Hi! I’m based in PL, freshly 27, looking for new friends and maybe a relationship? No pressure though. Please be at least 24 if you want to DM me. 🫶 The closest definition to my sexuality would be aegosexual.

I work in marketing, like to work out & try to avoid screens as much as possible outside of work, despite immensely enjoying movies and TV shows. I enjoy a good book too. I’d prefer if you weren’t a gamer, although i know it’s a pretty popular hobby nowadays - worked in the games industry for a long time and i have my reasons for this preference 😅
I’m building a pretty fulfilling life outside of work and the internet as a whole, but i crave new friendships and separately, a romantic connection. So here i am. 🤠

Hey everyone!! Let me reintroduce myself :)

My name’s Brandi, I’m 26 years old and I currently reside in Texas but i eventually want to move out of Texas and to NYC and live with the love of my life. I’ve tried dating apps but to no avail because dating while Panromantic Aegosexual (took me forever to come to terms with this) is hard in Texas! I’ve come across some homophobic people so I’m hoping to meet some more likeminded individuals! I will also consider anywhere on the east coast that’s close to NYC as well because I want to be close to Broadway

I enjoy traveling, going to the movies, watching tv, listening to music and broadway! Some of my favorite Broadway shows include Hamilton, Six, Warriors (which is coming to Broadway in March of 2027). Some of my favorite actresses include Jasmine Cephas Jones, Phillipa Soo & Renee Elise Goldsberry.

I have an autoimmune disease which makes it hard for me to work a regular job and drive which is another reason I want to move to NYC! It has public transportation, is walkable and has all 4 seasons and I wouldn’t ever have to get my license.

I’m on the fence on if I want kids but if I do have a kid, it’d be through adoption but right now, I’m more on the side of I don’t want children.

My current watch is Lanterns and I would love to talk to anyone about it!!

If you’re a teenager, while i appreciate the sentiment, i feel extremely uncomfortable with talking to teenagers. I’m 26 so I would prefer anyone who’s 22 and older :) I don’t really have an age limit either

I'd love to find another woman I can be comfortable and safe with. A person I can really trust and pour my heart out when needed. It can either stay as a friendship or grow romantically, I would be okay with either!

I'm born and still live in Western Europe, I'm open to long distance and I'm willing to move elsewhere for the right person. I have no child wishes and I am sex neutral. I'm also androgynous and I have been told I have a soothing voice. I'm about 178cm, slightly overweight working on getting in shape again through cycling and lifting weights. I enjoy playing videogames, mostly multiplayer. I also run a gaming community that can sometimes take a little bit of time, helping people in the game etc. Besides that, I like saving money to be able to travel and I'm always interested learning more about the world. I enjoy learning little historical facts or generic random knowledge. I enjoy watching true crime too. In a relationship I really value the emotional connection, honesty and cuddles :D I enjoy voice calls and little updates on our lives.

If it seems interesting to you, please reach out and write a little about yourself too. Thank you!

Coucou, je suis une meuf trans de 22 ans résidant dans le nord-est de la France

Je suis à la recherche d'une relation asexuelle (au moins en grande majorité), j'ai une attirance pour tout les genres mais + tourné vers les femmes et je ne sais pas si je pourrais vraiment me mettre en relation avec un homme honnêtement, je cherche surtout des gens dans les alentours de mon âge 20/25 ans

J'aime beaucoup de choses comme le dessin, l'écriture, la lecture, les jeux vidéos, la coutures, l'escalade... Et j'aimerais bien pouvoir partager plein de moment avec quelqu'un (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧

Au niveaux des musiques j'écoute de vraiment tout même si j'ai une préférence pour la musique classique, j'écoute du NewDad, aliceband, vaundy, kitri, Gorillaz, Mili, boa, System Of A Down...

Je suis ouverte à un peu de distance tant que ce n'est pas excessif (300 voir 400km grand max), de même pour les pays adjacents je ne vois pas tant de problème tant que tu peux parler anglais ou français :)

Bipolar disorder 1 with psychosis, obsessive compulsive disorder, borderline personality disorder, dissociative identity disorder, fibromyalgia, neuropathy, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, and a 13mm herniated L5-S1 disc. If I haven't scared you off, please continue.

