I feel like im alone with this. (F) I didnt know it was wrong until he got caught doing it but often I think back on it and get very aroused and yea...

I think I have an oral fixation from everything that’s happened. I googled it and it makes sense. Has anyone gotten over this or is there any way to fix it so I’m not like this?

So to keep this short. My Aunts husband touched me under my shirt and kept his hands there for a few minutes when I was 11, it wasn't "accidental" either and also put his face in my face and pinned me against a wall and uncomfortably stared me in the eyes for a few minutes a different time before people were about to walk in the house and he ran into the dining room and pretended to read a newspaper, I still don't know exactly what his intentions were but I don't think they were good. He's also tickled some of my older female relatives and made them uncomfortable. I told those same relatives which stirred things up between my Grandma & older relatives vs my aunt and her husband, my aunt would often say "He never did that to you he was tickling you", "he has autism" etc. Well a few months ago I told her flat out what happened she said "I didn't know I'm sorry" I told her I didn't want to be around him and 1000% don't want my kids near him.

A week or two later she went back to saying people need to leave the past in the past, he doesn't remember anything, people need to stop bashing him. She keeps inviting us to her house, to parties and even for me and my kids to spend the night at her house when my husband was sick. I always tell her no of course but I don't know why she's brushing it off. I told her something VERY serious and very vulnerable and something that affected me greatly. My moms not in my life and she's the only person who occasionally messages me and gives me pointers on how to cook certain things. I do think I'm going to have to eventually cut her out of my life in she keeps almost shaming me and telling me "the past is in the past"