r/aerospace • u/Fun_Ear6893 • 23h ago
Professor told me to email her next semester to join her lab, but then said there was no space. A week later she accepted my friend.
I’m a junior in aerospace engineering, and I’ve been trying to get involved in CFD research.
Last semester I emailed a professor because I was really interested in her work. She got back to me after about two weeks and invited me to tour her lab. I left that meeting under the impression that I would be able to join. At the end of the tour she told me (and another student) that all we had to do was email her next semester and we could join the CFD lab.
Over the summer I emailed asking if I could shadow the lab to prepare before officially joining. She said she was in California for the summer, which was totally understandable. I thanked her and emailed again the week before the semester started. This time she told me she wasn’t sure if she’d have space for undergrads and had a meeting that Tuesday to figure it out. Afterward she emailed me saying there unfortunately wasn’t any room and to try again next semester.
I was disappointed, but figured it was just bad timing.
Here’s the part that’s bothering me. I had told one of my friends about the lab, and he ended up getting a tour with her this past Friday. She ended up telling him he could join the lab.
To be fair, he’s an honors student and has more formalized CFD experience than I do, so I understand why she’d pick him. But it’s hard not to feel discouraged after being told for months that I could join if I just emailed next semester.
Now I’m starting to feel like getting research is impossible. It’s already junior year, and I was really hoping to get involved this year. I know research experience is important if I want to go to grad school or work in R&D.
Has anyone else had something like this happen? Should I keep trying with this professor next semester like she suggested, or is that basically a polite rejection and I should focus on finding other labs instead?