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u/notmyblood 11h ago
“I’m counter suing!”
“Okay what relief are you seeking?”
“Jail! Lock him up!”
I’m pretty sure this isn’t how civil lawsuits work…
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u/MobsterDragon275 10h ago
Suing in some countries is synonymous with pressing charges
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u/CarelessPangolin5564 6h ago
One thing learned about reddit is that everyone will view the world through the lense of the western world and if you try to imply things work differently elsewhere you are sort of just wrong
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u/Active_Respond_4862 5h ago
yeah everyone views the world in their lens based on their own lives, get your head out of your pretentious ass.
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u/CarelessPangolin5564 5h ago
I am sorry I have offended you. Please accept my sincere apologies
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u/Endless_Story94 2h ago
It's as if reddit is a western website... with a predominantly western user base.
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u/Stermo28 11h ago
Would the defense have an easy time proving that he just randomly saw it through the camera he just casually checked since that literally happened in his house?
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u/wts_optimus_prime 7h ago
This isn't about legality though, but morality. And morality does not care for made up motivations. Only about the actual motivation
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u/Stermo28 5h ago
Yes, I wasn´t engaging in the morality conversation, I just can not believe a judge would send someone to jail for that
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u/arrrberg 5h ago
I mean not if he used that footage to sue her, he clearly had to have recorded and kept it which is much more intentional
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u/throw7661 8h ago edited 7h ago
No morality judgement, but some extra information. This didn't happen in the US - it happened in Taiwan.
Cheating is perfectly legal, but you can sue for civil damages. Which is exactly what he did.
However, in Taiwan, there are privacy laws... Very much like we have in the US (specifics depend on the state). Having a camera is fine, and having the robot vacuum is fine, but you can't use it to record someone with an expectation of privacy.
The woman was in her house. She was naked. You can't record your spouse in that situation, without their consent.
He did record her. Without her consent.
He only did it once, but it's very much against the law to record your spouse the way that he did, in Taiwan.
The wife and her lover were found guilty of infidelity and ordered to pay $16k USD (jointly) to the husband.
The husband was found guilty of violating her privacy and fined about $5k and sentenced to five months in prison....but in Taiwan he can just pay more to stay out. So he's effectively facing a $10k-ish fine
It seems he intends to appeal the decision. But even if it doesn't work out, he will very likely to just pay a fine, though it seems fairly large IMHO.
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u/Techygal9 6h ago
I just can’t believe he had to pay a fine unless he uploaded them online for others to see. That would be morally wrong imo. But to record proof of an infidelity just to use in court… then that’s fair play to me.
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u/AxiumTea 11h ago
Spying? is it illegal and bases for suing when someone does it in their own house?
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u/ThrasherDX 10h ago
It was also her house, so she had the right to privacy. You don't have the right to spy on your roommate just because its "your house" anymore than your roommate has the right to spy on you.
In addition, some places are illegal to record period, such as bathrooms.
Plus as others have said, recording footage of her nude without consent.
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u/AxiumTea 10h ago
I suppose that makes sense if you put it that way. This really complicates the matter, now it's more down to what's more immoral here. Here what the husband set out to do was proven to be right yet because of his way of doing it, he was blamed and jailed instead.
Would you say the court should make a sort of exception for cases like these or treat them the same way as the room mate example you gave?
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u/ThrasherDX 9h ago
Its not really that complicated, for the simple reason that cheating isnt a crime, its just immoral.
In the courts eyes, violating the law to spy on someones legal (even if immoral) behavior is definitely worse than the legal-but-immoral behavior.
It would be murkier if he spied and caught her doing something blatantly illegal, IIRC there are usually exceptions to privacy law when it comes to blatant criminal acts.
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u/SnooPredictions3028 6h ago
You have no right to privacy from roommates in the common room.
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u/sopapordondelequepa 11h ago
If the country is a shithole (legally) yes
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u/CertainGrade7937 10h ago
Eh no. This is actually a perfectly decent policy.
