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[u/Both-Bet-4331]

Hi! I have never done needlepoint before, but I am a very crafty person. I can crochet, cross stitch, knit, sew, etc. I’m a fast learner! Is it too ambitious for my first needlepoint project to be a belt? I have my heart set on designing a needlepoint belt for my boyfriend and finishing it by Christmas or his birthday which is in January. I want to design it on needlepaint.com (hopefully this is a good site for this). Do I need to also get something to stretch the canvas or can I complete it without one of those? But if many of you think this is too big of a project to take on I want the truth too! Thanks!

[u/ndlptgrandmillennial]

I’m pretty confident you won’t be able to get a finisher to commit to that. I had to drop off my frame by may 1 to get it by Christmas. There’s also a superstition that you don’t make a belt for a boyfriend, only when there’s a ring so take that as you will hahaha

[u/Nola-Needlepoints]

I applaud your enthusiasm but jump in a bit into the shallow end not the deep end. Pick a smaller project to see if this is the sport for you. A belt is a lot and needlepaint belts/belts are not beginner friendly. Plus the boyfriend belt curse.

[u/AlwaysOnTheCape]

FYI some people do believe in the boyfriend belt curse that post gifting you will break up if you believe in superstition. Lycette has a whole highlight on it on their Instagram. Also most finishers set a deadline for guaranteed Christmas delivery and it typically set for late summer/early fall

[u/North_Class8300]

Belts aren't difficult but they are a lot of ground to cover: they take months to stitch and then months to finish. Your first project isn't likely to be super even and smooth either, get the hang of it / figure out what threads you like on a smaller project. The break up belt thing is also very real, go look at Lycette's Instagram highlights, it's pretty entertaining how many stories they have on there

An ornament is a nice, doable project - you've missed the finishing deadlines for a lot of places already, but if you are crafty you can self-finish an ornament.

[u/RhinestoneRave]

A belt isn’t necessarily complex to stitch. But I’d recommend getting a simple and fast design to start with to see if you even like doing needlepoint and to get used to doing correct stitching on something that doesn’t have a deadline. I started with needlepoint, did counted cross stitch and petit point and drawn thread work for a long time before going back to needlepoint. As a cross stitcher you have the basics, more or less. Good luck!

[u/Ina_Garden]

Belts aren’t difficult but they’re boring…..so you might get discouraged. Also it’s probably too tight of a timeline. I’d give the painted belt as the gift and then stitch it in your own time! If it’s custom it’s very thoughtful and expensive in its own right. Also then you can stitch it in front of him!

[u/katnhay]

You can probably do the belt, but honestly, it’s not going to look great, and finishing them is quite expensive. I’d get a little stitching practice so that you have smooth, even stitches and feel good about the investment to finish it.

[u/jlll2424]

So funny. Im new to needlepoint, so this is the first time ive heard of the belt curse. Im a decades-long knitter, however, and knitters have a similar boyfriend sweater superstition!

[u/BobsWifeAmyB]

I’m not superstitious at all- buuut…
I did a large cross stitch wedding announcement for my friend and his wife.
Our parents were friends and our Moms were pregnant at the same time.
We worked at the same summer camp, went to college together, yada yada.
And I knew his wife for a few years as I dated his apt -roommate during college and she was there a lot.
So I this wasn’t someone I knew casually.
I made sure I got the colors their bedroom was in, and I had it framed, double matted and I thought it looked nice. Wish I had a pic of it. This was mid-80’s.
Well, a couple of years later they got divorced and who knows where the x stitch pic went.

A few years later Bill remarried to Wanda, my best friend during college. This time I scaled it back and did a monogram fingertip towel for them.
Yep, they divorced too.
That was late 80’s when they married.

Then I did a cross stitch fingertip towel for a work acquaintance when she got married with their monogram on it. Again, I checked on the colors in their guest bath/powder room so I could coordinate.
Well that marriage didn’t last long.

[u/Human_Ambassador5471 → u/BobsWifeAmyB]

Stick to the wedding registry 🤣🤣

[u/BobsWifeAmyB → u/Human_Ambassador5471]

lol there wasn’t one in any of these.

[u/BobsWifeAmyB]

I have nothing to add, except crawl before you walk. I certainly applaud you for want to learn another craft, but I agree w/the others don’t start out with something you are in a hurry to finish. Do some small kits first.
Since you’re a cross stitcher may I assume you have a floss stash? If so then all you need is a canvas and a chart. You can use a preprinted canvas- I think most people do, but I’m doing one right now and it only had a chart.

[u/richelieucwe]

I would do a self finishing passport holder, luggage tag, ornament, wallet, pet collar (if he has a pet) or something for this Christmas. In the meantime, you can research belt finishers, requirements, and costs and be able to make plans for the next gift giving opportunity knowing the finishing time table.

