. Or even something which strongly implies queer man?

I’m super bored I’m anyone’s willing to talk hit me up :D

27M Lahore, I have been a part of this community for a long time now and I want to get settled soon.I seriously want to date a transgirl with the intention of getting married in the near future.

I am not into hookups, just want to fall in love and spend the rest of my life with my destined partner which God chose for me.

Wherever you are (my future partner), I hope you are happy, sleeping and eating well and achieving all your goals in life.

I hope God gives me all your difficulties, worries and problems.

I wish I was with you now to shield and protect you from this selfish and unfair world.

I wish I could provide you with a shoulder to cry on

I wish I could take your side when everyone is against you

I wish I could provide you all the happiness in the world

My significant other pls be safe and wait for me, we will meet soon.

I'm 36m from Islamabad. Due to my hectic job, I've lost contact with my old friends so I need new ones! Anyone into hiking, running or football? Are there any running community you can take me to? People from all ages and backgrounds can DM me. I like to start off as online chatting before meeting in real. Thanks!

I need help figuring myself out, im lost, and i dont know where im headed.

So I dated a guy from Airport Society and we got into a relationship and blah blah (I was a teen and he was my first relationship)
The first two years were amazing with a very few ups and downs, but then a month after our second anniversary he told me he needs to go to Dubai for 2 months and will be back after that. We spent 2 years what could those 2 months possibly do?
He went. I was very mature about it (yay to me) we were in contact but he seemed busy so I would not text him like we used to when he was here and at times we did argue because of the distance and after a month I was craving him (young love or whatever)
2 months passed and I was waiting for him to come back and a few days before he was supposed to land in Islamabad he told me he might be there for 1 2 weeks more.
I was like, “OK, it’s just 2 weeks”.
It turned to 3 then on the 4th week I felt like he wasn’t gonna come back I had a bigass fight whether he is coming back or not.
After a few days or maybe a week of that fight he came back and I was still pissed but I fucking loved him, how could I stay mad.
Things seemed normal but he got a bit busier, meetups got less and it seemed like we were maturing into a relationship because those things didn’t seem to bother me that much. I thought we were out of that honeymoon phase and this is how it is supposed to be.
I took a season’s break after my college and decided to catch up with some old friends (people knew I was dating someone they didn’t know who)
I decided to open up to my friend and he was like “show me who the guy is”
I showed him and he said “Oh, so you are into married guys?” The feeling was like telling a loved one that someone they held dear died.
Instant denial.
I asked him to elaborate because I obviously thought he was joking cuz my man looked older.
He told me that his father and my man’s fathers knew each other they were very good friends and worked in the army together.
His father was invited to my man’s wedding in Dubai.
At that point my life was over I was speechless, motionless, I could not cry, could not feel anything. Not even anger.
I calmly asked my man like “WHAT THE FUCK” I was hoping it would be a lie and my other friend was just messing but he confirmed that he wanted to keep me otherwise I would have left if he told me the truth
I told him we could have stop seeing each-other but still been just friends had he been upfront about it (not sure if that is true)
He was MARRIED!
I was dating a married man ever since he came back from his “business trip” and I unknowingly became the affair, the other woman, a possible home-wrecker.
I was disgusted by something I was not even aware of.
I had the biggest crash-out, panic attack and idk what.
I would have dropped dead on spot and it would have made sense.
I never spoke to him ever since.
I heard he had a baby some time after that.
Meaning, his wife was expecting while he was asking me to still be his boyfriend while he was married and having a child.
Anyways.
That was the tea, anyone wants to trauma bond and hold hands while singing Kumbaya. HMU.
This happened 6 years ago btw and I met him through Grindr.
I recently(been a year) got back into dating and the world has gone to even more shit.

