r/Redditdating 10h ago

23F Looking for something serious (open to long distance)

70 Upvotes

Hi! <3. I am 23 years old, residing in the U.S, and looking for a serious/long term connection : ). I don’t mind if we start off being long distance first either, so country or state does not matter to me! I do have an age preference though and I would prefer it if you were 23 or older because I do not feel comfortable dating people who are younger than me 😭🫶. So yeah, please be 23+. I also don’t want to jump into a relationship and would like to take things slow and just get to know each other first 🩷. And if things don’t work out that’s okay, we can still be friends!

Some things about me: I am a gamer and love to play video games! It is my favorite thing to do. I also like watching movies and going shopping (retail therapy is great lol). I love animals and have a pet cat, and I would prefer to connect with someone who is okay with owning pets!

If you do message me make sure to provide your age in your message and maybe tell me something about yourself 😊✌️.

Note: forgot to mention. I am 5’5 and white/caucasian, I also have a green eyes (just so you can get an idea of what I look like!)


r/Redditdating 10h ago

18F fine with long distance

25 Upvotes

Just looking for anyone to fill the void. Feel free, I don’t mind anything casual. But let’s be there for eachother. I like psychology, animals, music, art, shopping sometimes, movies and the list goes on. Do tell me about yourself, thanks. :)


r/Redditdating 2h ago

28 [F4M] - #online, ready for some speed dating?

6 Upvotes

Let’s cut to the chase. Get in call and send each other photos. Rip the band aid off and tell me you don’t like me.

Looking to get to know people I can vibe with. Just someone who I can laugh with, question life with, get mad and rant about insignificant things with. Who will accept me for the chaotic little gremlin I am

A bit about me:
- I’m kinda short, tan, chubby, black curly hair
- working in healthcare
- easily bored
- easily distracted
- I would like to sing and dance and exercise more
- trying to find better and healthier recipes for my daily diet
- I love overthinking and when I actually finish something I started doing

When you message me please introduce yourself a lil bit and ASL Ofc!


r/Redditdating 3h ago

21 [F4M] #Texas I’m here to meet new people, steal a few smiles, and maybe lose my heart a little

5 Upvotes

A genuine connection, some playful tension, and a person who feels worth getting excited about


r/Redditdating 47m ago

24 [F4M] #Netherlands #Europe — Round 3 (?)

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Here we go again.. 3rd time's the charm, right? 😆

A little about me:
I like travelling, movies, anime, swimming, exploring new places, church, spending time with friends/family, and random adventures. I’m introverted at first but can talk about pretty much anything once I’m comfortable.

Physically:
166cm, Asian, long dark hair, brown eyes :)

Looking for:
Looking for something genuine that could eventually turn into a relationship. No hookups, situationships, or endless meaningless small talk :)

- 24–29ish
- Netherlands / Europe
- Preferably 185cm+
- Funny, emotionally mature & able to hold a conversation
- Consistent and communicative
- Actually looking for a relationship!

And yes, communication matters to me. I know we’re not glued to our phones 24/7 & neither am I. But if you can’t spare 30 seconds to say you’re busy instead of disappearing and making me guess what the fuck is going on, don’t message me. We’re adults. I want someone who can communicate.

Also, if you’re going to get offended by my preferences, we’re probably not compatible anyway. 😂 They’re preferences, not a personal attack.

When you message, tell me your age, location, and something about yourself. Please don’t make me interview you, and if you say only "hi", I won't respond as well ;)

(Also happy to send photos first before all that talking, to see if we are each other's type!)

If you’re genuinely interested, come say hi!


r/Redditdating 2h ago

26 [M4M] #Texas - Hoping to meet a guy for long term

2 Upvotes

Hello. I’m a guy looking to meet another guy to chat with, get to know each other, and hopefully build a long-term, serious connection. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m hoping you do too.

I’m originally from Mexico but currently living in the U.S. I’m 26 and, like many people at this stage of life, I’m figuring things out and building the life I want. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, but I have plenty of dreams, goals, and things I’m working toward.

I currently work part-time at a job I genuinely enjoy, and I recently finished two internships. I’m academically and professionally ambitious, and I’m looking for someone who has that same drive and wants to build something meaningful for themselves.

A little about me: I love reading, writing, listening to music, and going for walks. I also care a lot about taking care of myself, both physically and mentally. I go to the gym, have a skincare routine, try to eat well, and meditate. I value a healthy lifestyle and a healthy mindset.

Ideally, I’d like to meet a masculine guy around my age who is also ambitious, goal-oriented, and takes care of himself. I’m a pretty normal guy with softer facial features and personality traits, but I’m not that feminine.

