r/Socionics QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 2d ago

Fe vs Fi.

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Fe vs Fi.

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u/Major-Scene8156 2d ago edited 2d ago

So how do betas feel when they love/hate someone or something or a group? Or do they just detect love/hatred from other people and choose to encourage or discourage?

It’s hard for me to imagine that someone doesn’t have love or hate coming from within. But I do kind of sense this from alpha and beta people.

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u/Alone-Relation-7034 EIE 2d ago

Same as everyone else. Fi is about repulsion and attraction which are universal experiences.

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u/No_Bottle0312 IEI sp458 2d ago

I just say I like/hate someone like a normal person.

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u/bromomento420 2d ago

I mean being Fe-Ni ego I guess we just kinda like experience the feeling and externalize it affecting the mood, 4 example trash-talking/praising someone publicly or just straight up ranting about it lol, though i find that we tend to "forgive" easier than Fi egos due to the dynamic nature of Fe

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 2d ago

Because it's tied to hierarchies and objective properties. It's more about how something makes them feel and what structure they put their trust in. It's not due to valued relational qualities but rather end result of how something or someone makes them feel.

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u/Major-Scene8156 2d ago

I see. So instead of "feeling" their own evaluation of how good/bad things are (Fi), they "think" (Ti) about the Fe consequences of supporting/oppose various emotions from other people, like social hierarchies, group cohesion, atmosphere, etc. They also use their unvalued Fi, but the criteria would be based on Fe outcomes, and not Te concerns.

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 2d ago

Pretty much but it still differents a bit between beta NFs and beta STs.

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u/shill_420 SLI 2d ago

analyzing how and whether to lash out against this post

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 2d ago

Like and subscribe.

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u/shill_420 SLI 2d ago

Got some good hows

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u/Sufficient_Scale_577 2d ago

I'd like to read this.

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u/shill_420 SLI 2d ago

ahhh i won't lash out but

i mean obviously fe is the superior IE based on this post, they're enlightened and just and moral and self-understanding, while fi is just being a hater because that other guy has a soda and fi doesn't.

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u/Shawnty320 2d ago

Not Socionics, but Carl Jung did initially define Introverted Feeling types as “having negative, harsh judgements about objects”... he even typed Freud as one 😭

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u/shill_420 SLI 2d ago

oh, and how silly and unjustified that must always be.

it's just a soda, after all...

isn't it?

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 ok period 2d ago

Seems like HEs being a hater

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 ok period 2d ago

Help😭😭

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u/nesuui ILI 1d ago

Yes!

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u/StrangeDiscussion334 EII 2d ago

I'm not sure if that's completely accurate. This would mean every time Fi is sad, it's because they hate someone/something. But sadness doesn't have to have an external source.

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 2d ago

Everyone uses all elements.

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u/femcelyandere EIE 2d ago

is this SCS? because the second could also very well be Beta Fe

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u/calibore LII-Ne INFJ so514 LVFE RCOAI 2d ago

you don’t use just one or the other. remember every socionics type uses all 8 elements. elements of the same domain (in this instance, ethics) can happen at the same time simultaneously, and they very often do.
but one element of that process, the one that’s verbal to the person, is reflected on more personally than the other one.

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u/OptimistHobo SLE-Ti FLVE 2d ago

No, it couldn't. Expressing hate, sure, but the actual repulsion/attraction belongs to Fi.

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u/Ruby_ray_24 editable flair 1d ago

How do you differente between hate and repulsion though?

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u/OptimistHobo SLE-Ti FLVE 1d ago

Fi repulsion = You distance yourself from or approach someone because of sentiments. ”I like this person, we’re friends.”, ”I hate this person, we’re enemies.”

Anyone can cause anyone discomfort, but adjusting the psychological distance/relationship belongs to Fi. If they’re repulsed, they repulse. If they’re enamoured, they close the distance.

Fi PoLRs do not trust their sentiments. If they hate someone, that’s not grounds to distance themselves from that person. If they like someone, that’s not grounds to approach that person.

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u/Suzette75 IEI 19h ago

With this definition I'm Fi, but I'm INFP in the mbti

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u/OptimistHobo SLE-Ti FLVE 19h ago

If you’re IEI, you’re as competent with Fi as an EII. Not odd that you identify with it.

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u/OddIllustrator8672 SEE 2d ago

im the second my partner always tells she has never seen someone as hateful as me when it comes to hating certain individuals... eh maybe im a mistyped fuck

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u/nesuui ILI 2d ago

Don't SEE also use fI?

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u/PienoRacci SEE-0-CDHN So872 VEFL SCUAI 2d ago

Yes, and Fi lowkey is judgemental as fuck. We don’t like when people mess with our friends

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 2d ago

Beta NFs still have high dimensional Fi which feeds into their Fe and Ni but it's more that Fe is end result of how something makes you feel rather than how you feel towards something itself.

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 ok period 2d ago

Emotion is a basic human thing. But Fe is not simply the emotion. It’s the outward expression of emotion and using emotion to influence others. All extroverted functions are external.

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u/Dr__Pheonx ILE 2d ago

Inaccurate but damn cute cartoon

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u/Fox-Cloud ILI-Ni 5w6 sp/so LVEF 1d ago

Me when I broke the lid to my olive oil and had to resort to extreme measures to open it

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u/minthantpaingsoe 1d ago

This is technically correct because Fe is Expression and Fi is Impression.