r/SanDiegan Aug 22 '23

It's here. The Official Discord channel for r/sandiegan.

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We've gotten this request a lot, and I think it's finally time to take it seriously. At least 3–5 people have clamored for this, so we're giving it a shot.

The official r/SanDiegan discord server is finally here.

Some caveats:

  • we have never moderated a discord server before, so you're going to be there to see us iron everything out in real time. we'll be attentive to requests, suggestions, and overall helpful attitudes.
  • we have day jobs
  • be aware that you may inadvertently reveal your identity if you already are on a different discord server using your real name

Our goal is to set up a community in the same way we have set up the r/SanDiegan community. Everyone is welcome, and we moderate with a heavy hand and according to our own discretion at all times. Truly lovely communities only thrive when you separate the wheat from the chaff. We've spent years cutting chaff from this subreddit, and I am personally really proud of how lovely this place has become.

We want this discord server to be a place to chat with other San Diegans about sports, local bars, adult league activities, community events, and so on.

Things that we will not tolerate:

  • bigotry of any kind
  • "I'm just asking questions, man" — you know the answer, you're just an asshole. You all know the type
  • Behavior that is detrimental to the community at large
  • stop posting your boring ass traffic violations, seriously

These rules are vague by design. Moderating is subject to individual discretion, and if you join the discord server, you are just going to have to trust that the way we moderate r/SanDiegan will serve a discord community as well as it has served this subreddit. There are no bright lines, there is only our own judgment in what is and is not okay (which is how things work here, already).

Let's all give this a shot. I hope you'll all join the server and fucking behave yourselves.

JOIN, HEATHENS: https://discord.gg/tRJUkw6h9h

**updated link to never expire


r/SanDiegan Nov 21 '23

On Politics

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Whenever certain discussions come up we end up with a mix of locals that genuinely want to talk about what's going on. Sometimes passionately. Sometimes ill informed. Sometimes full of information. Sometimes dem. Sometimes republican. Sometimes for the free people's state of east county. Sometimes from the sovereign bros of PB.

Whatever. You get the picture. Our local politics and ideas for what to do are pretty diverse.

As a moderator though I have noticed that we get a solid influx of accounts for some subjects. They tend to have a short post history in this subreddit and a deleted history or a history that hasn't been on reddit in years. Likely because they are purchased accounts. They show up to shit stir in political discussions.

I understand some of you delete your account histories for various reasons or want to use an alt to discuss politics. But the easiest thing to do as a moderator seeing an inflammatory comment in a highly charged political discussion from an account that looks incredibly suspect is to remove the comment and ban the user. We don't really want to put in too much effort beyond that. This isn't a paid gig.

Anyway - I want to give people a heads up in case there's people that might reconsider participating in a certain way with an account they haven't used in months/years.


r/SanDiegan 9h ago

Do you or someone you know want to water my garden? University Heights area.

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$40/visit. ~30 minutes

I have a big garden that gets hand watered and I travel for a week every few months. My plants are my passion and my profession. I have hundreds of potted plants and a sizable wildflower area. I’ve had terrible luck with finding someone who can water my garden well. Every time I come home, there are plants that are dead or dying. It’s not that hard but it does require some competence.

I’m looking for someone who can follow directions well and come on Thursdays and Sundays. I would give you a walkthrough to show you how to do it that will double as an interview. If everything looks good when I get back, this can become a regular thing. I have clients who also need their plants watered and I can pay you more per visit for doing those if you’re interested.

If this sounds like something you’d want to do, DM me and write something to convince me that you’re probably better at watering plants than the last guys I had do it.


r/SanDiegan 2h ago

Local News San Diego repeals bathhouse regulations passed amid HIV/AIDS panic

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r/SanDiegan 1h ago

Rush hour traffic on Rosecrans has been more atrocious than usual.

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Have they changed the light patterns, or are more Navy ships docked at the bases? What's going on


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News Orcas off the San Diego Coast!! 🤩

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Our crew was beyond excited to share this special experience last night with our guests on the sunset cruise: a pod of orcas WITH A BABY! Orcas are a rare sighting in San Diego, but we do get treated a few times a year. This was an epic way to round out our weekend and truly an experience we will never forget! (see additional post for the baby's belly!!)

