r/MadeMeSmile 2h ago

Teaching their child compassion and creativity

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u/AkosCristescu 2h ago

The first few times he was afraid of hitting his head and made a fuss, it obviously took training (he was natural when the concrete was right next to his face while his hands were full)....

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u/Rengeflower 2h ago

She

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u/AkosCristescu 2h ago

Yeah im kinda torn but i was thinking she by the shoes but comment above me used "he" 😂 thanks for correction.

I guess you got the most important part of the message

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u/Hate_Having_Needs 1h ago

I have noticed this trend of using masculine pronouns, even when the post title or caption makes it known it's a girl, for a couple years now. There have been other posts where "he" and "him" are used on children that are obviously girls. The clearest example was a post of a dad who had his daughter on the wakeboard with him and she fell off but he caught her; she's wearing a ponytail and a pink diaper and the commenters are still calling her a boy.

It's a really interesting and annoying form of sexism but not that big of a deal in the long run.

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u/ALittleNightMusing 32m ago

The number of people who referred to my baby as "he", even when she was wearing all pink and purple frilly clothes, with her hair tied up on her head, is surprising. 

I get that babies can easily look either gender, but sometimes the clothing is obnoxiously obviously gendered and people still somehow don't pay enough attention and default to "he". 

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u/AkosCristescu 1h ago

Hey relax before you project some woke stuff and "sexism"

Just a friendly reminder that

1) we are from different cultures and a very short hair is confusing for some

2) not everyone is native english-speaker. My language is so non-sexist that we don't differentiate we have a non gender-specific "h/she" only one form for humans and thats it.

Save your bs propaganda please and try to take perspectives and understand before you come up with your con theos

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u/Hate_Having_Needs 1h ago

Lmao someone is sensitive. This is just what I have observed on my own of reddit.

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u/AkosCristescu 1h ago

No one was sensitive.

I just explained that your observations are based on your projections.

You see what you want to see that is the "trend" in your head.

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u/Rengeflower 24m ago

Weird