r/MoralityScaling 11h ago

Who's More Evil? Morality of this?

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u/Just-Clerk-8669 11h ago

I want a link to the actual case before I make judgement because thats not how counter sueing works.

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u/GodkingYuuumie 11h ago

I believe it's this case

https://news.nextapple.com/local/20260818/90F9D555AC98DCCBAF61F405D762B73F

The actual issue, if it is this case, is that he recorded her naked without her consent or knowledge. The taiwanese court ruled that spouses should have a presumed right to privacy in their own homes, And as such found him liable.

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u/chachaslydd 11h ago

Thats fair enough, if you kept the footage of her naked

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u/DentistCertain3897 10h ago

I mean what if the footage was of the infedility? Say you don't keep it and blur it?

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u/Shady_Chaos 4h ago

Legally, at least in America, there's laws for reasonable expectations of privacy. I.e. can't be recorded on a private call without one party mentioning it first, can't record on private property without consent. You CAN do these things but let's say you record a crime the evidence will get thrown out due to reasonable expectation of privacy laws. I'm not a lawyer and I'm sure there's probably exceptions like police operations.

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u/5peaker4theDead 4h ago

That's only in some states btw, in single party consent states only 1 person has to know about it being recorded.

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u/DMvsPC 1h ago

One person in the conversation

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u/gramerjen 42m ago

You still cant leave the recording device to take footage when you're not there. You need to be active participant in the event otherwise you'd still be breaking the law.

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u/Great-Trifle2810 4h ago

It should be pointed out that the requirement to notify the other party of recording varies heavily between states, and even in states where you are required it is generally only required if you intend to publicize the recording or use it in a legal dispute.

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u/M4DHouse 2h ago

Evidence collected illegally or as a consequence of illegal conduct by police is still inadmissible. Lawyers call this “the fruit of the poisonous tree”.

The exception that you’re probably thinking of is called a warrant.

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u/MeasureDoEventThing 6m ago

Evidence collected illegally can sometimes still be admissible, especially if the illegal conduct was not by an agent of the state.

And this is not what "the fruit of the poisonous tree". That's when the police use evidence illegally gathered to get more evidence. For instance, if they search your house illegally, find a locker number, then open the locker and find a gun, the gun is fruit of the poisonous tree.

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u/Weekly-Reply-6739 1h ago

Reasonble expectation of privacy laws in the US only apply to bathrooms, and rooms where you have a sense of "ownership" or privacy from another.

For example, if two roomates share an appartment, the common areas like kitchen amd livingroom have no reasonble expectation of privacy from eachother, but do have a reasomble expectation of privacy from guests

But in their own rooms they have the expectation of privacy from eachother, as its "their room"

A husband and wife would not have any reasonble expectation of privacy from eachother outside of the bathroom, unless they had their own private rooms that excluded eachother in some capacity.

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u/Zromaus 9h ago

It's footage of your own home though, it's kind of ridiculous that you wouldn't have full right over it. Imagine being arrested for "spying" on your own home lol

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u/keIIzzz 8h ago

Because you don’t have the right to take photos and videos of people naked without consent. It’s also her home. They’re both wrong in this case

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u/Advanced_Double_42 5h ago

If you don't have the video you have to give half of everything in a divorce, quite a catch 22.

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u/Candid_Novel_9494 3h ago

It's in Taiwan.

Not many countries are stupid like USA where they get 50/50 at a divorce.

Most countries you get 50/50ish for just the property acquired AFTER the marriage. And it's hard to dispute that.

Also infidelity and shit don't even matter. What matters is contribution to the property. (direct or indirect)

USA is uniquely stupid again. "Hates" prostitution, but loves shameless golddigging.

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u/_TwankVersatile_ 2h ago

This is a concept I've been meaning to read up on more.

For instance in European countries if you're rich and ugly you'll usually marry someone rich and ugly. In the US ugly rich guys marry pretty poor girls, often creating this sort of dynamic.

The divorce rules are there both to keep women in these situations out of poverty but also a sort of recompense because she wouldn't have had 3 kids if she thought she wouldn't have access to his wealth

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u/Major_Shlongage 1h ago

The law is abused, though. It was meant to stop men from abandoning their wives and leaving them to care for children without any income. It was not meant for women to cheat on their wealthy husband and then steal half of their money.

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u/Infamous-Grab2341 4h ago

We need to have a serious conversation about recording vs what you're allowed to do with the recording. I can see why you don't want your spouse to be able to upload naked videos of you or posses them privately especially if things aren't going well, but you often do need video evidence for things think Johnny depp trial.