#orcas #whalewatching #sdwhalewatch #lucky


r/SanDiegan 7h ago

Taskmaster Watch Party?

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Taskmaster series 22 starts on Thursday! I always make an evening of it for myself but thought it might be fun to host the occasional watch party, if anyone is interested?

I figured I’ll probably start it around d 6-6:30. Since it’s on YouTube, the time can be relatively flexible. My back porch is basically my living room and the weather is temperate for a change, so we’ll set up out there.

If you’re also one of the people who was interested in Lorcana, I’d also be happy to play a few games or teach you how to play.

I’m really looking to expand my social circle, but social anxiety is a bitch. So I’m trying for a home field advantage kind of thing.

We do have three cats that run the household, so be cool/not allergic to cats please!


r/SanDiegan 22h ago

Announcement Remy is looking for a new home

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Remy is returning to rescue and will be available for meeting/adoption soon. He was rescued from a euth list several years ago by Grandma Betty’s Animal Rescue and has had two adopters but it didn’t work out. He is a bit older and has needs/boundaries that should be discussed with the rescue if you’re interested (Grandma Betty’s Animal Rescue in Julian, CA). He is potty trained, fixed, not a huge fan of walks and seems afraid of large open spaces/loud noises. He has no separation anxiety and requires medication for seizures. Remy just needs a quiet place to retire, if you think that’s with you please reach out to Grandma Betty’s Animal Rescue (@grandmabettyshouse on ig) with any questions 🖤

https://www.grandmabettysanimalrescue.com


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Help me identify the man who vandalized my girlfriends car so she can either recover the loss or report him.

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My girlfriend works in Point Loma/Midway and a few individuals have been disrespectful and aggressive, she has not provoked or associated with them in any way, and states they have been rowdy and made her coworkers uncomfortable on multiple occasions and now they have done $7k+ worth of damage to her car. The perpetrator stomped a huge dent into the back of her car even leaving a footprint behind at 1am on friday. She had saved up and was finally able to get an old school she's been dreaming of for years and within a month an insecure individual had to ruin it. I want to settle this out of court by recouping the money and give him a chance to redeem himself before pressing charges. If he cannot pay we will have to have him arrested for grand vandalism.

My girlfriend has not associated with these men and they are essentially strangers to her which makes this an unprovoked attack. She says they typically come in a group of a few guys, one of whom drives a white BMW. The main perpetrator is around 5'11 maybe 6ft. Skinny with a slight gut and Latino. He has a squared off hairline, very prominent eyebrows and close together eyes, an angular face and a very dark mustache and goatee combo. He left a print on the back of the car with his foot and was wearing crocs shoes on the night it happened with white skinny jeans and a graphic shirt. One of his friends is much larger than him and also Latino with the same kind of haircut so they do stand out.

If anyone knows this guy or has had issues with a group of men that fit this description in this area I would appreciate if you reach out. My girlfriend is going to retrieve more footage hopefully tonight and see if she can get more clear shots and angles of him to post. We will edit and update with information as we get it.


r/SanDiegan 3h ago

I’m looking for crab boil restaurants. Suggestions?

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I’m from north county and looking for some crab boil type restaurant. Any suggestions? I’m looking for a place with good food and vibes. I’m looking to go just about anywhere in the county for a meal


r/SanDiegan 19h ago

Parents with young kids: anyone stay in central San Diego neighborhoods like North Park, University Heights, etc. or move North County? Any regrets?

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Would love to hear from people who faced this choice with young kids. We’re in the North Park area and really like the walkability, restaurants/activities, central location and general neighborhood feel. Our kids are still young (the eldest just started kindergarten) and we’re very happy with the elementary school, although the middle school and high school aren't as highly rated for us. As they get older, though, we’re debating whether we should stay or move towards North County (e.g. areas such as University City, Carmel Valley, Del Mar, Torrey Pines, Solana Beach, Encinitas, etc.) mainly for schools, more space, the family environment and all the other pros of the suburbs.

For those who left central San Diego for North County, are you happy you did? What got better, and what do you miss?

For those who stayed, how has it worked as your kids got older, particularly with schools and family life?

Especially interested in hearing from people who liked living in the central neighborhoods and had a hard time deciding.


