i tried gothic horror books, and even though i love the atmospheric macabre of it, i don't like the romantic/sexual aspects it tends to bring.
i like horror that has a a more cosmic and eldritch vibe. incomprehensible. horror focused more on solving the mystery of it and detailing danger that is just out of sight, not so much focused on characters themselves (i don't really care to get invested in individual characters, just the story and the worldbuilding and the concept). i like magical realism, haunting, xenofiction, and the occult, too (i am an occultist lol). weirdcore and soft/subtle comedy is good too in modest amounts!
i do NOT like mentions of romance or sex at all, especially third party situations, seduction, and coercive stuff. it's okay if a character who happens to be married kisses their spouse one time with nothing else or two characters like each other but the romance is not elaborated on or detailed at all, but those are exceptions. i'm a monogamous hopeless romantic, sure, but i don't find other people's love lives interesting and sex is generally repulsive to me. i also HATE excessive gore.
some media that has the vibe i'm looking for: House of Echoes (book), Still Wakes the Deep (video game), The Burn Line (book) Home Safety Hotline (video game), Static Dread: Lighthouse and No, I'm Not A Human (video games)
thank you so much in advance 😭💔