r/SeattleGayDating Apr 27 '23

Once again, NO hook-up ads!

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This is NOT a hook-up sub. Period! This is for men in the Seattle area who genuinely want to DATE - not just get their rocks off.

If that’s all you want, go to Grindr, or better yet, Xhamster and take care of that issue with your hand.

If you want a deeper connection - coffee date, dinner, drinks and see where it goes - that’s what this sub is here for.

Any posts or comments looking for hookups are treated with a 0 tolerance policy and will get permanently banned instantly.


r/SeattleGayDating 14h ago

Anyone is a SAC member?

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Just curious if there are any LGBT members there.


r/SeattleGayDating 3d ago

Just moved to Washington from Rhode Island by myself would love to make some friends and get to know people. I drive so distance isn’t a problem. If you’re dming me from this post please provide age and location since i’ve posted in other reddit pages so it helps keep track.

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r/SeattleGayDating 11d ago

Open to meeting

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14 Upvotes

Just across the water from Seattle in Bremerton. I lived in Seattle for years but now in Kitsap. Single here and looking to meet other single men to date and see where it may lead. Not into hookups. I am at a point in my life that dating with intention is more important.


r/SeattleGayDating 27d ago

25 Viet gaymer boy in the greater seattle area

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I am a Vietnamese boy based in Washington, in the greater Seattle area, hoping to connect with someone who shares similar hobbies and sexual interests.

I’m mainly looking to chat with people between 27–45. I’m pretty open-minded overall, but if you happen to be an Asian himbo… that’s definitely a bonus 😉 (not a requirement though!)

A little about me: I’m big into PC gaming and I’m absolutely obsessed with K-pop. If that sounds like your vibe too, let’s talk! We can get I to the sexual stuff later or reference my other posts for details hehe ;) Feel free to say hi and send a pic — I’d love to put a face to the name!


r/SeattleGayDating 27d ago

Hopeless Plant Geek

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15 Upvotes

Plant/garden geek, language nerd and music dude who loves travel (when the plants allow it), cooking, and humor of questionable taste. I live in White Center, practically.


r/SeattleGayDating 28d ago

Hi 👋

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r/SeattleGayDating Aug 02 '26

Just turned 27 femboy looking for a bf

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Today’s my birthday! I’m looking for someone to say hello and ask me to lunch and see where things go. I would like something serious. Talk to me about art and pokemon


r/SeattleGayDating Aug 02 '26

Looking for fun dates

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26 M Asian 5’6 stocky/average build. Looking for fun dates or outings. Open to drinking, clubbing, walking, gaming, eating, etc. if you have a fun hobby you want to have more people know I’d like to be introduced to it with you as my guide :))


r/SeattleGayDating Aug 01 '26

New to Seattle

9 Upvotes

Hey, new to the sesttle area. Where do the 40 something chill guys hang out lol. Suggestions for places to visit, activities, etc.


r/SeattleGayDating Jul 30 '26

34 bi looking to explore

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Bi poly married chubby guy. Very newly looking to explore my bi side and especially my sub side. Pretty shy and looking to take things slow. Hoping to find someone patient to help me explore.


r/SeattleGayDating Jul 24 '26

Looking for advice!

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hey! I'm here visiting my sister in the navy and trying to tell her i'm gay. ive known for a while i feel like and our families cool but just looking for advice! not sure if this is the right place for this so sorry if not


r/SeattleGayDating Jul 20 '26

#tinderswindler#seattle#belltown#lancaster#gay#narcissist#con

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So I’m having an issue with my ex fiance “JW” that I was engaged to since he moved here from Kentucky in 2017, last year I discovered what a con he was, in 2018 or 2019 I went through his phone and saw he had a tinder account and was pretending to be straight, I found several messages in his phone from “BE” and confronted him on it , he claimed it was just a phase he was going through and his plan was to knock up some “lowlife” with a baby and then take it away from her to raise it as his own. Yes I know I should have thrown him out of my house then, but he swore it was done and she moved away to Arizona. Well fast forward to 2024 he asked me if it would be ok if he moved to Kentucky for a year to help set up a new shop and be with family and he’d come home at the end of the year come to find out he moved to Lancaster KY with BE and was living a double life, still keeping in contact , having me on his cell account, and paying for bills and utilities here .fast forward to 2025 he moved to Fremont, CA and drove up here to spend some time with me in April , may and June, although pretty short but intimate visits. I started getting suspicious at this point so I did some digging around since I had met all of his family before and low and behold on his Mother’s Facebook she’s friends with “BE” so I confront him on this And he says it’s a fake account blah blah , so i decided to take a trip down to Cali since we had shared locations on iPhone and low and behold I show up to the trashy hotel he’s living in and “BE” is with him , I confront him and he runs away and then has the nerve to beg me to hook up with him the several nights I’m in Cali. I decide to fall for his lies again and fly him up for his Birthday in October and pick him up from SeaTac airport and he spends 2 nights here promising he’s gonna fix all the mess he made and all this stuff. I’ve reached out to her and most of her family and they don’t believe a word I’m saying because he’s that good of a con, I’ve sent video footage of him from my doorbell showing him here in October, screenshots of texts , copies of insurance policies we had together, my info that shows I got him his stupid Toyota Tacoma’s , everything ! He’s convinced them it’s all AI manipulated messages made by me, he’s done this to several other men and women in Seattle and Lancaster KY too but. Ever gets busted ! How does someone continuously get away with being a con ! Apparently he’s snaked his way back to Seattle this last December and even got an apartment where he has “BE” living with him but messages me and calls me daily to get back together and all kinds of stuff , Im sure there are other Victims, any ideas on how I can expose him for the lowlife pathetic loser he is ? If this gets the attention I’m hoping it will, I’ll post screenshots of all