I don't expect most people to understand what every single one of those diagnoses are and what are the symptoms I personally feel. I use a walking cane when walking more than a few steps and as the pain in my lower back (this is the herniated disc's symptom) throughout the day, I use a custom modified power wheelchair in the evening or just on bad days (intense pain days). I also wear all black 99% of the time. I do this in part because it makes laundry and getting dressed much easier.

I have a BA in Spanish. I speak (English), Spanish, French, and a little Mandarin. I wasn't always this physically disabled so I used to travel the world. I studied at the Universidad de Blas Pascal in Córdoba, Argentina as it was required that I live in and take classes in a foreign country per my bachelor's. I don't want you to try to be what you think I want. I want you to be yourself and let's just see how the chemistry between us works or fails to work. I could be willing to relocate but that's down the road a bit. Until then, let's chat, videochat, email or whatever else; we can just do what's the easiest at the beginning. I do have a discord account but I haven't used it in awhile. I play music (piano mostly right now) and am not a gamer, but I might be able to be talked into something we could play together. I like d&d but I'm still a noob.

Because I am physically disabled, I live on what I get from Social Security and whatever else I can manage to do. It'd be awesome if you lived near me but let's work towards that as a goal. Oh, I think I qualify for neurodivergeant since I had dissociative identity disorder. I'm a weird man and 5'9", 200 lbs, very pale, and I usually grow a beard. I have too much white hair for not having kids and being 39. I digress.

Right handed. I always have a pocket knife on me (legally). Oh, and I smoke cannabis for the pain but might get talked into edibles. Also, I modestly celebrate the solstices and the equinoxes in a modern Norse pagan sort of way and Christmas with my sister and parents. I have a tattoo, but rest assured I will never have a Norse Pagan tattoo thanks (again) to the Nazis taking someone else's culture and claiming it was their own. Wow. I really opened up.

Sexually, I'm not against anything until fluids are exchanged. We can talk about this in detail at a later time. Also, I'm going to delete this post sometime in the next few months (yeah, I'm casting my net pretty wide) so you'd better make a move. I'm looking for a guy who has a car and his name on a lease or mortgage somewhere. I also have a bad memory thanks to dissociative identity disorder, taking gabapentin, and smoking pot. No cigarette smokers or people who vape, please. I've quite and relapsed so many times with cigarettes that I won't let myself be around anyone smoking a cigarette or hitting a vape because it's just a matter of time before I ask to pay for a cigarette. I will smoke one when I'm really really anxious (like a relative in a hospital) (disclaimer). In the immortal words of Forest Gump, "I think that's about it."

The Basics:

• Name: Fae
• Pronouns: It/Its
• Age: 25 years old
• Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
• Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
• Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

• Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
• Child-Free (Never going to change)
• Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
• Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
• Chronic Pain
• Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
• Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

• Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
• Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
• Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
• Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
• Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
• Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
• Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
• Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
• Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

• Single; not interested in non-monogamy
• Between 22-40 years old
• Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
• Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
• Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
• Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
• Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping, but I am open to people willing to quit)
• Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
• Not just going to write “Hey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

I'm Kimi, a 22-year-old African American autistic YouTuber from Georgia (she/they), and I'm bi/ace and non-binary. I live with my family and I'm the only left-handed person in it. I love anime, plushies, music, childhood movies, Gacha Club, and creating my own worlds like Creationverse and my MHA OCs. Plus, got five main persona/original characters that I created as different reflections of myself. \^\^

Sometimes I worry that nobody will truly accept me because I'm sensitive, autistic, and have trust issues. I can take jokes seriously, and I wish people understood me better. Plushies are still a comfort to me, no matter my age.

I've had four relationships that ended for different reasons, including misunderstandings, incompatible boundaries, being used, jealousy, and different life goals. Those experiences have made trusting people difficult, but I'm still hopeful.

Someday, when I'm ready, I hope to meet a soulmate—girl or boy—who accepts me as I am: autistic, bi/ace, non-binary, and creative. Someone who's patient, honest, loyal, respects my boundaries, supports my YouTube journey, and enjoys Gacha Club too. 💕

It was always very hard for me to come into terms that i am asexual, mostly because i am dating a hypersexual person, i mean, i dont know for how much longer i will stay in this relationship because i am genuinely losing my patience.

You might be asking why i even got into this relationship in the first place, very simple actually, i didn't know. She only told me after i had already asked me to be her girlfriend, i simply had no idea.

