Hey all,
I’m a cis bisexual man (I think). I’m pretty heavy-set (5’10 and 260lbs last time I weighed) and I’m wondering if anybody has any tips on presenting more effeminate but still semi-masculine? I’m working on losing weight and growing out my hair to be long like when I was a teenager, but I’m hoping to have a more effeminate frame. I’m ultimately going for a more androgynous look as far as body goes. How does one obtain an androgynous build without the use of estrogen? For reference I’ve attached a picture of myself. Face censored because I’m not comfortable in my own body and actually lowkey hate it.

Edit: I’d like to say I’m not just fat, I’m of fairly strong build and still retain a good amount of strength from when I was healthier.

Not me awkwardly trying to pose. One of my first selfies where I’m not melodramatically looking away 😂

I still feel awkward trying to move, pose, and act more feminine but I’m also just naturally awkward

At least I’m looking at the camera this time. Next challenge: walking through the shot.

Sad fall is creeping in—I just got my summer looks together 😭

(Sorry about the bright 💔)

what could i do - burp neutral face or whatever

Hi! I’m Kira, 29, from Russia. I’m androgynous and wanted to say hello. I’d be happy to meet some interesting people and have a chat.

Hi guys I need help please . I have long wavy hair but lately been feeling like I present as androgynous

People keep saying that I look androgynous but I genuinely can't see it, and i don't know if the tell that only to make me a "favor" :/

And in case what can I do to look more androgynous?

i found out im bigender, and i've started growing my hair, but i feel like that's not enough.

is there anything else i can do?

Hi, im a guy, always have been, never was uncomfortable with it, but I've had my fair share of times (which grows over time) where I just wished I could be a girl, wether it is because it seems fun, cuz I wanna feel pretty, ANYTHING, and I could become one, tons of my friends are trans, but its mainly the look im after, thats why being genderfluid doesnt appeal to me,

I just want to be androgynous, so that when I feel like it, I can decide to lean more towards a feminine or masculine look, without having to do severe alterations to my body and so that I can switch back and forth

Plus being androgynous just seems fun, its looks so freeing, I wanna get the occasionnal "are you a guy or a girl?" Cuz it seems funny, wouldnt you like to know what I am? Idk, I just want tips, so that I can achieve freedom over what I look like

(Please note that im fairly young, and that I wanna keep it secret, so expensive stuff or things where I gotta ask my parents or anything forget it)

Hi! I’m a man who really wants to go for that androgynous look as it makes me feel good, and it’s sort of my brand as an actor! Let me know if you have any suggestions when it comes to clothing or personal grooming. I really want to have that soft or flowy touch!