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[u/ThrowRA_chaoticmind]

If we had the opportunity to ask each other one open and

honest question, what would yours be?

Do you want to know mine?

Was any of this real for you?

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[u/lraviel381]

Can we start over?

[u/MissyEroticEmpress]

Mine would be:

I recognize that you know who you are when you're alone. Would you like to know who you are when you're with a person who loves you beyond anything you could comprehend?

[u/That-Hunt9838 → u/MissyEroticEmpress]

Exactly this one.

[u/No_Memory8327]

That’s a great question to ask!'

[u/Effective_Section_68]

Why did you never want to hear me out ?

[u/Minute-Brand0981]

According to the established rules you get one question. I find myself obligated to the first one asked.

No, I wouldn't want to know hers.

Again, in the spirit of the rules - I would still ask mine.

[u/Soverysorry27]

I have so many… I think mine would be: Could you ever love someone like me?

[u/Soverysorry27 → u/Soverysorry27]

Whoever is liking my comments please I know you’re probably doing it to be nice but if you’re my person reach out to me!!! I don’t want lukewarm, I deserve you wanting to communicate on here at least, I will not judge you, I think I’ve proved that.

[u/Jaded-Preparation-31]

My question would be, "What 'wasn't' real?".....js

[u/OddCupcake706]

If you thought it was an ethereal connection that you were too shy to pursue- why does your porn look like other people and not me? 🫣

[u/daisyextinction]

Will you ever want to be my friend again

[u/TapComfortable9661]

I would ask her what it would be like for us if we could just try our best and be completely honest with one another?

[u/Over_Ebb_3868]

It was the only real thing I had.

Did you ever mean all those wonderful things you told me or was it all manipulation?

[u/Substantial_Ad1714]

How the f*** can you do what you do and still look in the mirror? Do you have a f****** problem with being a human being with your humanity?

[u/Tickles_giggles313]

Did All the love I gave you arrived on time? 😭

[u/BPD-warrior]

Can we love each other again

[u/Airwrecka86]

The realest with my person... i wonder if he feels it though... sending all the good vibes 🥰♾️🦋✨️

[u/IcemanInMyRearVeiw99]

Why haven’t you reached out?

[u/unpaid-pukegreencow]

So you used me?

[u/ThrowRa5668224]

I would answer

[u/acceptable-Heart944]

I wish I had the chance to ask him one question. I have 137 of them. I'd love to know his question too

[u/RixxFett]

I'd say, I'm still waiting for my questions to be answered.

[u/MissionAlbatross1073]

If affection, with no strings attached, was what you were looking, for then why did you keep me in your life?

[u/New-Opposite1467]

Id say it was real if it was me. I'd want to know why they wouldn't want to move forward in a healthy manner and why it was so easy to disengage and discard me after so many years together.

[u/Sad-Valuable-3624]

All of it was and is real for me but I’m fairly certain that was only on my side. Sucks and I miss him but one day this hemorrhaging wound will close up and scab and then scar.

[u/Aggravating_End_3566]

i just woke up 10am

[u/lul_youtried]

"Is this who you've always been?"

The question is rhetorical, as I know it is. But it was the only question I consistently asked myself in the aftermath.

I'd allow her to lie to me one more time, just so I know I'm not insane for seeing the worst in her.

[u/FitFourt]

I do not understand why we could not have one discussion after you decided to create intentional space. Why did you not tell me why?

[u/Silver_Pop_5451]

Just.. why?

[u/threelargepickles]

I think this should be a thing for everybody. You get this with all people you know. One honest question with one honest answer

[u/J0NAH666]

I‘d ask what it was that became to much and I‘d be curious about the question

[u/Forbidden_Peach_]

Tired of asking, wanting, waiting and never getting answers, just silence. So, no questions or anything else from me.

[u/Flat-Fudge-2758]

Do you love me too?

[u/DibRegardsAnyway]

Mine would be “why did you have to put all your insecurities, trauma and baggage onto me?”

[u/PlusPerspective9294]

I would tell them: If I told you that I loved you all along and fear held me back, would you believe me?

[u/Lanie77077]

Were you still in love with me when you broke up with me/the last year?

[u/Main_Mobile_8244]

Mine is:

Did you never listen to anything I said at the beginning of the end?  You are a passing wind in my life.  I’ve cleared the air since you have been gone.  I do not need the stench of your death in my grande hall any longer.

[u/ConstructionShot8380]

Everything was real are you serious

[u/Big-Train2669 → u/ConstructionShot8380]

Really R

[u/Fantastic-Ad-448]

It’s been the realest thing I’ve ever had.

Am I forcing you to be with me still, or is a relationship still something you want too?