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u/Vertaabae 5h ago

Believing this is insane. They are a married couple, he caught her cheating with a camera, saying he is wrong for "having the footage of the affair" is unbelievable. It is their own home and the robot comes with a camera which was known at purchase.

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u/CertainGrade7937 9h ago

It's also her home, though

He's not "spying" on his home. He's spying on his wife.

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u/Carthius888 8h ago

Who’s cheating. This seems like an important exception, as the man wasn’t trying to expose his wife for some stupid reason. He’s proving infidelity

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u/AccomplishedBat39 7h ago

I dont know about Taiwan specifically, but at least in the west cheating certainly isn’t illegal, recording other people without their knowledge however definitely is.

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u/Achilles11970765467 4h ago

Private investigators have been legally recording people without their knowledge in the West for a very long time, often specifically for proof of infidelity purposes.

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u/Ill-Description3096 7h ago

recording other people without their knowledge however definitely is.

That depends on the situation. It can be, but isn't always illegal to record someone without their permission.

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u/NoWayIcantBeliveThis 6h ago

I just looked it up, and pretty much in the entire western world spying on your wife naked, in your home, without her consent is illegal.

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u/FunkyDGroovy 5h ago

Good thing this sub is called LegalityScaling

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u/TrustworthyKahmunrah 5h ago

No one in "the western world" has ever or would ever be convicted for something like this. It would be like going to jail for checking your spouse's phone.

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u/Quintus_Cicero 6h ago

Pretty sure it's always illegal. What you might be thinking of is that the proof, despite being illegal, may be allowed in courts depending on the country.

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u/Schizmabiz2026 7h ago

It certainly is illegal in 16 US states still... good confidence though

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u/AliKat309 5h ago

It is illegal but theres no practical enforcement so its effectively legal. Dont be a goofball

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u/DrPikachu-PhD 5h ago

There absolutely is practical enforcement, it just doesn't look like going to jail, it looks like evidence in custody battles and alimony disputes.

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u/fifrein 7h ago

I think this really comes down to the ol’ adage of two wrongs don’t make a right.

  1. She is wrong for cheating.

  2. He is wrong for recording her naked without her consent.

The reason he recorded her being for proof of (1) does not negate (2).

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u/WatermelonWithAFlute 7h ago

How else do you prove infidelity?

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u/Carthius888 7h ago

I can’t speak to Chinese law but I would challenge you on (2).

Morally, a couple deserves privacy but if one partner is using the jointly owned home to betray the terms of the marriage, with infidelity, that privacy should no longer protect them from the other partner discovering and gathering proof of their unfaithfulness.

Consent of recording shouldn’t matter at all in this situation -as their spouse never gave consent to the extra-marital affair

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u/fifrein 7h ago

Again, this comes back to “2 wrongs don’t make a right”.

We are speaking of morality before legality here, but I would argue according to both the fact the husband didn’t give consent to the affair has no bearing on the fact the wife gave no consent to being video recorded naked.

If he had killed her for the affair, would you use the same logic to justify murder? If he had tied her up and tortured her in the basement, would that be justified since her consent is allowed to be violated in your view due to her having violated his first?

These are hyperbolic examples intentionally, but they hopefully drive home the point. Her performing an immoral act doesn’t give him free will to “return the favor”.

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u/lazoras 6h ago

if good or even neutral people leave an avenue for bad people to do bad things without accountability, that avenue will be utilized.

I take it you want to have an affair and do not want your partner to have an avenue to hold you accountable....

oh...not you, you say...your only making your argument from a neutral standpoint for the right of privacy....

meanwhile every nefarious actor cannot be held accountable because this person argues on principles of privacy for a very narrow scenario....

I can't tell you how infuriating it is to see both sides and understand both are wrong but both sides, while having intelligence to argue their reasoning l, are the most unwise groups imaginable.....

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u/Carthius888 5h ago

Fundamentally speaking, the entire justice system works on the idea of two wrongs trying to make a right.

Any sentence or fine is a “wrong to make a right”. So we should make sure our laws follow our morals.

Now when considering moral conflicts we have to consider which is the greater principle.

Ex: A woman discovers her husband is using their home to cheat with a camera from a device that they rarely use. She wants to divorce him.

Principle 1. She has a right to record & present the material she has that validates her reasons for divorce in court(which may be challenged)

Principle 2. He is protected from being recorded naked without his consent.