It would be really fucked if I, for instance, put a hidden security camera in the bathroom and didn't tell my roommate
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u/sopapordondelequepa 10h ago
That’s an entirely different case thought, as it would be basically sexual assault
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u/CertainGrade7937 10h ago
It's not an entirely different case. Do you think the roomba never goes in their bedroom? Or any other spot that would have a presumption of privacy?
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u/Iankill 9h ago
It's not entirely different, the basis is recording someone without their knowledge.
If you put security cameras in your home the other people that share the home with you need to be made aware of them. If you installed 3 cameras in shared spaces but only told your roommates about 2 of them.
Anything the 3rd camera recorded would be illegal because they're being recorded without their knowledge.
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u/Sepplord 10h ago
So every country that disallows someone from recording a naked roommate or spouse on the toilet without their knowledge is a shithole as long as you own the house?
W T F ?
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u/sopapordondelequepa 10h ago
If you move the goalposts too far, sure
My house has cameras in the living room, obviously the intention isn’t to film anyone naked
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u/Sepplord 10h ago
I didn’t move the goalpost though?
You are now moving it to make your shithole country statement less radical
And no, filming others and storing their footage without their consent is a big no go in my eyes. Even if it is in your living room.
To the point that IF we take that as criteria for a country being a shithole or not the country allowing it is the shithole. Not the other way around
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u/sopapordondelequepa 10h ago
You moved them, filming someone in the bathroom without their knowledge isn’t defensive behaviour no matter how you spit it, it has nothing to do with this case, I don’t think you’ll find anyone that thinks is moral lol
Strawman
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u/Sepplord 7h ago
Okay, let’s leave the toilet out. I meant bathroom because that’s where people usually are naked more often. But it doesn’t matter for the point.
So let’s stick to just filming a naked roommate/spouse without their knowledge? Or hell even just filing them and storing their pictures without them being naked at all. In the end „naked“ is not the real factor here.
Having a law against that makes a country a shithole?
Giving people the right to their own picture makes a country a shithole?
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u/Iankill 9h ago
Yes you're not allowed to spy on other people living in your shared home without their knowledge. It's a pretty basic concept
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u/Outlaw11091 8h ago
This is one of those cases where the law steps away from morality, imo.
Not because it was "his house" or "his wife".
Neither of those things give you free reign to record naked people against their will.
But because we know that his INTENT was to simply prove the infidelity.
Sadly, we live in such a garbage fucking timeline that these laws are necessary...but this is an exceptional circumstance.
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u/Any_Mud_1628 6h ago
Garbage timeline 100%. Right he didn't do it to see his own wife naked but to discover the cheating. Ridiculous. Taiwan sounds like it sucks. And you can just pay more to stay out of jail? What a disgrace of justice
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u/Bruzie77 9h ago
I check the case out. he wont around 19k from her but she got him jailed for 5 months and. got 4700 bucks back.
15k after he leaves. did he win or lose?
Also in america it wouldn’t happen but the video itseld would be inadmissible as cheating evidence . After all as long as one person want to in their own home they can.
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u/PieXReaper 9h ago
Depends on his salary, and even then it's going to be on his record which might affect his future unlike the ex-wife's affair. Also I personally value time more so imo the wife won, sent him to jail for 5 months and wasted who knows how long of his life with a cheater. All that and she only needed to payout 15k? She made out like a bandit.
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u/Bruzie77 6h ago
you forget 15 k in taiwan can let a single person live comfortably for 12-15 months. in the us it might last 3-4 months but when he get out of jail he have 12-15 month east living cushion. like all ultiitiew mortage etc rentel. not to mention the assest in the divorce.
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u/GatoConCalcetines 8h ago
You can be a pos without breaking the law and you can break the law without being a pos
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u/LilJonny2cookies 10h ago
Taiwanese law says it is illegal to record people in their home without being made aware.
I am one of those weird people that avoids crossing the law by not breaking laws. He broke the law. She is a scumbag.
