r/RBI • u/Mikhail_Ankralosilov • 7h ago
Advice needed My father knows very fine details of me and I do not know how
Im not going to specify my age but I will say first that I am a male minor anyways
So for a couple years now my mother and father have been divorced and I don't visit my dad due to my own request since I really don't like him for ditching me and my mom
Ever since the divorce any time we have spoken he has known very very fine details on me
Not things that are public or easy to find
But deep secrets that he can only find on my PERSONAL Diary that I always kept in my back pack or bed side maybe even things in my PC's notepad. Which I must clarify I don't have anything that can let him or anyone assess my PC (Anydesk or similar programs) and for a bit now he has been very up to date with these details like me having a discord server with my friends the games I bought or played my daily routine my new phone number the fact I shaved my body hairs and that I grew my hair out
Now to clarify more
No one in my freind or family circle knows some of these or the stuff they do know I've asked them about I've seen their phones and none of them are telling him.
He(dad) has been being very creepy with the details of my life he knows. Not close pinpointing the details. He knew I was at a mall with my other freinds he knew my very secret political views and today when I spoke to him on phone (by request of court about a topic) he told me "I find it weird that you are an Orthodox Cristian. Is this because you are leaving the country?" Which the only people that know that detail is Me Mom which I interrogated and our priest which he doesn't even know I have a dad. I asked him too about if he knew my dad and he told me that he thought I was a orphan at birth.
So my question is. How is my dad getting these details on me. Both online details or physically kept secrets. Ive wondered if he has a private investigator or a mole in my friend groups but there is no mole and I can verify that.
Please someone give me advice on WHAT it is and HOW I can avoid what ever he has