r/TwoXSex • u/casual_browsing7 • 2d ago
Advice | Women Only Help with Orgasm
Hi
I m 32F. Never mastrbated bcz i didnt feel it was doing anything for me. I never had an orgasm not even with PIV sex. I enjoy sex a lot but i never orgasm.
Recently after reading all the posts about clit stimulating, i decided to find how i feel.
I figured i m sensitive on my clit. When i place shower head my god it makes me weak on my legs. Its like i tremble. But i hvnt orgasmed with that. I couldnt bear it fr long time may be bcz i never gave it a shot.
Please suggest me some clit stimulating sex toys nd techniques which will help me orgasm. I really want to orgasm.
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u/Plenty-Search-4730 2d ago
you need to find a way to stimulate your clit that feels good. for me, I can just rub it with a finger but every woman is different, you might like humping/grinding etc or the shower head like u said. then make sure you're really turned on when trying to orgasm by watching, reading or listening to something, or just using your imagination. if you can't orgasm through this, try a clit suction toy (eg rose toy) or a vibrator. maybe try the shower head again while turned on? it's also important to not put too much pressure on yourself and take your time, just focus on what feels good :) I'm no expert but I hope this helps lol
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u/Perfect_Key3397 1d ago
the clitoris has a lot of nerve endings, so it’s totally normal for direct stimulation to feel almost too intense. you might be more sensitive around the clitoral hood or the area beside it, so try playing around there instead of going straight for the most sensitive spot.
an air pulse or suction toy might work really well for you. something like a satisfyer or womanizer, starting on the lowest setting. you could also try a small bullet vibe against the clitoral hood rather than directly on the clit.
audio might help too since getting your brain involved can make a big difference. just google “self pleasure audio” and try a few different voices or scenarios until you find one that actually gets you in the mood.
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u/barfi3686 1d ago edited 1d ago
If the shower head feels good, you're probably closer than you think. Try staying around the clit instead of going straight on, I use Fizz that way too, starting with the sucker around the sides and switching to tapping when I want more. The handle makes it easy to adjust
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u/FSSanne 1d ago
If the shower head feels good, you're probably closer than you think. Try staying around the clit instead of going straight on, and keep the rhythm steady for a while. I use Fizz that way too, starting with the sucker around the sides and switching to tapping when I want more. The handle makes it easy to adjust.
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