In a case like this it would be nice to have discretion in sentencing.
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u/AccomplishedBat39 7h ago
Its interesting though:
Did she not know the roomba could record video?
If she did im not sure how valid those charges would be and her affair could actually sue her for not being made aware of it.
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u/Delgree-23 7h ago
Moral. Illegal, but moral.
Her actions were legal, but immoral.
Love opposites like this.
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u/Hot-Lunch6270 10h ago
This isn’t just immoral. It’s stupid. She cheated on their marriage and the husband gets a jail for “Spying without consent” in their own house while the Wife’s secret boyfriend is literally the stranger there?
I can feel the Husband’s family getting enraged by that and so as the Wife’s parents can be feel ashamed.
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u/MashedPotato____ 8h ago edited 8h ago
The stranger has consent from one of the residents so its not trespassing, recording someone naked without their consent, no matter where, is against the law.
I can’t just invite a girl to my house and record her secretly because it’s “muh house”.
Idk how promiscuity is being treated by the legal system there but at the very least it’s not being clumped together in the same case.
Maybe he will have a smoother divorce🤷Cheating : immoral
Spying : immoral & illegal
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u/Hot-Lunch6270 8h ago
I mean for real though, if there is a court case and the Court demanded to prove evidence will be provided, I will also use home camera to prove it.
Otherwise this is against the authenticity of Justice and the victim if criminal finds that way to abuse it and walks scott free. It’s a mad world.
Btw, she invited the man without letting her husband know.
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u/keIIzzz 8h ago
It’s not illegal to invite someone to your home without your spouse knowing. Cheating is obviously immoral, but recording people without consent in what’s also her own home too is not legal. Especially videoing them naked
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u/TrustworthyKahmunrah 4h ago
We're not talking about legality in this sub. He did nothing immoral and she did.
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u/NoMasterpiece5649 10h ago
Spying.... In his own house?
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Yes just bc you own a house doesn’t mean you can secretly record ppl, especially when they are nude.
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u/Hener001 6h ago
BS
The lawsuit, and countersuit, would be civil.
Jail is a criminal penalty not available in a civil suit. It is not possible to obtain the result in a counterclaim.
The meme is a lie. Trolling. Move along.
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u/1Negative_Person 9h ago
Source? This doesn’t sound like the US. You can’t sue someone to jail. That’s not how civil courts work.
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u/Outlaw11091 9h ago
For the lawsuit, the man submitted "evidence" of her infidelity to public record. This gets passed to the District Attorney because it shows he recorded her without her consent...and distributed it to the court.
It WAS in Taiwan, though.
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u/kageshira1010 11h ago
"spied without consent", that's the literal definition of spying. This is like saying raped without consent
This is fake. And in case it was real, send the judge to jail for prevarication
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u/AppointmentOk2025 11h ago
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u/chachaslydd 11h ago
Recording porn or nudity without others knowledge is a crime. For like...tons of countries.
So he was punished for a crime he committed. Cheating isnt illegal. What he did was
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u/Glum-Recognition-736 10h ago
I think any reasonable courtroom / judge would realize that the dude clearly wasn't recording them to make porn, and probably would have been happier to not see his wife naked with another man, but simply captured the affair as proof of his suspicions
When we start acting like dumb, mindless robots who cannot comprehend nuance like that, well you get draconian police states like Taiwan apparently
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u/chachaslydd 10h ago
Wed need to see what all he recorded and how much he kept.
They found him guilty, so the judges determined he crossed some lines. So.
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u/doesnotmatter286 11h ago
I don't think cheating is illegal. Just immoral. But spying is both. So assuming this isn't made up, I can see how that could happen. Both actions were immoral though.
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u/Valveringham85 10h ago
Spying? Dude it’s his own home? Having security cameras in your own home is illegal (and immoral)?