Everything has been good up until last month. She would constantly make sexual jokes and i felt like everything that i said would be turned sexual, i constantly had to turn down her jokes and i would genuinely leave the conversation sometimes.

She got mad at me over it someday, even though SHE said it herself that she knows it bothered me, so I never understood why she continued. She said that she didnt feel like she could joke around me and felt stuck... well she didnt think about how I felt once though, she said she could only joke freely around her friends and not me, and that it made her re-think everything that she said. Is it that hard to respect the fact that i do not like sexual jokes? Like genuinely?

I also feel very guilty. I feel like i will never be able to fully be what she wants and needs because I do not want to have sexual relations with her, its just not in me.

Is there anyone out there that has a similar experience or ever dated someone who is hypersexual before? Should i even bother with the relationship at this point? I feel lost and lonely.

Any men out there interested in something like that? I’m really shy in real life (I’m a woman Btw and can prove it and prove my age) I was previously in an abusive relationship and I’m too scared to actually go on dates. But all the same I’m lonely and just want to attempt to romantically talk with someone again. I’m 24, I ride a rocket, i read a lot. I’m unfortunately a hopeless romantic I have like no friends. Oh I’m a bit of a nerd too? Harry Potter and Anime. Tell me your age and some stuffs about you if you wanna maybe get to know me.

​Hii everyone!! 👋

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I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia 🇮🇩 (INFJ 6w5), looking for a genuine, cozy, and long-term connection with a kind-hearted guy who can be my safe space in this noisy world.

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A Bit About Me:

- Identity: 100% Southeast Asian, born in November 2003 | 168 cm (5'6").

- Orientation: Homoromantic Asexual & Side. I crave romantic affection, deep emotional intimacy and quiet moments together, but I am strictly non-sexual.

- Personality & Vibe: Introverted, aesthetic-minded, and a thoughtful romantic at heart. Big fan of music (Taylor Swift, Ariana Grande, indie, acoustic vibes and EDM), calm nature walks, city walks, photography, and late-night deep talks.

- My Dynamics: Total Little Spoon in private, but I love a balanced, lowkey, and natural dynamic. I thrive when I feel safe, protected, and emotionally grounded with my partner.

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What I’m Looking For:

- Age: Around my age or 1 year older (23-24yo / born around 2002–2003). I really love that "best friends to lovers" energy, where we look like cool bros hanging out in public, but are total softies with each other when we're alone!

- The Vibe: Grounded, patient, and mature. I have a massive soft spot for European guys (love that calm, stoic-outside, warm-inside energy!). A protective Big Spoon who respects boundaries, values open communication, and seeks an authentic bond.

- Location: Open to long-distance connections (especially Europe) that can grow naturally over time.

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If you resonate with this and feel like we’d share a sweet connection, feel free to send a DM! Tell me a bit about yourself or share a song that feels like home to you 😊

Hi I am going to try this again^^
my name is Kitt!
I am demisexual / ace so i'm seeking connection first! I take a while to warm up and need my trust to be earned. I'm located in oklahoma and only want something that leads to irl so if you are in oklahoma or surrounding states that'd be ideal!! i am indifferent to sex so if you are 100% ace that is completely fine with me :)

My dealbreakers are: must be monogamous only. I do not want children (if you have adult children that is fine) must be willing / able to meet irl. no smokers / excessive drinking please.

I am 25, 5'4, and chubby / plus size. I have 3 feet of blonde hair. I prefer an age gap (would prefer if you were at least 27 or older, max is 50) with a man who values loyalty, mutual consent and respect, and is capable of deep love and care. I am attracted to someone who is comfortable leading and prioritizes our connection. I am also very into cgl despite being fairly new to it. If you have questions about that / are also into cgl feel free to ask them.

I'm an artist and character designer, and i collect ww2 memorabilia. I also like horror games and dinosaurs!! I volunteer at a local history museum, and I work with dogs, so bonus points if you have one :D

i am looking for serious inquiries only! Please dm if you think we'd be a good match.

I’m nearing 22 and I’m a sex repulsed asexual on top on being a non passing trans man. I don’t know how to get out and meet people when everyone I’ve ever talked to has tried to initiate shit I’m not interested in. Or, I get misgendered at every turn. I’m so tired of being lonely but I’m not willing to give up on me being comfortable just to be in a relationship. Any advice?