I’m open to long-distance if there’s a genuine connection and, importantly, an actual plan to eventually meet. I’m not interested in significantly older or younger guys; I’d prefer someone around my age.

I’m also here for genuine conversation and getting to know someone, not just exchanging hi's and disappearing.

If you made it this far, send me a 🌮 taco emoji and a little introduction about yourself so I know you actually read my post. Tell me a bit about who you are, what you’re looking for, and what you’re passionate about.

I’ll always put effort into a conversation, so I hope you will too. Good vibes, genuine intentions, and let’s see where it goes. 😄


r/Redditdating 12h ago

26F, Open to Long Distance, currently located in Texas but want to move :)

10 Upvotes

Hey everyone!! Let me reintroduce myself :)

My name’s Brandi, I’m 26 years old and I currently reside in Texas but i eventually want to move out of Texas and to NYC and live with the love of my life. I’ve tried dating apps but to no avail because dating while Panromantic Aegosexual (took me forever to come to terms with this) is hard in Texas! I’ve come across some homophobic people so I’m hoping to meet some more likeminded individuals! I will also consider anywhere on the east coast that’s close to NYC as well because I want to be close to Broadway

I enjoy traveling, going to the movies, watching tv, listening to music and broadway! Some of my favorite Broadway shows include Hamilton, Six, Warriors (which is coming to Broadway in March of 2027). Some of my favorite actresses include Jasmine Cephas Jones, Phillipa Soo & Renee Elise Goldsberry.

I have an autoimmune disease which makes it hard for me to work a regular job and drive which is another reason I want to move to NYC! It has public transportation, is walkable and has all 4 seasons and I wouldn’t ever have to get my license.

I’m on the fence on if I want kids but if I do have a kid, it’d be through adoption but right now, I’m more on the side of I don’t want a kid but if I were to have a kid, I would absolutely be one and done and I’d choose to adopt a girl.

My current watch is Lanterns and I would love to talk to anyone about it!!

If you’re a teenager, while i appreciate the sentiment, i feel extremely uncomfortable with talking to teenagers. I’m 26 so I would prefer anyone who’s 22 and older :) I don’t really have an age limit either


r/Redditdating 32m ago

26M | Is anyone actually awake, or am I just talking to the void? 😅

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r/Redditdating 54m ago

Are there Mommies 🥺

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I am 18 M and i live in india i am looking for a casual friendship or relationship with older women 23 to 30 if you don't wanna date we can be friends i would also love it


r/Redditdating 1h ago

M19, looking for older women

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As the title says im just looking to talk to women older than me, im bored and i have nothing else to do tonight.
So if youre older and down to chat just hmu.


r/Redditdating 13h ago

39 [M4F] Single dad looking for a chance at true love, open to long distance.

8 Upvotes

I'm a chill enough dude but I get real excited about Dungeons and Dragons. I work in the tech field with a good job and spend most of my day sitting at a computer. I would love to find someone to talk to and build a relationship with. I don't want to rush anything but I am hoping to find lasting romance. I live in Texas (one of the good parts lol not a red neck) but I am open/excited about long distance. I hope to hear from you!


r/Redditdating 5h ago

24 [M4A] #Brazil | let's talk😝

2 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Brazilian. I love meeting new people from different places, listening to sci-fi audiobooks, and gaming.

If you just want to chat casually, are looking for a serious relationship, or aren't sure yet, feel free to reach out—I don't have any specific preference.

I have no preference regarding the region.

Feel free to send me a DM


r/Redditdating 2h ago

31M | Indian| Open to something genuine, including LDR

1 Upvotes

Hi, stranger.

I'm an Indian guy who somehow ended up believing that meeting someone on Reddit might be more interesting than swiping through hundreds of profiles.

A little about me:

I'm fairly easygoing, slightly introverted at first, and probably much more talkative once I find someone I genuinely click with. I like conversations that don't feel like interviews, where we start talking about music and somehow end up discussing childhood memories, ridiculous opinions, life, relationships, or something completely random at 2 AM.

Music is a pretty big part of my life. I sing, play a little guitar, and occasionally write things down when a thought feels better on paper than it does in my head. I have a soft spot for handwritten letters too, there's something about someone taking the time to actually sit down and write to you that texting just can't reproduce.

I like stories, poetry, movies, travelling, discovering music from places I've never been, and learning the little things that make people who they are.

I'm not looking to rush into calling someone my "person" after three conversations. I'd rather start with two strangers being curious about each other and see what happens naturally.

What am I looking for?

Someone kind, emotionally mature, curious and comfortable being herself. Someone who can laugh at stupid things, have a meaningful conversation when the mood calls for it, communicate honestly, and put in effort when she genuinely cares.

Long distance doesn't scare me. Different countries don't scare me either. If two people genuinely enjoy talking to each other, I'd rather see where that takes them than reject a possibility because a map says it's inconvenient.

