r/MenAndFemales 29d ago

Meta Monday 💖 Introducing the first Meta Monday!

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Meta Monday will consist of vaguely related topics (without needing to find examples of dehumanising language to post) but you will need to use the new Meta Monday flair for any off topic posts. We are going to test this out using GMT/BST to start with and would prefer if people try to keep to this so far. This is a test to see engagement and feedback from users. Enjoy your first Meta Monday!


r/MenAndFemales Jul 15 '26

Should we add Meta Monday?

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The concept of Meta Monday means we can post things outside of the typical callout posts. We can discuss issues like other mistreatment besides this language, post about positive interactions where change has happened in language, or even show each other feminist music that exemplifies our feelings about living in this world that clearly has a bias against women. For this context, meta refers to both self referential as well as posts outside the convention of post expected here.

71 votes, Jul 22 '26
28 Introduce one day of various meta posts
26 Introduce only a masterpost where people can get as off topic as they wish
17 Refuse off topic posts on all days

r/MenAndFemales 7h ago

”Would you prefer ‘bitch’?” They’re using AI to illustrate the delusions that exist in their heads

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499 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 12h ago

Men and Girls The hardest part is not getting enough interest from girls, that's how men get taken advantage of.

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38 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Meta Monday 💖 Happy Meta Monday! Here’s an example of the losers we get here from time to time

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672 Upvotes

He then decided to complain and repeatedly insult me while using the silliest swear replacement words I’ve ever heard. For the record, when people demonstrate they don’t know the rules here they get banned. If they demonstrate they understand and wish to engage in good faith, they get unbanned. I have not yet found anyone who has decided to learn the rules instead of just arguing with me about how their post didn’t break platform rules. This man genuinely thought he was being targeted for being a man, instead of the same rules as everyone else. This isn’t how every post we encounter is, but sometimes you get the obvious misogynists and it is in no way surprising how they act.


r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Meta Monday 💖 An OP attempted to reverse the sexism present in real vintage ads. Yet the reverses of these ads mostly fail to capture the sexist language present in the originals.

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This is a mixture of "Meta Monday" and "men and girls". Since I want to discuss what the OP failed to do, while seemingly being a feminist ally, I felt the Meta Monday flair was appropriate.

Context: Images 1 and 3 are real vintage ads. Images 2 and 4 are humorous "reverses" of these ads created by the OP, I assume with the intent of mocking the sexism in the original ads. I found these posted to a different subreddit.

The real ads are incredibly sexist, which is highlighted by the usage of "girls" to refer to grown ass women. Telling "girls" that their body is an ill-fitting shape and that they need husbands is incredibly gross and condescending.

When the OP reversed these ads, I was surprised to notice that where the original ads said "girls", the OP used the word "men" instead of "boys" (which would be the equivalent sexism). To give credit where it's due, the OP did use the word "boy" in the second image (first sentence at the bottom), but every other usage of "girl(s)" is replaced with "man/men". I was also surprised that in the fourth image, they did not replace the word "girl" (present in the original ad) with "woman", and just left it as "girl".

You can tell by looking at the reverses of these ads that the OP was frustrated by the sexism in the original ads. They used humor to vent said frustrations and to critique the men who made them. I appreciate their intent and I think the execution was mostly great. The only place where they failed was to adequately reverse the sexism by using the reverse terminology (using "boys" for "men").

I'm not really sure why the OP didn't reverse the language the majority of the time. Did they not see the dehumanizing nuances of referring to women as "girls"? They did use the word "boy" in the second image, so I'm not really sure. It doesn't really make any sense to me. It was so jarring that even other people pointed out this mistake from the OP on the post (which was posted to a subreddit that isn't explicitly about feminism). I also don't understand why the OP left the word "girl" as is on the fourth image.

I just think it's important to point out that even feminist allies can sometimes get this wrong. Perhaps the dehumanizing language is so socially normalized that they fail to see the dehumanization of it, and they don't mock it as a result.


r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Men and Females Not even games are safe

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r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Men and Females No source is immune, not even the mainstream media.

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37 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Meta Monday 💖 Meta Monday: "Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt" intro theme song 🎵🎶 gets a pass for referring to women as "females" and "girls"

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r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

No Men, just Females The dude is angry for no reason? Just because she’s a woman?

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6 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 18h ago

No Men, just Females "the first female I got on my team" sigh my bf is silly

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r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

Men and Females So close but so far away

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98 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

No Men, just Females You might as well start calling women 'things' at that point

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170 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

Men and Females What does it mean when a female starts presenting in front of me?

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54 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 3d ago

Men and Females Oh no, I'm beeing kind to females, what do I doooo

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193 Upvotes

I hoped "guys and females" was a flair... Picked the closest


r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

Men and Females Female and man

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71 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

No Men, just Females Ah yes, leftists are clearly more dangerous than the manosphere that promotes violence

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597 Upvotes

With the charges being faced by the Taint brothers, the manosphere is losing its “heroes”. And while they can call us women in the title, the gloves are off in the body. Claiming a humanitarian is dangerous compared to someone on trial for rape is such a ridiculous statement and comparison to make.


r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

Men and Females "Female" bravo! Your blatant misogyny outshines the knights white armor OP, outstanding work!!!

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118 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

Men and Females Very scientific, yes

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95 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

Men and Girls Double standards between girls and men :(

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38 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

Men and Females So close but not quite.

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17 Upvotes

Found this on my local Nextdoor


r/MenAndFemales 7d ago

No Men, just Females No being passenger to “female” drivers

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81 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 7d ago

Men and Females Men should have photos of females on their dating profile

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62 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 7d ago

Men and Girls um… wtaf

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45 Upvotes