Now the second principle is generally designed to protect him from malicious or exploitative actions.
But considering the scenario above, which principle is greater? Consider the order of actions as well

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u/AnEvenNicerGuy 7h ago

"If your wife is cheating she has no right to privacy"

Not how it works

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u/anotherdropin 7h ago

That’s a very bad slippery slope, to say that some crimes are “ok” if the intent is for a greater good.

Cheating is immoral but not illegal. Recording private citizens naked without their consent and presumably distributing the recording (as used in a legal case) is actually illegal in most countries.

Was Grindelwald in Harry Potter right and moral? Many dictators in today’s world may start off w benevolent “intent”, does that make their authority more moral and good?

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u/ElMatadorJuarez 9h ago

Own home or not it’s footage of a naked person who didn’t consent to recording. That’s the bad part here.

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u/chachaslydd 9h ago

So anybody who goes in your home is free reign for you to film? No.

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u/OkSun5094 8h ago

it is spying though. She has a reasonable right to privacy in her own home, being filmed naked without consent is a violation of that privacy. It’s literally that simple.

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u/DeathNick 9h ago

Do you presume rights to film your guests naked just because they're in your home?

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u/Zromaus 9h ago

If I'm not distributing, selling, or sharing the footage, I do believe I have a right to security cameras in my home regardless of what they capture lol

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u/Axel_lotus 9h ago

This is not the same as having security cameras that happen to record someone nude. this is covertly recording someone in a space they’d have reasonable expectations of privacy, so it’s closer to setting up a hidden camera in your bathroom.

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u/SpecificInterest5150 8h ago

Except the spying wasn't done with explicit intent on perving on someone.

If you suspected someone of stealing in your home and caught them in the act yet they happened to be in a compromising position exposing themselves, would that still be a violation of their own rights?

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u/keIIzzz 8h ago

It’s also HER home too

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u/Zromaus 7h ago

She was also cheating. Guy had every right.

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u/LordOFtheNoldor 4h ago

Nah not really because what if the video is solely for use in court in regards to the infidelity and then disposed of besides court record, that's not fair he'd be punished for that when he required it as proof

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u/Independent_Bite4682 10h ago

From what I read, he was not actually spying, he was attempting to use the robot to communicate with his wife via audio+video and happened yo catch her cheating

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u/Preppy_Hippie 10h ago edited 10h ago

Spouses have a presumed right to privacy in their shared home? As in the people who live together, share everything, have seen everything many times over, and are supposed to know everything about each other. The people for whom keeping secrets or infidelity are grounds for divorce. Sorry, not sure I follow.

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u/GodkingYuuumie 10h ago

Right to privacy, as in just because I am your husband doesn't mean I can record you naked secretly.

C'mon now

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u/MyGirlyHiro 9h ago

Technically, a robot vacuum cleaner is not a surveillance device. He could have seen it by accident if the robot was recording video on its own.

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u/SpecificInterest5150 8h ago

Key word here is "intent".

He was trying to catch her cheating but was not doing so with the express intent of self arousal.

This is comparable to CP laws where people are protected from possession if they are law enforcement or someone who happened to receive them unsolicited yet chose not to open them and turned them in with the express intent to help said law enforcement agencies among other similar instances.

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u/Princess_Froggles 10h ago

I don't think being married to someone gives them the right to film you secretly in your home. I'm amazed anyone thinks a presumed right to privacy is unreasonable.

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u/Just-the-tip-4-1-sec 10h ago

Oh I think that’s because you’re not thinking very hard at all. Maybe when your spouse (lol) puts a camera in the toilet you’ll be cool with it because you have no secrets

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u/77th_Bat 9h ago

consent is still needed between spouses

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u/Huntsman077 7h ago

Ngl that’s an interesting legal situation, I’m going to but the corporate lawyer with this lol.

I agree she has the right to privacy, but it’s unique because she also knew the robot was there and capable of recording.

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u/Western-Boot-4576 7h ago

What’s the cut off tho? Bathrooms and private spaces 100% agree.

But a vacuum would most likely be in common areas, in the guys own house. Should be allowed to put a camera in your own house common areas if you want to.

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u/whydoihavetojoin 5h ago

I have cameras that record indoor activity. If someone is going to walk around my house naked, they will get recorded. It is my home. It is my camera. Now, granted my spouse also lives in the same house.. does that mean that camera is illegal to be put in my own house.

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u/stonno45 10h ago

So if you visit someone and they secretly record you going to the toilet its fine according to you?

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u/Just-the-tip-4-1-sec 10h ago

Why would you think that if that home is shared with others? Should they be able to record tenants naked? House guests?