And I'm not particularly interested in pretending I don't care.

If I like someone, I'll probably show it. I like making an effort, remembering little details, checking in, sending a song because it reminded me of you, or occasionally writing you something just because I felt like it.

So if you're looking for something genuine rather than a few days of "hey, wyd?", tell me something about yourself that wouldn't normally make it onto a dating profile.

A song you can't stop playing.

A place you'd disappear to for a month.

A completely irrational opinion you will defend forever.

Or just the story behind something you love.

I'll bring one of mine.


r/Redditdating 8h ago

49M [M4F] Central AL Is anyone real anymore?

3 Upvotes

I've been divorced for 5 years now.

Hopeless romantic looking for a nice looking woman who doesn't mind having a man who cooks, cleans, does laundry (I even mate the socks), washes dishes, is handy for small home repairs, can do regular maintenance on his own vehicles, owns his own place, owns his own vehicle, loved by kids, dogs and most cats. I don't mind a night out or staying in and cuddling on the couch and watching TV. I've been described as a very giving lover. I'm patient, even tempered and outgoing. Loves road trips, floating the creak and league night at the local bowling alley. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in feel free to DM me. I will reply promptly. Please be within 100 miles of Central Alabama, although it's not a deal breaker if we click.


r/Redditdating 2h ago

36 [M4F] UK - I want to be someones everything.

1 Upvotes

Hi

This isnt my first time posting but unfortunately things didnt quite work out so I am back for what I hope will be the final attempt.

I miss the feeling of butterflies when a name pops up in my phone, the lost in daydream thoughts about that person. I want to be the first and last thoughts on someone's mind. I want to find someone to share inside jokes with, the spotify playlists of our songs and the random rambling voice notes. I want to spend hours on call and be the person you send your pictures to. Maybe my person is here reading this wanting the same thing.

My side of the deal is that I promise to keep you laughing and smiling, I do not like to take life too seriously, even though I have to be professional at work; I still like to stay as relaxed as possible and not allow life to stress me out too much. I am flirty but, respectful and I love to tease. Daily selfies are part of the deal, keeping your panties wet as often as you need is an optional upgrade

I am very much your average guy and I hate talking about myself so until you see a picture of me; the description I hope does me justice. 6ft 3 with short dark hair, I have blue eyes and a beard. Will say I am strong enough to throw you over my shoulders, but cuddly. When I am not working, I do like to find time to spend with family and friends but my true happy place is sat at my desk; manipulating the lives of my Sims characters or playing the various games in my library likely with my puppy sprawled across my ankles, probably snoring. When not doing that, I enjoy binge watching shows I have seen 1000s of times, watching rugby or football and yes, my team is generally on the wrong end of the result so good job I enjoy a nice drink from time to tine. I listen to lots of music and I enjoy reading. There is probably loads more I just cant think of right now but I am very much an open bokk.

Finally; what I hope to find in someone. I hope to find someone that isn't looking to chat to multiple people at once, I'm not. Someone who wants to find something long term and isn't afraid to catch feelings because I certainly wear my heart on my sleeve which can lead less that optimal results. Someone that isn't looking to just get off a couple of times and disappear, whilst that side of the conversation is fun, I find it better with someone you genuinely care about. I appreciate we all have lives but its important we are both committed to finding time to spend with each other.

Think that's enough from me and if you like what you read, I hope to hear from you soon.


r/Redditdating 2h ago

43 [M4F] #Arizona

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r/Redditdating 2h ago

43 [M4F] #Arizona

1 Upvotes

I am a 43 year old man from Arizona and I am looking for my person to game and watch movies with...I have an Xbox one and a series X, I also have a computer with a bunch of steam games. I have over 600 movies in my collection and would love to watch them with my sidekick...I am up for getting to know a person first and see where it goes, I am 6'1 brown hair, blue green eyes, tan skin and 189 lbs. Tell me a little about yourself and what your looking for


r/Redditdating 6h ago

33 transmale 4 A looking to date

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone I'm 33 ftm looking to start dating someone serious and want to be in a serious relationship I'm a little shy at first but open up I'm looking for my favorite person a few things about me I'm loyal,empathetic and kind I love to laugh and watch stand up comedy I like to eat lol and go to new places I'm 420 friendly and I'm also neurodivergent if I sound interesting or you'd like to know more hmu


r/Redditdating 18h ago

22-(Ffm) looking for my soulmate 💕🫶✨✨

16 Upvotes

Hey hi stranger ! Hope you are doing well I’m 22 doing well in my career now I want a partner who I can rely on who supports me cherishes me on both the good and bad days who is quite responsible intelligent and ambitious I’m quite family oriented if you can’t have a relationship with my family then we are not compatible they are very important to me I’m 5’5 and I want someone taller than me I’m looking to date and eventually marry
I’m a hopeless romantic I love rains and Bollywood and I enjoy banter a lot ps I’m curvy and have long hair
Please don’t dm me boring hi hello I won’t reply introduce yourself please it’s a request


r/Redditdating 3h ago

33F (F4M) looking for someone active, loves traveling, a lil artsy, likes reggaeton music (PNW)

