r/UpfrontCheaters Jul 08 '23

r/UpfrontCheaters Lounge

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A place to heal and to release your frustrations and questions to the R/Upfrontcheaters family; to help with hard life issues, emotions, past and current affairs. This is a NON JUDGEMENT sub and will stay that way.

place for members of r/UpfrontCheaters to chat with each other


r/UpfrontCheaters Oct 03 '24

Q&A What was the WORST Holiday break up or found out your bf / gf was cheating on the holiday ? do you still celebrate that holiday or nah ?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 2h ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 3h ago

27m looking for F (20+)

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r/UpfrontCheaters 7h ago

Waukesha

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Any females wanna cheat in Waukesha area? 35 m here


r/UpfrontCheaters 15h ago

[reposting cause the girl who helped me ghosted me] Hi finally built up the courage to ask for this. I want my boyfriend of 5 years tested. I suspect he is cheating based on he’s been very secretive with his phone lately. I want to find out the truth..

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r/UpfrontCheaters 19h ago

I NEED HELP! 😞 rideapp dispatch system - i am the driver

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I am a licensed taxi driver in a small country where corruption is unfortunately normal. I work through the local ridesharing platform, which operates as Uber.

During a conversation with an individual IT engineer, he offered, in exchange for a monthly payment, to manipulate the platform’s ride-dispatch system so that I would receive preferred ride requests. RIdes of higher value or rides meeting criteria selected by me ON PRICE.

He explained that, through access to the platform’s backend, he could alter the way ride requests are allocated to my driver account.

I have not agreed to this or made any payment, or provided any account credentials. I am worried that this is also fraud, unauthorized access to a computer system, manipulation of the platform’s algorithms, abuse of privileged access, and/or a scheme designed to obtain money from drivers under false pretenses.

My question first is: is it actually possible to do so seamlessly? Is this technically possible?

Best.


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

23 years never cheated she goes into rehab a few weeks within two days she was on their back with some phone on by mistake it made me feel sick to my stomach I never cheated you how could you do that I don't deserve that if anything up with the love physical and mental abuse we had plans she goes in

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Partners of cheating spouse, how did you move forward?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

How to catch a cheating partner 20206

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I had a miscarriage and he told me that I was faking it.

I started to realize it when I had a miscarriage and he told me that I was faking it. Then, to make matters worse, he kicked me out of his house when I wouldn't sleep with him because, and I quote, 'Sleeping next to you hurts because you're blue-balling me. What good is a girlfriend if my balls are blue?'


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Hey to you little things may I ask what is that phone number

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

It’s a safe space, What your one secret you would take to the grave?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

The little things

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Call this number and ask the man why he cheats and lies


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

What to do in this situation?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

What about things to do how person be she went in to get a subsider and two days later before

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I just feel so sick to my stomach the thought of it my head 23 years through hell and my water only about never cheated within two days she was in bed with a guy in

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Do cheaters get their own karma?

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just 3am thoughts. i keep wondering do cheaters get their own karma? It's been a a year since we broke up. Sometimes i think about how come my ex is already in a relationship after us. Maybe our love wasn't true no?


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Is it okay to get back with someone who cheated on you if they really change?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I just found out

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

23 years we've been together the only woman in my life I never cheating she recently went into real been 24 hours she was entangled some god using his phone won't talk to me which is cheating on me already deserve this I feel such a profoundly

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I cheated on my girlfriend and she cheated on me and idk what to do

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Before I begin, I just want to make it clear I’m not looking for sympathy or validation. All I’m asking is for understanding.

Long story short, about two years ago as I’m writing this, I cheated on my girlfriend first. My mental was all messed up after a traumatic event that happened to both of us two years back after everything was going good. It really messed me up mentally more than I thought it did now looking back at it but that’s no excuse for cheating on my partner. The only reason why she caught me is because I fell asleep and left my phone unlocked and she found the messages. Looking back today, I can tell that was the day the woman I once knew died. Although she took me back, I took accountability like a man and tried to make up for my mistakes, I feel like that love we once had is now damaged.

Fast forward two years later today, I found out she cheated on me with 3 guys the same way she found out I was cheating. Call me crazy but when I found out, I was of course upset because she cheated on me despite me cheating on her but it still hurt. Funny part is that I wasn’t even mad or upset because I felt like this was God’s way of punishing me and karma coming back to bite me. She was cheating on me with 3 guys for a year and a half…

The only reason why I took her back is because we have a child together and this child is only 3 years old. I don’t wanna end up like my dad and have my child grow up in a broken home where both parents aren’t there but I feel like my girlfriend is possibly still cheating on me after she got caught and after we talked about working through it. Truth is, I’m afraid to let go as a man because I’ll have no where to go and I’ll be all alone…

I guess it’s crazy to say that even if I catch her cheating on me again with valid proof, I guess I lost all respect for myself and she lost respect for me cause at the end of the day, as a a man, I did and caused all of this after doing something I regret because I feel like I emotionally lost the woman I once knew even though she’s physically still here.

Guess I don’t know my worth and maybe I deserve all of this.

Crazy part is that I still love this woman with every breath in my body and would die for her. I want to do everything I possibly can to rebuild this relationship to the way it was when we first met but the truth is, ion think that will ever happen but it’s worth trying right? Idk… maybe it will all be better one day like they all say.

If you made it this far, any advice would be greatly appreciated. God bless you all.


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I NEED HELP! 😞 looking for proof of husband's adultery

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hi everyone, hoping the right person sees this. someone i know is married to a dirtbag who was seen engaging in sexual activity in public at a bar in Pierre, SD last night. they were in/around the shack along the river where the smokers go? supposedly multiple people filmed the situation. i wondered if anyone who sees this could confirm if they saw this happen (details should be reserved for DM). dude is like 7 feet tall so hard to miss. i think the girl had a shaved head. thanks in advance for any help.


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Disgusting individual be aware of Pablo (562) 639-1440 don’t let him in your neighborhood (SoCal)

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I cheated on my boyfriend of a year. We’re still together but the guilt is killing me.

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I don’t want to farm sympathy with this, because I know what I did was wrong and it’s all my fault. Me and my partner, L, have been together for nearly 2 years now. I cheated on him for a month during March of this year and broke it off in mid April. I didn’t love affair partner at all. I got into a “queerplatonic” relationship with them because they were extremely suicidal. I never fostered any love for them and the most we did was sexted (Which was forced by AP). I told my boyfriend L what happened around 3 days ago. I told him with transparency, took full accountability, and established better communication, unlimited access to my phone, and to talk whenever they pleased. He is still with me, and surprisingly took it very well. He still adores me fully, which makes what I did hurt ten times more. I keep apologizing and he insists that it’s okay, that he won’t leave me, and that he loves me. I’m astounded he feels so strongly about me, and I truly intend on standing beside him forever and never repeating my disgusting actions. But the guilt is killing me. I hurt and betrayed the one I love most, and now my heart constantly hurts. I’m looking for any advice to absolve myself of the guilt, not because I want to forget and move on, but because my guilt is slowing our relationship down.


r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

if anyone wants to mess with a cheater dm me rn

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i have a phone number for yall to mess with