r/SeattleGayDating Jul 16 '26

Having a tough time in Bellevue as a South Asian

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r/SeattleGayDating Jul 15 '26

Looking for a boyfriend 🩵💙

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7 Upvotes

I want to know what love feels like. I want a cuddly tall man to let me love them. I’m 27, 6’2”, very fit and active, pokemon nerd. Dm me and see where we could go.


r/SeattleGayDating Jul 08 '26

What’s left?

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I’m recently divorced after 20 years together. I don’t know what I’m doing at this point. I would like to find someone to just be friends first. Meet new people to go to dinner with or get drinks and laugh with. It’s hard to even just be friends let alone find the elusive “one”. Any suggestions?


r/SeattleGayDating Jul 05 '26

Let’s see where a “hello” takes us

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r/SeattleGayDating Jul 04 '26

Friends to lovers?

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Hey guys, I am a 24yo amab enby. I am looking to meet people and see what the vibes are like. Love to text and yap. Im chubby and tall. Inquire within, serious inquiries only :p


r/SeattleGayDating Jun 22 '26

Seeking activity partner

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Looking for someone to go out to enjoy some nightlife with while my husband stays at home (he knows I'm posting). Anywhere on the Hill (yes, anywhere 😜) or other gay events...open to anything!

I'm 36, in average shape, working in tech. West Seattle is home. Interests include aviation, dancing, Lego, crafting/hobbying, meeting new people, "gardening", and food. Hendricks and tonic or bud light, not picky.


r/SeattleGayDating Jun 13 '26

Thinking of moving from Toronto to Seattle — how’s the dating scene there for gay men?

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Toronto has a huge gay community but honestly the dating scene here is brutal. Lots of people, very few real connections. I’ve heard mixed things about Seattle — the Seattle Freeze, smaller gay scene — but also that it can be more genuine once you break through.

I’m almost 40, looking to actually find a partner and settle down, not just swipe forever. Before I uproot my life I’d love to hear from locals:

• Is the gay dating scene in Seattle more or less active than a major metro like Toronto?  
• Is the Seattle Freeze real, and does it affect dating specifically?  
• Do you think it’s worth relocating for a fresh start, or would I just be trading one frustration for another?

Not looking to be talked into or out of it — just want honest perspectives from people who actually live there. Appreciate any input.


r/SeattleGayDating Jun 09 '26

Advice on locations to visit for move in Fall?

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Hello Everyone -

I am visiting at the end of the month to preview for my Fall move.

I would like neighborhoods/places that are good sites to find dating oriented men.

Thank you!


r/SeattleGayDating Jun 09 '26

i [57] will be back in seattle this friday

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will be jet lagged for a few days but i'd like to meet some new guys and maybe find that special man.

rocker (zeppelin, sabbath), then punk (dead kennedys, black flag), then goth/bat-caver (bauhaus, cure), with a bunch of other stuff too.
i have things, you have things, maybe we have some things in common.
i visit amsterdam every year.
i love the selection of restaurants on capitol hill in seattle. i live here, in part, because of the rain & clouds. i'm an atheist, i quit smoking (cigs and weed) but i still enjoy the occasional edible, and i eat red meat.


r/SeattleGayDating May 26 '26

Looking for altstyle Asian or Latino

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Heyy I'm looking for Asian or Latino guys in their mid 20s ish to 40 .. looking for cute but can be nerdy too and buff 💪 haha 😆 I'm Asian too


r/SeattleGayDating May 23 '26

Moving to Seattle

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Is there any recommendations on a move to Seattle?