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r/Redditdating 3h ago

28[M4F] #From Pune, hoping to find someone to enjoy the little things with

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r/Redditdating 7h ago

40 [M4F] #Colorado Looking for My Favorite Distraction

2 Upvotes

I'm 40, living in Colorado, and I've reached a conclusion: I'd rather have one conversation I can't wait to come back to than a hundred that go nowhere.

I'm the emotionally intelligent, observant type...the guy who remembers your coffee order, asks how that stressful meeting went three days later, and files away the little things because they're never actually little.

I'm calm and grounded, maybe a little mysterious at first. But once I'm comfortable? Expect sarcasm, playful teasing, shameless flirting, and the occasional terrible dad joke that somehow still earns a laugh.

I love cooking, although I'm fully convinced food tastes better when someone is stealing bites straight from the pan and insisting they're "just quality control." Cozy nights beat crowded bars, winter wins over summer, and I'm a sucker for conversations that accidentally last until 2 a.m.

One potentially controversial opinion...

I like clingy.

Not the unhealthy kind. I mean the "I saw something that reminded me of you, so I had to text" kind. The "good morning" messages, random memes, double texts because you're excited, and wanting someone's attention because you genuinely enjoy them. That sounds less like clingy and more like enthusiasm to me.

I'm looking for someone who's emotionally aware, affectionate, funny, and enjoys flirting as much as meaningful conversation. Someone who isn't afraid of chemistry, consistency, or becoming each other's favorite notification.

If you've made it this far, tell me something random about yourself or just come say hi. Worst case, we trade a few laughs. Best case... we make reddit wonder where we disappeared to.


r/Redditdating 4h ago

20 [M4R] #online nerdy gamer looking for a fellow nerdy person (romantic relationship)

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Hello! I am looking for a relationship, to cherish and care for my partner,
My name is Ruben, I (20M) am looking for a online relationship with someone who I can genuinely love and cherish, cuddle and hang out with, wether it be talking about whatever or playing games.

A bit about myself:
I’m a great listener and communicate my feelings well. I would love to hang out, play games talk about stuff whilst we call. I tend to be very kind, loving and caring (maybe a bit too much).
I’m a demisexual hopeless romantic who is looking for a serious relationship.

I’m currently 1 year away from attending uni and I currently work at a grocery store.

I LOVE food, so I’m also very much into cooking. Traveling is one of my favorite things to do ever since we moved to different countries when i was a kid, so I’d love to travel the world with you.

In terms of my hobbies. I play games on pc and vr. I also love playing dnd. I also like swimming.

What am i looking for?
Well, I’m looking for someone to share my hobbies with (in terms of gaming, id love it if you were on pc so we have a broader selection of games to play together).

Quality time for me is the best thing ever. I would also like to do some sleep calls!

I’d love to date someone who is around my age, being 18 to 22 years old.

Be able to communicate, being able to communicate your feelings is rather important to me.

Be in (around, so max +-3) the same timezone as I

Please send me a proper introduction!
If you have any questions feel free to ask, talk to u soon!


r/Redditdating 4h ago

23M4F Hey you! Yes you! come here!

1 Upvotes

I'm just gonna be honest, I'm looking for someone that I can talk to every day, share my interests and passions and have the occasional spicy time. Even better, someone I can trust and talk to about any and everything- the kinda almost no limits; this is my judgement-free zone, wholesome intimate friendship that so many of us crave. No strings attached, no pressure or expectations, just good friends that help each other out whenever they need it.


r/Redditdating 8h ago

29M [M4F] Illinois - seeking a relationship based in truth

2 Upvotes

I'm an academic and seeking an initially long-distance relationship with a realistic ability to be short-distance in the next few years. One of my only principles is the respect I give to those who have lived through or otherwise considered something very deeply; I believe in the Dunning-Kruger effect and try to not be confidently wrong. Conversely, I expect consideration for things that are natural from my experiences and to find mutual truth within those.

If any of the following sound like you, let's chat! More biographical information will be provided in DMs.

- you're driven by your work or a large project outside of work

- you value empathy but also bring your own life experiences to the table

- you like to discuss things to the details as a matter of truth-seeking, not as a signal of distrust. sometimes these details will reveal a better way of thinking about things and we'll both be for the better.