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u/moveslikejaguar 9h ago

How would you feel if you had a roommate and they were recording you without your knowledge?

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u/CappinPeanut 10h ago

I don’t really think that’s how Roombas work, either.

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u/Midget_Stories 10h ago

There are some you can remotely connect to and use the camera... But those things are generally pretty loud. Im pretty sure they would hear the robo vac turning on.

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u/fejota 10h ago

Too bad the human vag was already turned on 

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u/notmyblood 11h ago

“I’m counter suing!”

“Okay what relief are you seeking?”

“Jail! Lock him up!”

I’m pretty sure this isn’t how civil lawsuits work…

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u/MobsterDragon275 10h ago

Suing in some countries is synonymous with pressing charges

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u/CarelessPangolin5564 6h ago

One thing learned about reddit is that everyone will view the world through the lense of the western world and if you try to imply things work differently elsewhere you are sort of just wrong

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u/Active_Respond_4862 5h ago

yeah everyone views the world in their lens based on their own lives, get your head out of your pretentious ass.

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u/CarelessPangolin5564 5h ago

I am sorry I have offended you. Please accept my sincere apologies

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u/Endless_Story94 2h ago

It's as if reddit is a western website... with a predominantly western user base.

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u/Stermo28 11h ago

Would the defense have an easy time proving that he just randomly saw it through the camera he just casually checked since that literally happened in his house?

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u/wts_optimus_prime 7h ago

This isn't about legality though, but morality. And morality does not care for made up motivations. Only about the actual motivation

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u/Stermo28 5h ago

Yes, I wasn´t engaging in the morality conversation, I just can not believe a judge would send someone to jail for that

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u/daslows 2h ago

Morality or cheating is much worse than proving your spouse is cheating. That woman is low life scum

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u/arrrberg 5h ago

I mean not if he used that footage to sue her, he clearly had to have recorded and kept it which is much more intentional

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u/throw7661 8h ago edited 7h ago

No morality judgement, but some extra information. This didn't happen in the US - it happened in Taiwan.

Cheating is perfectly legal, but you can sue for civil damages. Which is exactly what he did.

However, in Taiwan, there are privacy laws... Very much like we have in the US (specifics depend on the state). Having a camera is fine, and having the robot vacuum is fine, but you can't use it to record someone with an expectation of privacy.

The woman was in her house. She was naked. You can't record your spouse in that situation, without their consent.

He did record her. Without her consent.

He only did it once, but it's very much against the law to record your spouse the way that he did, in Taiwan.

The wife and her lover were found guilty of infidelity and ordered to pay $16k USD (jointly) to the husband.

The husband was found guilty of violating her privacy and fined about $5k and sentenced to five months in prison....but in Taiwan he can just pay more to stay out. So he's effectively facing a $10k-ish fine

It seems he intends to appeal the decision. But even if it doesn't work out, he will very likely to just pay a fine, though it seems fairly large IMHO.

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u/Techygal9 6h ago

I just can’t believe he had to pay a fine unless he uploaded them online for others to see. That would be morally wrong imo. But to record proof of an infidelity just to use in court… then that’s fair play to me.

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u/AxiumTea 11h ago

Spying? is it illegal and bases for suing when someone does it in their own house?

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u/ThrasherDX 10h ago

It was also her house, so she had the right to privacy. You don't have the right to spy on your roommate just because its "your house" anymore than your roommate has the right to spy on you.

In addition, some places are illegal to record period, such as bathrooms.

Plus as others have said, recording footage of her nude without consent.

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u/AxiumTea 10h ago

I suppose that makes sense if you put it that way. This really complicates the matter, now it's more down to what's more immoral here. Here what the husband set out to do was proven to be right yet because of his way of doing it, he was blamed and jailed instead.

Would you say the court should make a sort of exception for cases like these or treat them the same way as the room mate example you gave?

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u/ThrasherDX 9h ago

Its not really that complicated, for the simple reason that cheating isnt a crime, its just immoral.

In the courts eyes, violating the law to spy on someones legal (even if immoral) behavior is definitely worse than the legal-but-immoral behavior.

It would be murkier if he spied and caught her doing something blatantly illegal, IIRC there are usually exceptions to privacy law when it comes to blatant criminal acts.

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u/Neither-Maximum-5609 7h ago

Actually adultery is a crime in quite a few places.

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u/ThrasherDX 5h ago

Sure, but not in Taiwan to my knowledge

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u/keIIzzz 8h ago

They are both immoral, but one is illegal

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u/SnooPredictions3028 6h ago

You have no right to privacy from roommates in the common room.