Feel free to DM me if you're from India too and looking for an asexual relationship.

(needed a flair so I went with rant but its more of a happyrant)

28M in the UK, new here and to ace spaces in general. It's taken me a looooong time to figure myself out and there's still probably a lot to learn but seeing posts here from people looking for the kinds of relationship I've always wanted deep down is so comforting.

I've never really cared for sex. To me it always just seemed like something I'm expected to perform at and all the things I wanted (the connection, the shared experiences, the more gentle intimacy, the things that make you feel warm and fuzzy and send shivers down your spine) are gatekept behind it. There's something so freeing about just picturing a relationship with someone who wants the same things as me without all that extra pressure, I could actually tear up.

I still haven't talked to anyone here yet and idk if I'm even ready to date right now but this is the first time I've felt genuinely excited about the prospect of dating and finding someone instead of just dread.

Sorry for the ramble I just wanted to say something. I hope you're all having a good time and the best of luck finding your person :)

Hello! I am a 34 year old allosexual man who is looking to date an asexual woman. I am not looking for a sexual relationship and want a relationship that is purely sexless. I am happy to explain why I am looking for this once we've gotten to know eachother for a while.

I work in the mental health field, am an ethical vegan, love horror movies and books, and enjoy PC gaming. I like playing Battlefield, ARPGs like Diablo, Grim Dawn, etc, horror games like Silent Hill, Dead Space, etc and other sorts of games. Clive Barker, Stephen King, Laird Barron, John Langan, and Brian Hodges are some of my favorite authors. Last movie I watched was "In the Earth." Some of my favorite movies include Nightcrawler, Fight Club, The Babadook, High Tension, Relay, The Witch, and The Game.

I enjoy listening to a lot of post punk and goth music. Some of my favorite artists are Dionnysuss, Mareux, Misery Mile, She Wants Revenge, Actors, Lebanon Hanover, She Past Away, and Sad Madona. I also listen to a lot of techno and other electronic music. I've listened to a lot of metal in the past, although I hardly do anymore.

I live in the northeastern US. Looking for someone around a similar age as me. Will happily trade pictures and share more personal info privately.

hii, i wanted to give this a try and see what’s out there!

im 19 and i live in canada, although i dont mind ldr. i dont want to get too into detail here just because i prefer doing it through conversation.

i love reading / writing, baking, and the gym lol. i go to university and have a strong work ethic, and i like to surround myself with like minded people.

i have been in relationships before but being asexual is relatively new for me and im still figuring out where exactly on the spectrum i fall. i know this post is pretty vague, but im an open book and im more than willing to share pictures / more about myself through dms.

feel free to message me !! also please be 19+ lol, beyond that im not picky about age :)

Hello, Sebastian here, 41, from Germany, non-binary (AMAB). Music, movies, cooking and photography are big passions of mine, especially shooting with a digital SLR camera. The pictures always turn out better that way. I’m 190 cm tall, heavyweight but looking good, with a grey beard and glasses. Many people say i loom handsome.

Action and horror movies are my favorites: Police Story, almost all Shaw Brothers films, Suspiria, Dawn of the Dead and the Lucio Fulci classics. I even have a tattoo with a motif from The Beyond. Manga and anime are also huge for me.

I play video games like Vampire Survivors and Death Stranding from time to time.

I’m on the grey asexual spectrum. Penetrative sex holds little to no interest for me, but kink definitely does.

I can be very direct, which can sometimes be a problem with people. I say it straight when I don’t like something or find it sus.

Coming from the goth scene, the playlist is full of dark music: ASP, Umbra Et Imago, BlutEngel, Nachtmahr, Samsas Traum, Terminal Choice, Kontrast, Sisters of Mercy and many more. I also love metal bands like Kanonfieber, Behemoth, Alestorm, Sabaton and Bring Me the Horizon.

The Line is quote of the Czarface meets Frank Pulitzer Song Raw Force. Frank Pulitzer js Tom Hardy. So we could nerd out about ir
About you:

Just be you and everyone over 18 is welcome. And more Femine side of all the Spectrums. And maybe a few same intressted in movies and Music.

Are there a lot of us in Canada in this subreddit?

Hello all,

My name is Daniel and I appreciate this is a long shot but I have to try something 🤷‍♂️

I was speaking to a lovely lady recently that went by the name of K. We really hit it off and I thought she was just the most incredible person I’ve ever met… but I never got the change to tell her because the other day I went into our chat to say good morning and found that her profile had been deleted.