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

North Carolina woman indicted in connection to San Diego Islamic Center shooting

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Food & Beverage Fruit Exchange for Baked Goods

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161 Upvotes

My yard is producing more passionfruit and avocados than I know what to do with. The avocados aren’t quite ready for picking yet, but here’s a bowl of passionfruit that I simply picked up off the ground. This is only what I felt comfy salvaging, though I’m sure there were more viable fruit, and there’s still a ton on the vine.

Anyone want to trade fruit or fruit good? I may try my hand at making some fruit butter or preserves with some of this, but I can’t imagine using it all. I’m happy to trade fruit and whatever I make with it if you’ve got some baked goods you really want to try but don’t want them hanging out around. Not interested in homemade bread, even though I love it.


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News San Diego County supervisors propose new sewage treatment system to combat Tijuana River pollution crisis

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San Diego County supervisors propose new sewage treatment system to combat Tijuana River pollution crisis

Two San Diego County supervisors unveiled a plan to tackle the Tijuana River sewage crisis, a long-standing issue with significant environmental and health implications. Supervisors Tara Lawson-Remer and Paloma Aguirre introduced their initiative aimed at constructing a new sewage treatment system on the U.S. side of the border during a press conference Monday.

For years, Mexican authorities have faced pressure to manage sewage that seeps into local waterways, yet existing infrastructure has not prevented pollution from impacting communities. Lawson-Remer emphasized the urgency, stating, “We can not keep talking about this.” She and Aguirre hope their proposal will transform the management of raw sewage entering the ocean.

Currently, infrastructure on both sides of the border designed to contain sewage in Mexico has not sufficiently addressed the problem. As Aguirre pointed out, “we can't control what happens across the border - but we can control what happens on our side of it.” The current systems are failing to capture all sewage, which contributes to polluted water and compromised air quality in San Diego.

The newly proposed Tijuana River Capture and Cleanup Initiative is a phased, county-led effort. However, the first step is securing a vote on the proposal during Tuesday's board meeting. If approved, the supervisors aim to pursue state emergency declarations to expedite the permitting process and identify funding sources.

“We won’t continue to punt this to anyone else while we have kids getting sick on a daily basis,” Aguirre declared. The initial phase of the initiative, with a planning process estimated at 18 months, is backed by $1.8 million already allocated in this year’s budget.


r/SanDiegan 9h ago

any recommendation for Porsche independent servicer?

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anyone have experience with independent shops that do regular maintenance on Porsche?
Thanks!


r/SanDiegan 4h ago

Preschool recommendations

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Hi! I have a 1 year old and wanted to get recommendations for preschools. We live in Mira Mesa but are willing to drive 20-25 minutes.

We are considering moving in the future and would love recommendations for good elementary schools as well. We do like central San Diego area like Del Cerro or nearby (prefer an area with bigger lots/backyard).


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Photography Beautiful La Jolla, San Diego. Pelicans gracing the sky

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OceanEarthGreen.com


r/SanDiegan 2h ago

Welcoming All into San Diego Anime Club! 🍂🌸🌴

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🌊Join San Diego Anime Club (SDAC), the biggest anime club in the county! Meet local fans, talk anime and manga, and enjoy server events, IRL meetups, and gaming events!We’ll be at Anime San Diego this weekend, with plenty more planned for September! 🍂 We’re also partnered with San Diego Anime Con this November! Use “SDAC” for $5 off badges, excluding VIP and badges purchased at the door. Come hang out! 🔥 Join our Discord!!


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Photography Early Sunday in Coronado

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Photography Horned Lark - Ocean Beach

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The horned lark is a small song bird that favors open terrain. The females lay their eggs on open terrain in shallow cups, usually near clumps of weeds. They're not threatened, but their habitat can be especially difficult when people are not careful. They do share habitat with endangered birds like the least tern and savannah sparrow.

This little guy lives in OB, and their preferred terrain borders the dog park. Far too many people let their dogs run past the giant signs that say the land is protected, and it definitely disturbs the population. I think they're gorgeous little friends, and we should encourage those around us to be a little more careful with their pets. I saw a guy cross the channel and throw a ball straight into the protected reserve, where his dog ran, and promptly took a dump. Don't get me started on the number of bags of dog shit just left for other people to pick up.