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u/PCN24454 10h ago

Apparently the issue was the footage of her being naked

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u/sopapordondelequepa 11h ago

If the country is a shithole (legally) yes

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u/CertainGrade7937 10h ago

Eh no. This is actually a perfectly decent policy.

It would be really fucked if I, for instance, put a hidden security camera in the bathroom and didn't tell my roommate

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u/sopapordondelequepa 10h ago

That’s an entirely different case thought, as it would be basically sexual assault

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u/CertainGrade7937 10h ago

It's not an entirely different case. Do you think the roomba never goes in their bedroom? Or any other spot that would have a presumption of privacy?

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u/Iankill 9h ago

It's not entirely different, the basis is recording someone without their knowledge.

If you put security cameras in your home the other people that share the home with you need to be made aware of them. If you installed 3 cameras in shared spaces but only told your roommates about 2 of them.

Anything the 3rd camera recorded would be illegal because they're being recorded without their knowledge.

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u/Sepplord 10h ago

So every country that disallows someone from recording a naked roommate or spouse on the toilet without their knowledge is a shithole as long as you own the house?

W T F ?

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u/sopapordondelequepa 10h ago

If you move the goalposts too far, sure

My house has cameras in the living room, obviously the intention isn’t to film anyone naked

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u/Sepplord 10h ago

I didn’t move the goalpost though?

You are now moving it to make your shithole country statement less radical

And no, filming others and storing their footage without their consent is a big no go in my eyes. Even if it is in your living room. 

To the point that IF we take that as criteria for a country being a shithole or not the country allowing it is the shithole. Not the other way around

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u/sopapordondelequepa 10h ago

You moved them, filming someone in the bathroom without their knowledge isn’t defensive behaviour no matter how you spit it, it has nothing to do with this case, I don’t think you’ll find anyone that thinks is moral lol

Strawman

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u/Sepplord 7h ago

Okay, let’s leave the toilet out. I meant bathroom because that’s where people usually are naked more often. But it doesn’t matter for the point.

So let’s stick to just filming a naked roommate/spouse without their knowledge? Or hell even just filing them and storing their pictures without them being naked at all. In the end „naked“ is not the real factor here.

Having a law against that makes a country a shithole?

Giving people the right to their own picture makes a country a shithole?

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u/Iankill 9h ago

Yes you're not allowed to spy on other people living in your shared home without their knowledge. It's a pretty basic concept

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u/reaver619 10h ago

How else would he find out aside from waiting under the bed

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u/Outlaw11091 8h ago

This is one of those cases where the law steps away from morality, imo.

Not because it was "his house" or "his wife".

Neither of those things give you free reign to record naked people against their will.

But because we know that his INTENT was to simply prove the infidelity.

Sadly, we live in such a garbage fucking timeline that these laws are necessary...but this is an exceptional circumstance.

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u/Any_Mud_1628 6h ago

Garbage timeline 100%. Right he didn't do it to see his own wife naked but to discover the cheating. Ridiculous. Taiwan sounds like it sucks. And you can just pay more to stay out of jail? What a disgrace of justice

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u/Bruzie77 9h ago

I check the case out. he wont around 19k from her but she got him jailed for 5 months and. got 4700 bucks back.

15k after he leaves. did he win or lose?

Also in america it wouldn’t happen but the video itseld would be inadmissible as cheating evidence . After all as long as one person want to in their own home they can.

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u/PieXReaper 9h ago

Depends on his salary, and even then it's going to be on his record which might affect his future unlike the ex-wife's affair. Also I personally value time more so imo the wife won, sent him to jail for 5 months and wasted who knows how long of his life with a cheater. All that and she only needed to payout 15k? She made out like a bandit.

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u/Bruzie77 6h ago

you forget 15 k in taiwan can let a single person live comfortably for 12-15 months. in the us it might last 3-4 months but when he get out of jail he have 12-15 month east living cushion. like all ultiitiew mortage etc rentel. not to mention the assest in the divorce.

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u/GatoConCalcetines 8h ago

You can be a pos without breaking the law and you can break the law without being a pos

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u/LilJonny2cookies 10h ago

Taiwanese law says it is illegal to record people in their home without being made aware.

I am one of those weird people that avoids crossing the law by not breaking laws. He broke the law. She is a scumbag.

In a case like this it would be nice to have discretion in sentencing.

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u/AccomplishedBat39 7h ago

Its interesting though:

Did she not know the roomba could record video?