Words can’t describe how painful that was.. as a demisexual man I was well on my way to establishing an emotional connection with K and the sudden separation with no explanation felt like the emotional equivalent of having my spine severed.

All I know about her is that she lives in the Lake District I offered to exchange phone numbers but respected her boundary when she said that she wanted to keep talking on here for a while longer.

The last thing she said was we “won’t be stuck on Reddit forever 🤣” 💔💔💔

So, K, WaterMelonnnn or whatever you go by now. If you see this somehow just know that I’m still here, I’m missing you dearly and I hope you find your way back to me 🥺

Hey everyone,

I'll be honest right off the bat: I've never actually dated before. I spent most of my recent years head-down in my studies, so navigating this whole scene is pretty new to me. I'm definitely looking for someone who has a bit of patience while I figure things out as we go.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm with black hair and dark chocolate brown eyes.

What keeps me busy:

>Hobbies: Playing chess, reading, cooking, sketching, cycling, and swimming.

>Photography: I love taking photos, mostly focusing on nature, birds, animals, and architecture.

>Reading: Big on self-improvement books—anything that challenges my perspective, makes me introspect, or helps me grow.

>Watchlist: Movies and series in thriller, mystery, psychological, crime, horror, and rom-com genres.

>Music: Pretty eclectic. Good music is good music, regardless of language.

Lifestyle-wise, I don't smoke, drink, or have any major vices. That said, I’m open to trying a good glass of wine one day just to taste it.

Personality-wise, I'm a weird mix of realistic and hopelessly romantic. I can be a bit reserved at first when it comes to opening up about my past—mostly because I like building genuine trust first and making sure we're both actually invested. But once that foundation is there, I'm all in. I don’t hold back on effort, and making sure my partner feels safe, valued, and respected in every way is huge for me.

What I’m looking for:

A genuine connection built on basic essentials: mutual respect, open communication, trust, honesty, and simple kindness.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a message with a bit about yourself and your current favorite movie or book.

Sorry if this writing is a mess and 18-26 is preferable age range but any age range is fine with me, 18+ of course, my acespace profile with even more about me https://acespace.love/profile/Adam2003

Hello! My name is Adam and I’m a 23 year old asexual and possibly aromantic male from Australia, I’m an introvert so long distance is preferable until we get to know each other and then maybe we could meet up one day, I don’t mind sending what we look like, Reddit and discord are the main socials I use the most but I also have Instagram if it’s better to chat there

My discord is .gargoyle18. and my Instagram is adamcooperklohs, if you can't find me on either tell me yours and i'll add you

i feel like i should make this clear, i am looking for a relationship but i doubt that will ever happen so friends are good but you never know what could happen and plus since i don't work, study and have the confidence to date or ask anyone out but there's always that possibility that it could happen and if it doesn't, im fine with that and who would want to be with someone who doesn't work or study and if were talking you wont need to worry about me pursuing it and flirting, the only type of flirting if you can call it, is i like calling women pretty and thats it, only platonically and just to be nice and nothing romantic and im only looking for female friends, no males so i apologise about that

if we start talking i cant be the one that always has to start the conversations, i don't mind doing it but after a while it gets annoying, another thing is i cant be the only one that gets to know you, like I say what music you like and you say what you like and then you dont ask what I like then I don't know where to go from there, we both need to get to know each other not just me getting to know you which I want to but its dull when you don't ask me what I like so please contribute to the conversations, i do understand people have trouble talking, i do to but i try my best but if it keeps happening I ghost and that's the only time I ghost and im only looking for female friends, no male friends so sorry about that

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•my social skills are not the best I'm terrible at talking and interacting with people, I'm shy, not good at starting conversations and responding to stuff well but I'm getting better so sorry if the conversations are dull but I can go well with conversations most of the time but I do like talking and I like when people are chatty because that helps me talk more, i can also do voice calls but i am shy at first and I do talk and i like to do voice calls when playing games, video chats are a big no, that seems really uncomfortable and awkward but if in the future if it gets serious then maybe i would, I'm also a good listener and I'm always available to chat and always respond no matter what, unless I'm sleeping of course, idk if that's bad or not and you can ask me almost whatever and if you take a long time to respond or don't respond for a day, couple days, a week, couple of weeks or a month with a good reason it doesn't bother me