Hey everyone. Just wanted to ask if there's an official Discord server or Telegram channel for this subreddit that we can join, or if everything is just based here?

alright so ever since i was a kid i knew i liked men, but ive always had little crushes on girls like since i was 4-5 😭, for some reason as i grew up and all, i let the liking men part get over me and when i was hitting puberty and growing up, i would only ever think about men, sexually and romantically both and maybe when you have the tween and early teen hormones, you do get super horny and i think i did too for a few guys lol BUT now i’m 19 and since ive turned 17ish ive started to like girls more and more but like romantically and same for men i still like them romantically, sexually before i was not so interested in women but now i wanna try it i dont think ill mind it BUT now that real men that ik irl have started flirting w me and been asking to
hookup, i dont feel sexually attracted to MEN at alllll, no urges, no nothing, i just want someone to love me, nurture me and care for me but idk if i want sex, the issue is a couple years back i NEEDED sex w guys lol and i wasnt interested in women at alllll, idk i dont think im asexual, but why cant i be horny for the realllly hot guys in my life and at the same time chase women but not chase them idk this is so confusing cus for the longest time i thought i was either gay or bi with a heavy inclination towards men, is it possible to have a change in preference and sexuality as u grow up???

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One of my czn (yikes i know) he snd a gift using his sister to me. Why? i didn't not even once i have given anything to him, no hint nothing that he can create this assumption that i can accept something from him i did chatted with him because i couldn't create account on teams app and i asked his help because he is good in these technology things. And i have directly told my mother about it that i am chatting with for only this reason and so she know if he did something it's not me who is the problem She was like it's ok cznz talk this and that but i am way smarter then that my whole life i cut off every kind of man around me be it really close especially the one who aren't married because since i was a child i realize men just bring trouble. I have realized sooner that he is trying to cross the line so i BLOCKED him both numbers but he still had the audacity to this shit. I feel pathetic why is it so hard for men to leave us alone i feel grossed for just my existence I feel gross about my body which i covered like good pakistani girl i feel grossed breathing, walking, sitting and just existing and being lesbian doesn't help either. I hate it i hate men i hate them with all my heart i hate you all.

Hi I'm 21 trying since my teenage years trying to find the one I'm not straight obviously I made posts here a few times and found some genuine good friends I appreciate their their sincerity and guidance but still I didn't find the one

Something about me that lives in a small city in Punjab has good social circle, like nature into fitness

Sometimes a good Netflix series studying slim physique 5'10 around 55-60 kg brown complexion wears glasses

I don't want anyone who asks for my pic , wants something physical instantly,is a desperate sex freak and doesn't know how to respect boundaries

My definition of an ideal partner is someone who is educated open to new thoughts isn't in open relationships( hookups and open relationships are a big no for me) can work with long distance relationship . I know the possibility to find someone is extremely low but I don't know where else to go

If you want something long term and something based on respect and understanding we can give it a try idk what else to say that's all about me for now

Feel free to dm if I'm your type

Thanks for reading

Its so weird. I’m going through a very weird time. Its not particularly bad but i can’t name sense of things around my head. I’m at an age and point where people expect me to know things but i…. just don’t know you know? I just want someone who would speak softly to me. Ask me what’s on my mind. Call me pet names. Make me blush. And help gently untangle the knots in my brain. UGH

I’m a 23-year-old woman, and I’ve struggled for a long time with being gay and reconciling it with my religion. Last year, I was going through a very difficult time after a relationship ended, and I had no one to talk to. I trusted a friend and shared my struggles with him privately.

He told two other people. One of them was my close friend, who then told her boyfriend. I found out yesterday that he had spread this information to several people in my class and around my university.

I feel completely devastated and exposed. I’m in my final year and only have four months left, but I genuinely don’t know how I’ll face people, go to college, or sit for my exams knowing that so many people may know something so personal about me.

My family knows and supports me, and they keep telling me that if they know and God knows, I shouldn’t be afraid of anyone else. But I’ve always been a very shy and anxious person, and I feel humiliated and terrified. I honestly don’t know how to cope with this, and I’m having thoughts of ending my life.

I just need advice on how to get through this and face university again