r/aaaaaaaarrrrro • u/Kind_Welder4466 oriented aroace • 11d ago

Aroooooo Amatonormativity in a nutshell

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u/TheDeathGuardDude 11d ago

It’s true and that sucks so bad.

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u/Alliacat aroace 10d ago

Funny when I figured out I was aro because I found the absolute perfect person and I still didn't want to date them 😂

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u/Traditional-Fox-5647 aroace 10d ago

SAME. He seemed theoretically like a perfect match, we met in a very meet-cute way, we became friends, he asked me out, and after literal months of consideration I gave myself one last Hail Mary chance to see if I would experience romantic attraction. What do you know? There was not a single difference between him and every other time I’d tried to date. I really tried, man!That’s when I realized I had some things I really needed to figure out lol

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u/Alliacat aroace 10d ago

Yes lol, like they were amazing, and I still didn't experience shit

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u/The_Big_Sad_69420 8d ago

No no, they’re right. I haven’t found the right person yet. The right person being another aro friend who wants to be in QPR and then we can split rent forever and adopt a big dog🤪 

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u/Kind_Welder4466 oriented aroace 8d ago

oh god I want that now