•I would consider myself a nice, friendly, honest, curious and caring person, I’m never mean or rude and I don’t like to be unless there’s a good reason to be, I don’t even swear, I don’t say words that aren’t considered swear words and i don’t do that weird and creepy crap, i don’t get how people can but if i do come off as weird or creepy i don't mean to be so sorry if i am

•I’m an introvert, so I like being inside all the time playing my games and watching TV and anime but I do want to start going out to fun places like conventions, concerts or other places like that and travel to different countries one day, I’ve never done any of it and maybe get out of my comfort zone one day, i wouldn’t go to bars or anything like that because it doesn’t seem fun and I don’t drink and I’ve never been drunk and don’t ever intend to be (though im making an exception for my brothers wedding and that's it, that's the only time i will ever get drunk) i have had alcohol before but that a very long time ago and i did like it but it's been a long time since i had it but i won't have it again, I don’t do drugs and never intend to do that also but I would try Marijuana but only the edible kind, not smoking it and i don't smoke cigarettes also

I’ve never been in a relationship and dated anyone and it's never interested me until i discovered im asexual because since discovering im asexual I've been thinking about it more so I’m curious now, I don’t know what they are like and how it works, I would try a romantic relationship before a sexual one and a qpr does sound pretty good and I'm definitely open to one, with marriage I'm kinda open to it but if we click very well in the future then it might possibly happen and with kids, idk about having any but it could be a possibility but I'll be fine if I never have one

•I’m a big nerd, i love gaming and anything related to it and i’m starting to get into anime more which has been really cool, im getting into dnd more and its really fun and i loved baldur's gate 3 and that was my introduction to dnd, I used to play magic the gathering a lot but I stopped playing years ago but I loved it and I kind of want to get into it again, i'd be down to get into more fandoms and explore them

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I love gaming, it’s what I mostly do and I can talk about it all day and I believe it’s the best way to get know each other and bond more, I play on ps5, I don’t have an Xbox or pc and I did have a switch but it got lost, I'm always down to try new games, i also stream on youtube, thegargoylegaming, i don't intended to get big i'm just doing for fun and i don't talk unless someone speaks in the chat and i also play plenty of online games and and as i said before this would be the best way to get to know each other better

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i love to watch tv and anime mostly, im new into anime and haven't watch many yet but i hear most them are really good, i don't really watch movies much, im always down to watch something over discord or something else, even movies, thats another way to get to know each other also

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i love music, i listen to it all the time id be so bored without it, i've never been to a concert but i would love to go to one, one day, i mostly listen to kpop and new to it currently but my music taste is all over the place and i listen to anything and recommend me anything

I also like to sing but I'm terrible at it but it's fun

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I’m writing a set of books, I’ve wrote 4 but i still need to edit them, I’m writing my 5th book but i'm struggling with it and I’m planning to do 3 more, possibly 4, I also don’t read books so i don’t really know how they are like and plus i’m new to this so i don’t really know what i’m doing but it’s fun, I've got my ideas from tv shows and video games and ive put references here and there

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i collect stuff mainly legos which i have a lot of, i used to collect pop vinyls but i lost most of them when i moved and i have some comic books that ive collected but i havent read most of them yet and i guess i count ps4 and ps5 games, i have a lot of them

Hello, 30F here. Not exactly sure exactly how I identify? I do know I’m somewhere on the ace spectrum though. I currently say I’m demisexual, but the truth is I’ve never gotten close enough to someone to know if that’s fully true. I’m not a Virgin, but I’ve only been intimate 3 times and I didn’t like it. But I also don’t know if it was just bad sex. But I didn’t feel pleasure, it felt like a chore. It felt like I needed to put on an act, and felt like something being done to me vs me actually doing it with someone. If that makes sense. I do get some sort of happiness from making a partner feel good? So I’m not unwilling to do sex even if I don’t particularly enjoy it myself. If that also makes sense. I don’t really feel any desire though, in general. And I don’t feel attracted to men most of the time. I mean, I’m straight, I like men. But I just don’t look at them and think “wow, I want to be with them” very often. And when I have, I feel like what I’ve experienced has been more along the lines of Limerence. Burning hot and bright for only a while. Then it’s gone. Doesn’t feel like I’ve ever been able to really love anyone. I do think I’m capable of that, but like I said, I’ve never gotten close enough to anyone to know for sure or what it’s supposed to feel like. So I feel a little lost.