[u/Outrageous_Rice3461]

I say save it for a birthday, Christmas finishing is prob too late at this point to get it professionally completed, whether it’s done by a new or experienced stitcher. If you don’t mind finishing it later, I say go for it :)

[u/HoraceP-D]

I can’t tell you what to do, but I can tell you I do better when I’m doing a project I want to do rather than project at/below skill level, but boring.
If you want to do a belt, do a belt. Hand it to him when you are ready to hand it to him. Not because the calendar picks the date. And once you do if he doesn’t wear it… Don’t put that on him. I don’t like being given things that other people have made that I feel I need to wear to make them happy. I do have a sweater that someone knit for me I absolutely love it, but I still only wear it maybe once every six weeks

[u/englishikat]

From the standpoint of easy stitching, a belt is a great beginner project because even if you do use decorative stitches, they tend to be simple ones. Since it's unlikely you'll get it finished - stitching and final leather work, why not start with a key fob?

[u/Witty_Draw_4856]

Not at all. My first project after years of cross stitching and quilting was a stocking

Choose whatever project you are most interested and intrigued by. You’re more likely to finish it

[u/Cinisajoy2]

Needlepoint at its simplest is half cross stitch. 

[u/RootSleuth]

I learned to needlepoint as a child and did a few projects. Like you, I then did a lot of other kinds of needlework. I then picked up needlepoint again to make an argyle belt for my fiancee. It was fast, no stretcher needed, I only stab when I needlepoint, and the canvas still looked new when I finished. He is now my husband of 43 years and he still could wear it if I hadn't fed him so much! It's in my stitching area now and is a reminder to keep doing what I love. I then designed college belts for my kids and people on campus would go nuts over them. Good thing I built their initials into the design or they would have been sold for sure!

People who finish belts aren't as busy as other finishers and you might even be able to find one online who you can work with directly. Including a shop causes delays.

Also, I just used graph paper to work out my designs. I have also used Excel. Googlesheets is free.

You can do this! It will be great! ❤️

[u/Greenyarnball]

YOu do what project inspires you the most. You said you can sew, I am pretty sure you can figure out how to self finish a belt. Find a nice lining, stitch around, use hardware to make it a belt. Use the most durable stitches, like basketweave. No long stitches, probably. Maybe try to sew a sample belt (from pretty fabrics) to see how it works and how to place hardware. I am sure you can do it, it is not a rocket science. Maybe try stitching a small portion of the belt on a scrap canvas to practice stitches.

As for stretching - I personally strongly prefer stretching the canvas and work two handed with the frame on a floor stand. You can use scroll frame to stretch the long strip of canvas, small ones aren't that expensive and you can use them for cross stitch, too, of course. Stretching helps with tension and reduces distortion from unbalanced stitches. But many people work in hand, too, of course.

[u/Violet_rabbit2284]

I just finished a belt for my husband. Like many are saying, it's not hard (I did one stitch - basketweave) but it is time consuming. I also did it as a Christmas gift last year and with finishing time it has become a Christmas gift for this year 🤪  I used Needlepaint to customize and had them kit for me, which was convenient. Overall a good experience, but not a short one! Their current belt finishing time is quoted as up to 16 weeks and the Christmas finishing deadline has passed. 

Maybe consider a customized key fob if you want that finished leather look, but more a manageable project timeframe? I took the color printed copy with the custom belt design from Needlepaint (it came in the package) and boxed it up to put under the tree. 

Also, yikes, never knew the superstition around belts before - fingers crossed for us lol. My grandma needlepointed a custom belt for my grandfather every few years starting after they'd been married 50 years and did so until they passed in their late 90s after 70+ years of marriage! 

[u/LCGoldie]

I think that you’ll have no trouble at all as you said you can cross stitch. Needlepoint is very similar. But equine about it because finishing takes a long time around the holiday.

[u/BadParker56]

I returned to needlepoint after many years break. My second project was a rather costly pillow. I wish I had waited til I had stitches more projects because I am not happy with how some of my stitches look. If it had been an ornament, it would have been something I don't see everyday. (Note that I am cursed by being a perfectionist.)

[u/Vast_Pin6809]

A belt that I designed myself on Stitchly was pretty much the first project I ever completed! I had messed around on some Aida cloth prior, but then I dove in head first. It's a lot of math and a lot of patience, but I did it! I started stitching in the beginning of Feb 2025 and finished it in 3 weeks (and the majority of Sex and the City). I shipped to the finisher at the end of Feb and received it in May in time for my now-husband's college graduation gift. I will say, though, that my best friend used the same finisher this year and it took probably three times as long to get back. You could always stitch it and then show your boyfriend for Christmas or his birthday before you send it to the finisher so that you can get his input on the leather and metal colors. That way it still counts for the gift! Best of luck! I was ambitious at the start too.

[u/Vast_Pin6809 → u/Vast_Pin6809]

Also, I stitched the whole thing without stretcher bars. I kept the ends rolled up when I wasn't working on that specific area!

[u/Decopaint298girl149]

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but yes, I think this is too big a project but probably not for the reason you are thinking. Even if you could come up with a design quickly for needlepoint.com (yes it’s a good site for designing projects) and they could get it to you quickly that would take about a month. Then you need to learn to do needlepoint and finish the project in a month. The biggest obstacle is the finishing. Most finisher are at least 3-6 months out on the finishing, some even more.