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u/mytransfercaseisshot 10h ago
I agree with you here. If he was using the footage for monetary gains or revenge then it is definitely immoral. However, him using it to catch his with cheating in THEIR OWN HOME, how is that immoral!?
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u/Silver_Middle_7240 10h ago
Having cameras recording other people where it is normal to be named without their knowledge is illegal even in your own home.
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u/Ostrichslinger 10h ago
Wait, so if I visit someones home and they have a home surveillance system which they don't tell me about, I can sue them?
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u/Silver_Middle_7240 10h ago
If it is in a bathroom bathroom or bedroom and records you getting baked yes
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u/Outlaw11091 9h ago
Yes. Anywhere that you would have an expectation of privacy.
Bathroom, bedroom, outhouse.
They're called "upskirt laws".
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u/bediaxenciJenD81gEEx 7h ago
Not immoral to attempt to catch infidelity within reason. He didn't stalk her or anything, so moral. Also not immoral for her to work within the framework of the law and countersue if her rights were violated.
5 months in prison is a totally disproportionate punishment and the law should be reviewed to allow for greater nuance. But I understand not wanting the law to start eroding on privacy rights, that's a slippery slope and leniency might encourage more people setting up spy cams to spy on spouses.
The takeaway is, if you do do something like this, don't use it as evidence, and do not keep the footage. Don't mention it to anyone, and use it to inform how you will "officially" catch out your unfaithful partner.
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u/SnooPredictions3028 6h ago
"Spying" moral. Cheating on your partner and sending him to jail when you're caught? Very immoral, lowest level of Hell immoral.
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u/JustUseCommonSense10 3h ago
Moral, we need to do whatever we need to do to stop using recording instead of conversations.
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u/coco_shka 2h ago
A similar thing happened to my friend. She recorded how her ex was abusing her and recorded how aggressive he was when he was "taking care" of their kid, that he was using drugs, etc., and she was fined for nonconsensual recording. I've heard them, and the recordings were terrifying. Sounds of hitting and choking, the kid crying in the background, him screaming profanities... She wanted to protect her kid but unfortunately lost the fight. The only good thing is that the kid is now old enough to decide, and he is refusing to visit his father even for a meal.
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u/Late-Arrival-8669 2h ago
I assume her place and not jointly rented/own is the only reason this could happen.
No place in the US, can I have a residence I cannot legally record.
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u/Jimmicky 39m ago
As a only mildly silly counterpoint - if you put a hidden camera in your toilet/shower/etc without telling your invited guests they absolutely can sue you over that and win basically everywhere in the US.
As a super ridiculous counterpoint, if someone is in your home involuntarily - say because you kidnapped them - the cops absolutely can add a charge related to illegally filming that person on top of the charges for kidnapping, assault, etc just based on the cameras in your home.
Now partly they do that so they have some charges they can choose to drop as part of negotiations with your lawyer, but the fact remains in most states of the US you can in fact be sued for recording stuff in your own home
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u/Madhatter25224 8h ago
Highly moral.
She cheated and its not as if he spread the video on the internet or something.
The law and morality are frequently not in lockstep.
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u/newishDomnewersub 11h ago
Im not sure how observingbyour own home is "spying". Suing over infidelity is silly. Work it out or break up.
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u/Raptmembrane 11h ago
I doubt you can sue someone for cheating in the first place
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u/sopapordondelequepa 11h ago
No, but is a good argument to not lose half your shit in a divorce
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u/Jaded-Message-7942 10h ago
If I had a hot Taiwanese wife having an affair I'd be watching her with the vacuum too but not for the same reasons 😂
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u/Miserable_Ebb4854 7h ago
Lot of redditors in this post discovering that the world outside of 'murica exists xD
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u/overwerk75 7h ago
I ask you this, if you were in the same situation and you've just caught your spouse cheating and the "Save Video" button is there, what would you realistically do? I would say the majority of people would hit the button rather than let the video be deleted.