Rant over. Beautiful bird. If you're walking in the dog park going East, they're just on the right in the dunes. You can often see them in the first dune there, and they'll basically be at eye level. They're only 6 inches tall and weigh about an ounce and a half. I suggest taking the time to watch them do their thing. They're super cute.


r/SanDiegan 8h ago

High quality wheel repair - Miramar/Kearny Mesa

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Hoping for something closer to Miramar/Kearny Mesa since a lot of shops are there.

Will likely need tig welding and I prefer a shop that works on higher end cars that will remove the wheel to repair and repaint so it's done properly. So, no mobile places.

I know of American Factory Wheel in Santee, but hoping for something closer to home to make drop off and pick up easier.


r/SanDiegan 1h ago

California Collages You May Be Able to Attend for Free

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Warning: Very, very long list!

The source is the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2026/02/09/colleges-free-tuition/

College Income Threshold Residency Required Pell Eligible
Coastline Community College
California Institute of Technology $100,000
University of California Berkeley $100,000
University of California Davis $100,000
University of California Irvine $100,000
University of California Los Angeles $100,000
University of California Merced $100,000
University of California Riverside $100,000
University of California San Diego $100,000
University of California Santa Barbara $100,000
University of California Santa Cruz $100,000
University of Southern California $80,000
Stanford University $150,000
Soka University of America $200,000
Sierra College 22,590 - 79,080
Allan Hancock College 22,590 - 79,080
American River College 22,590 - 79,080
Antelope Valley College 22,590 - 79,080
Berkeley City College 22,590 - 79,080
Calbright College 22,590 - 79,080
Cañada College 22,590 - 79,080
Chabot College 22,590 - 79,080
Citrus College 22,590 - 79,080
Coastline College 22,590 - 79,080
College of Alameda 22,590 - 79,080
College of the Canyons 22,590 - 79,080
College of Marin 22,590 - 79,080
College of San Mateo 22,590 - 79,080
Contra Costa College 22,590 - 79,080
Cosumnes River College 22,590 - 79,080
Cypress College 22,590 - 79,080
Diablo Valley College 22,590 - 79,080
De Anza College 22,590 - 79,080
Evergreen Valley College 22,590 - 79,080
Folsom Lake College 22,590 - 79,080
Foothill College 22,590 - 79,080
Fullerton College 22,590 - 79,080
Golden West College 22,590 - 79,080
Imperial Valley College 22,590 - 79,080
Lake Tahoe Community College 22,590 - 79,080
Laney College 22,590 - 79,080
Las Positas College 22,590 - 79,080
Lassen Community College 22,590 - 79,080
Los Medanos College 22,590 - 79,080
Merritt College 22,590 - 79,080
Mission College 22,590 - 79,080
Moorpark College 22,590 - 79,080
Ohlone College 22,590 - 79,080
Orange Coast College 22,590 - 79,080
Oxnard College 22,590 - 79,080
Sacramento City College 22,590 - 79,080
San Diego City College 22,590 - 79,080
San Diego Mesa College 22,590 - 79,080
San Diego Miramar College 22,590 - 79,080
San Joaquin Delta College 22,590 - 79,080
San Jose City College 22,590 - 79,080
Santa Ana College 22,590 - 79,080
Santa Barbara City College 22,590 - 79,080
Santiago Canyon College 22,590 - 79,080
Shasta College 22,590 - 79,080
Skyline College 22,590 - 79,080
Solano Community College 22,590 - 79,080
Southwestern College 22,590 - 79,080
Ventura College 22,590 - 79,080
West Valley College 22,590 - 79,080
Woodland Community College 22,590 - 79,080
Yuba College 22,590 - 79,080
Occidental College $100,000
Deep Springs College

r/SanDiegan 11h ago

Cats centric birthday party

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My 10 year old if looking forward to celebrating her birthday party and was asking for something that involves have bunch of cats around for everyone to pet. I am curious to know if there are any groups that will bring in several cats to a rented MPR or something...or any place we can reserve and have the kids come to.

I think there is a cat cafe in downtown, so will call them. But also looking for other recos


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

A unique view from The Coast Walk Trail west of the cave

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r/SanDiegan 5h ago

Homeless vet here. Do you think I can receive disability? here's my DD214

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