If she did im not sure how valid those charges would be and her affair could actually sue her for not being made aware of it.

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u/Delgree-23 7h ago

Moral. Illegal, but moral.

Her actions were legal, but immoral.

Love opposites like this.

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u/mad_dog_94 4h ago

He was moral, she was not

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u/Hot-Lunch6270 10h ago

This isn’t just immoral. It’s stupid. She cheated on their marriage and the husband gets a jail for “Spying without consent” in their own house while the Wife’s secret boyfriend is literally the stranger there?

I can feel the Husband’s family getting enraged by that and so as the Wife’s parents can be feel ashamed.

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u/MashedPotato____ 8h ago edited 8h ago

The stranger has consent from one of the residents so its not trespassing, recording someone naked without their consent, no matter where, is against the law.

I can’t just invite a girl to my house and record her secretly because it’s “muh house”.
Idk how promiscuity is being treated by the legal system there but at the very least it’s not being clumped together in the same case.
Maybe he will have a smoother divorce🤷

Cheating : immoral
Spying : immoral & illegal
The verdict of this case: neutral

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u/Hot-Lunch6270 8h ago

I mean for real though, if there is a court case and the Court demanded to prove evidence will be provided, I will also use home camera to prove it.

Otherwise this is against the authenticity of Justice and the victim if criminal finds that way to abuse it and walks scott free. It’s a mad world.

Btw, she invited the man without letting her husband know.

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u/keIIzzz 8h ago

It’s not illegal to invite someone to your home without your spouse knowing. Cheating is obviously immoral, but recording people without consent in what’s also her own home too is not legal. Especially videoing them naked

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u/TrustworthyKahmunrah 4h ago

We're not talking about legality in this sub. He did nothing immoral and she did.

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u/NoMasterpiece5649 10h ago

Spying.... In his own house?

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u/[deleted] 7h ago

Yes just bc you own a house doesn’t mean you can secretly record ppl, especially when they are nude. 

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u/Hener001 6h ago

BS

The lawsuit, and countersuit, would be civil.

Jail is a criminal penalty not available in a civil suit. It is not possible to obtain the result in a counterclaim.

The meme is a lie. Trolling. Move along.

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u/Cloudwolfxii 8h ago

Lot of cheaters in these comments self projecting.

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u/Healthy_Pay9449 10h ago

He should have just divorced

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u/GoldenPhoenix__ 5h ago

Hoes aint loyal

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u/1Negative_Person 9h ago

Source? This doesn’t sound like the US. You can’t sue someone to jail. That’s not how civil courts work.

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u/Outlaw11091 9h ago

For the lawsuit, the man submitted "evidence" of her infidelity to public record. This gets passed to the District Attorney because it shows he recorded her without her consent...and distributed it to the court.

It WAS in Taiwan, though.

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u/kageshira1010 11h ago

"spied without consent", that's the literal definition of spying. This is like saying raped without consent

This is fake. And in case it was real, send the judge to jail for prevarication

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u/AppointmentOk2025 11h ago

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u/chachaslydd 11h ago

Recording porn or nudity without others knowledge is a crime. For like...tons of countries.

So he was punished for a crime he committed. Cheating isnt illegal. What he did was

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u/Glum-Recognition-736 10h ago

I think any reasonable courtroom / judge would realize that the dude clearly wasn't recording them to make porn, and probably would have been happier to not see his wife naked with another man, but simply captured the affair as proof of his suspicions

When we start acting like dumb, mindless robots who cannot comprehend nuance like that, well you get draconian police states like Taiwan apparently 

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u/chachaslydd 10h ago

Wed need to see what all he recorded and how much he kept.

They found him guilty, so the judges determined he crossed some lines. So.

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u/doesnotmatter286 11h ago

I don't think cheating is illegal. Just immoral. But spying is both. So assuming this isn't made up, I can see how that could happen. Both actions were immoral though.

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u/Valveringham85 10h ago

Spying? Dude it’s his own home? Having security cameras in your own home is illegal (and immoral)?

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u/mytransfercaseisshot 10h ago

I agree with you here. If he was using the footage for monetary gains or revenge then it is definitely immoral. However, him using it to catch his with cheating in THEIR OWN HOME, how is that immoral!?

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u/Silver_Middle_7240 10h ago

Having cameras recording other people where it is normal to be named without their knowledge is illegal even in your own home.

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u/Ostrichslinger 10h ago

Wait, so if I visit someones home and they have a home surveillance system which they don't tell me about, I can sue them?

