r/LongDistance 15h ago

Breakup finally made it official

I finally made it official and broke up with her. She didn't notice I left her on read and didn't say anything the entire day. I'm tired of this so I just decided to officially break up with her.
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Also sorry shout my other post and the comment I made. I was just getting really tired and tbh didn't expect people to actually DM me and all that. I'm sorry :<

But thank you for all of the support and concerns, all of you. Today I really needed to because it was actually draining me so it was either stay and continue this or end things and heal myself.

I'm doing a bit better now though, went to the mall with my dad for a little walk and got some Starbucks for a snack. I even got some new shoes! I know it's gonna take a bit for me to heal, mentally and emotionally, but I'm gonna get through it.

I'm also gonna focus on in-person relationships instead of LDR once I heal myself :3

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u/Delicious-Cookie0958 ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ to ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ช 13,300 km ๐Ÿ‘ฐโ€โ™‚๏ธ โค๏ธ ๐Ÿคต๐Ÿฟโ€โ™‚๏ธ 14h ago

I think that was the right call.

Take care of yourself.

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u/sself_immolation14 14h ago

i promise it will be okay eventually. iโ€™ve been through this a few times and i know it hurts. you will find your person at some point ๐Ÿซ‚

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u/satvrnleo 10h ago

Good for you! Good luck on your healing journey

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u/Lanky-Operation-772 9h ago

this is definitely for the best even if doesn't feel like it, she did not care about you enough. you have so much time to meet someone better and for now I recommend focusing on yourself and your self love, it is our most important relationship in life. take care ๐Ÿฉท

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u/Impressive-Gate-118 8h ago

At least you have the courtesy to end it openly. Iโ€™ve getting ghosted since Saturday

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u/Zestyclose-Ad6191 7h ago

Good for you! Donโ€™t look back!!๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ

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u/StreetSea5074 CA + FL (2.3kmiles)๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿฉท 7h ago

About time! I've been waiting for this update. Good job ๐ŸŒŸ now find someone that cares AFTER you heal.

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u/taetaeee [IN] to [MA] (860 mi) 6h ago

unfortunately its probably for the best. i hope you're able to feel relief from all this soon.

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u/Preyus7 6h ago

Having gone through something similar to you, its the right move.

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u/RedInOriginals [๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ] to [๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ] (14,500 km) 4h ago

goodd for you!! all the best with your life and healing journey โœจ