Basically I’m still figuring stuff out. But what I do know is that I’ve always wanted a life partner very deeply. I’ve got it on my hinge dating profile that I’m demisexual. I’m afraid no one will even take a chance to talk with me if I put fully asexual on there. I don’t want to mislead anyone, though. But I don’t know for sure myself what I am. I have little to no dating experience at all. I’ve never managed to get someone to want to go on more than a first date with me in any circumstance, and most of the dates weren’t “real” dates, people just wanted to “hang out” or hookup. I’ve been rejected for not wanting sex on the first date. I thought, at least that was normal? Not wanting to do it when you JUST met someone and don’t know them.

I really don’t know what I’m doing. But I’m lonely. I’m worried I’ll be lonely forever, and like I’m missing out on this huge part of the human experience by not being able to connect with one person. Not one person… and I’ve always been the one to pursue men. Nobody asks me out, I have to do the asking. Maybe that’s where I’m doing it wrong. I feel like I’m doing everything wrong, and just being myself isn’t enough. I thought maybe not wanting sex would be fine, because I’m not even an attractive person. I know I’m not. But I still feel like those of us who are on the asexual spectrum are outsiders in society. We’re few and far between. I’ve never met anyone who feels like I do in person.

So, I guess my question is, how can I meet someone who understands me? For those in relationships, whether you’re both ace or only one of you is, how did you end up dating in the first place? How did you navigate intimacy in the relationship? How do you make someone want to stay with you if you can’t offer them the only thing they want? Because some people act like they can’t live without sex. Like it’s the ONLY thing that matters in a relationship. I just want to choose someone who will choose me back, support each other, and build a life together. I would do anything for the person I love. But I just can’t seem to make it work. Does anyone else feel that kind of unworthiness just because you don’t want sex? Because of who you are and how you feel inside?

I’m really losing hope for myself. People I am close to have said they think it will happen for me, that I’ve got a good personality. But I do think there’s more wrong with me than right. On top of being asexual, as I said, I’m not attractive- I don’t fit the social beauty standards. I’m also fat, and I am chronically ill. I have fibromyalgia and small fiber neuropathy, and I have some bad allergies and asthma and stuff like stomach problems and migraines that go along with the other conditions. (I’ve been rejected for the chronic illnesses alone too often.) And the cherry on top, I’m autistic and have adhd. I just don’t think I have many redeeming qualities. I’ve tried to better myself and put my best foot forward, but that doesn’t seem to work. And the nail in the coffin always seems to be my lack of experience with sex. Nobody wants to date a 30 year old novice. There have been things I wanted from a partner, but I’ve greatly lowered my standards and expectations. Doing that still hasn’t improved my chances though. I’m not sure what else to do.

Does anyone else struggle with this? I know I’m not the only person out there who is ace, but having nobody close to talk to about it really makes me feel isolated. I feel like so much of my life has been wasted without anything to show for my efforts in trying to get close to people. Any advice would be appreciated, even if it’s harsh. I can handle the truth. Nobody is going to critique me more than I already critique myself.

Hi I'm a little unsure of what exactly to write here as I really hate writing about myself without a prompt, more one for anecdotes and questions of all varieties!

I'm looking for connection and hopefully a relationship, I have dated guys in the past but usually find myself more attracted to women and femme enbies.

I love pub quizes, and honestly would be overjoyed even with having someone or multiple people to go to them with regularly, but I also love American sports in a geeky way, many different games both board and computah, and also museums and walks!

In general I will try anything and everything at least once, especially with someone who is passionate about the thing, except one night stands but that should go without saying.

Ideally theres someone local to me but london works and I can drive and do online with at minimum semi-frequent meetings, probably not fully online.

Happy to send photos if you need to see my face but would prefer to do so privately!

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking to meet a woman for a serious relationship.

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, masculine, and dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends first and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calling, and spending time together.

I’m a big nerd and enjoy Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, Jujutsu Kaisen, and other anime. My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Masculine/dominant

- Caring and patient

- Affectionate

- Comfortable with a feminine/submissive guy

- Into gaming or nerdy stuff

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, dark-skinned, athletic, and gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