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u/Silver_Middle_7240 10h ago

If it is in a bathroom bathroom or bedroom and records you getting baked yes

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u/Outlaw11091 9h ago

Yes. Anywhere that you would have an expectation of privacy.

Bathroom, bedroom, outhouse.

They're called "upskirt laws".

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u/bediaxenciJenD81gEEx 7h ago

Not immoral to attempt to catch infidelity within reason. He didn't stalk her or anything, so moral.  Also not immoral for her to work within the framework of the law and countersue if her rights were violated.

5 months in prison is a totally disproportionate punishment and the law should be reviewed to allow for greater nuance. But I understand not wanting the law to start eroding on privacy rights, that's a slippery slope and leniency might encourage more people setting up spy cams to spy on spouses.

The takeaway is, if you do do something like this, don't use it as evidence, and do not keep the footage. Don't mention it to anyone, and use it to inform how you will "officially" catch out your unfaithful partner. 

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u/SnooPredictions3028 6h ago

"Spying" moral. Cheating on your partner and sending him to jail when you're caught? Very immoral, lowest level of Hell immoral.

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u/Anxious-Plan4482 4h ago

He was Moral

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u/Murky_Toe_4717 4h ago

Someone cheating is always on the immoral side. Always.

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u/a_x_shually 3h ago

I can't IMAGINE why marriage rates are dropping.

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u/JustUseCommonSense10 3h ago

Moral, we need to do whatever we need to do to stop using recording instead of conversations.

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u/coco_shka 2h ago

A similar thing happened to my friend. She recorded how her ex was abusing her and recorded how aggressive he was when he was "taking care" of their kid, that he was using drugs, etc., and she was fined for nonconsensual recording. I've heard them, and the recordings were terrifying. Sounds of hitting and choking, the kid crying in the background, him screaming profanities... She wanted to protect her kid but unfortunately lost the fight. The only good thing is that the kid is now old enough to decide, and he is refusing to visit his father even for a meal.

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u/Late-Arrival-8669 2h ago

I assume her place and not jointly rented/own is the only reason this could happen.

No place in the US, can I have a residence I cannot legally record.

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u/Jimmicky 39m ago

As a only mildly silly counterpoint - if you put a hidden camera in your toilet/shower/etc without telling your invited guests they absolutely can sue you over that and win basically everywhere in the US.

As a super ridiculous counterpoint, if someone is in your home involuntarily - say because you kidnapped them - the cops absolutely can add a charge related to illegally filming that person on top of the charges for kidnapping, assault, etc just based on the cameras in your home.
Now partly they do that so they have some charges they can choose to drop as part of negotiations with your lawyer, but the fact remains in most states of the US you can in fact be sued for recording stuff in your own home

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u/Madhatter25224 8h ago

Highly moral.

She cheated and its not as if he spread the video on the internet or something.

The law and morality are frequently not in lockstep.

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u/DudeFrom816 11h ago

This sounds like a precedence for deflock

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u/EveHen0426 5h ago

cheating is partner abuse, and should be illegal

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u/newishDomnewersub 11h ago

Im not sure how observingbyour own home is "spying". Suing over infidelity is silly. Work it out or break up.

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u/Grizzled_Ghost 10h ago

He had the Roomba follow her out on the town during the dates. He put it in adorable little disguises.

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u/Raptmembrane 11h ago

I doubt you can sue someone for cheating in the first place

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u/sopapordondelequepa 11h ago

No, but is a good argument to not lose half your shit in a divorce

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u/SmallNoBigYes 10h ago

So does he still get the money?

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u/Jaded-Message-7942 10h ago

If I had a hot Taiwanese wife having an affair I'd be watching her with the vacuum too but not for the same reasons 😂

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u/One_Pie289 10h ago

All of this is immoral

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u/VinDucks 10h ago

The hilarity of it is that he still won in the end

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u/MrboboCatman 10h ago

She would have still paid out.

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u/DefZepp3lin 8h ago

You have consent to spy on me

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u/RyanDred42 7h ago

But like that's a separate case so she lost too, right?

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u/Miserable_Ebb4854 7h ago

Lot of redditors in this post discovering that the world outside of 'murica exists xD

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u/elrevan 7h ago

I don’t think it’s fair to say he was spying in his own home.

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u/overwerk75 7h ago

I ask you this, if you were in the same situation and you've just caught your spouse cheating and the "Save Video" button is there, what would you realistically do? I would say the majority of people would hit the button rather than let the video be deleted.