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u/Denaton_ 7h ago
I call BS, when you remote use a vacuum like that they basically yell "I AM WATCHING YOU" (Don't remember exactly but it isn't quiet)
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u/WhereasMajestic9588 7h ago
Weird, I don't think he should be jailed for this as long as he only used the footage for proving the affair.
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u/Loud_Difference_1827 7h ago
Was the concent not given when they both bought and then turned on the automated vacuum?
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u/ChocolateCake16 6h ago
Obviously cheating is immoral, and the man should have the right to know that his wife is having sexual contact with someone else (because it puts him at risk if his wife catches something and then passes it to him, plus it's a violation of their relationship) but spying on someone in their own home, even if you live there too, is illegal for a reason. A robot vacuum very likely has terrible security, so the camera can easily be hacked by a third party (this is the same issue that baby monitors with cameras have). Even if the man in question never shares the footage, it's probably already being shared by an unseen hacker.
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u/Garpan33 6h ago
The roomba doesn't have morality. It is the one featured in the pic, so I assume it's about it :).
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u/Calm-Medicine-3992 6h ago
Intentionally getting the roomba just for filming someone without their consent: sketchy. Getting a roomba with a camera you both know about and catching her: fine.
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u/MichaelCorbaloney 6h ago
I think in a case where you're trying to prove something on the grounds of a legal basis, there should be some reasonable (restricted) exemptions to expectations of privacy in cases like this.
If someone is intentionally blackmailing me in my home or if someone strips in my home as a way of indecent assault, or if someone even just attempts to defraud me in my home, I should be able to use recordings to prove it, even if they are an allowed guest in my house.
This is a tricky one though because cheating in a marriage isn't a crime obviously, but it is something you still require legal evidence of in most divorce hearings, so it's complicated. Obviously there should be heavy restrictions and requirements, but private eyes typically will take photos to document affairs-even though in normal situations that would be considered stalking, so it stands to reason this would be similarly allowed.
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u/Historical-Today-943 5h ago
Recording without consent is okay as long as your name is fcebokk or uoogle.
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u/_Gaming_whtever_ 5h ago
It doesn't make sense to me. So like the court encourage cheating over putting camera in your own house to see if there is some unwanted individual that would DUCK YOUR WIFE?
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u/NLOneOfNone 5h ago
“Spying without consent”
That’s pretty much the whole point of spying on someone.
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u/JessicaDAndy 5h ago
I appreciate this headline better than the one that said “Man caught wife cheating with robot vacuum cleaner and man was sentenced to jail.”
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u/JimHeckdiver 5h ago
It's in his own home. He can record anything he wants.
The only one acting immoral is the cheating spouse.
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u/Furycrab 5h ago
Apparently the ruling is up for appeal and it's more complicated on account of using the vacuum to record the spouse naked.
Very grey for me.
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u/Le-Charles07 5h ago
He will make a lot of friends with valuable skills with that story. "What are you in for?" "So, get this. My wife..."
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u/LiytlKaiser 5h ago
So if you plan on a divorce due to infidelity, and you don't want to lose half of everything you own, how else can you guarantee it? You can pray that they'll fess up, but they are already lying to you about the cheating in the first place. Without video proof or an admission of guilt I see no other way for the one being cheated on to guarantee not being financially ruined for what could very well be the rest of their life.
Is there more to this? Was the video distributed elsewhere besides just the court?
Genuine question by the way if any would be able to answer.
---i did just realize it said he sued, not divorced...does this have something to do with it?
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u/GiggleGnome 5h ago
So if she knew that the roomba was in the home and knew that it has a camera and that it moves about the house recording things as it does its job, couldn't that be seen as implied consent? The whole event is strange at best but welcome to the age of cameras, microphones and GPS trackers in every device imaginable.
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u/Pandastic3000 5h ago
I swear to god these kind of posts with random parts in another color showed up not even a year ago! Where does this type of post come from? Is it an AI thing?
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u/Just-Clerk-8669 11h ago
I want a link to the actual case before I make judgement because thats not how counter sueing works.