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u/Denaton_ 7h ago

I call BS, when you remote use a vacuum like that they basically yell "I AM WATCHING YOU" (Don't remember exactly but it isn't quiet)

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u/WhereasMajestic9588 7h ago

Weird, I don't think he should be jailed for this as long as he only used the footage for proving the affair.

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u/Loud_Difference_1827 7h ago

Was the concent not given when they both bought and then turned on the automated vacuum?

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u/CrimsonSighh 6h ago

Both messed up

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u/Thin_Garage7060 6h ago

Patriarchy 😭😭

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u/ChocolateCake16 6h ago

Obviously cheating is immoral, and the man should have the right to know that his wife is having sexual contact with someone else (because it puts him at risk if his wife catches something and then passes it to him, plus it's a violation of their relationship) but spying on someone in their own home, even if you live there too, is illegal for a reason. A robot vacuum very likely has terrible security, so the camera can easily be hacked by a third party (this is the same issue that baby monitors with cameras have). Even if the man in question never shares the footage, it's probably already being shared by an unseen hacker.

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u/Pandragony 6h ago

Wtf you can sue your partner for an affair?

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u/Garpan33 6h ago

The roomba doesn't have morality. It is the one featured in the pic, so I assume it's about it :).

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u/PartyClock 6h ago

This didn't happen

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u/Calm-Medicine-3992 6h ago

Intentionally getting the roomba just for filming someone without their consent: sketchy. Getting a roomba with a camera you both know about and catching her: fine.

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u/SelfSubstantial7143 6h ago

This is fake

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u/MichaelCorbaloney 6h ago

I think in a case where you're trying to prove something on the grounds of a legal basis, there should be some reasonable (restricted) exemptions to expectations of privacy in cases like this.

If someone is intentionally blackmailing me in my home or if someone strips in my home as a way of indecent assault, or if someone even just attempts to defraud me in my home, I should be able to use recordings to prove it, even if they are an allowed guest in my house.

This is a tricky one though because cheating in a marriage isn't a crime obviously, but it is something you still require legal evidence of in most divorce hearings, so it's complicated. Obviously there should be heavy restrictions and requirements, but private eyes typically will take photos to document affairs-even though in normal situations that would be considered stalking, so it stands to reason this would be similarly allowed.

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u/Historical-Today-943 5h ago

Recording without consent is okay as long as your name is fcebokk or uoogle.

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u/TheMightyJehosiphat 5h ago

Of what, lying on the internet?

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u/_Gaming_whtever_ 5h ago

It doesn't make sense to me. So like the court encourage cheating over putting camera in your own house to see if there is some unwanted individual that would DUCK YOUR WIFE?

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u/NLOneOfNone 5h ago

“Spying without consent”

That’s pretty much the whole point of spying on someone.

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u/JessicaDAndy 5h ago

I appreciate this headline better than the one that said “Man caught wife cheating with robot vacuum cleaner and man was sentenced to jail.”

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u/JimHeckdiver 5h ago

It's in his own home. He can record anything he wants.

The only one acting immoral is the cheating spouse.

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u/Furycrab 5h ago

Apparently the ruling is up for appeal and it's more complicated on account of using the vacuum to record the spouse naked.

Very grey for me.

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u/Nervous_Dream7344 5h ago

gif related

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u/Le-Charles07 5h ago

He will make a lot of friends with valuable skills with that story. "What are you in for?" "So, get this. My wife..."

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u/LiytlKaiser 5h ago

So if you plan on a divorce due to infidelity, and you don't want to lose half of everything you own, how else can you guarantee it? You can pray that they'll fess up, but they are already lying to you about the cheating in the first place. Without video proof or an admission of guilt I see no other way for the one being cheated on to guarantee not being financially ruined for what could very well be the rest of their life.

Is there more to this? Was the video distributed elsewhere besides just the court?

Genuine question by the way if any would be able to answer.

---i did just realize it said he sued, not divorced...does this have something to do with it?

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u/GiggleGnome 5h ago

So if she knew that the roomba was in the home and knew that it has a camera and that it moves about the house recording things as it does its job, couldn't that be seen as implied consent? The whole event is strange at best but welcome to the age of cameras, microphones and GPS trackers in every device imaginable.

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u/SnooBunnies856 5h ago

Lawsuits are not criminal, you don’t go to jail for being sued.

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u/WholeAd2742 5h ago

Two wrongs

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u/Pandastic3000 5h ago

I swear to god these kind of posts with random parts in another color showed up not even a year ago! Where does this type of post come from? Is it an AI thing?

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u/nikolasz1173 4h ago

Laws had never anything to do with morality or justice