Hey yall,
(sorry for the long post iām long winded lol, title is basically TL;DR)
So, iām no coffee aficionado. I like iced, ridiculously sweet drinks and iām not ashamed of it. But especially in small local coffee shops, I never know what to get as Iām still not 100% sure whatās the difference between them all.
So when I go to a new spot, I usually just tell the barista Iād like an iced, stupidly sweet drink, and either ask for a recommendation or just say to freestyle it.
Itās been an awesome way to try drinks I never wouldāve known to order with all kinds of cool flavors. Iāve only ever had one drink I didnāt like, but I did not tell the barista this š
other than that thought itās been great.
But the thing is, I typically get 2 very different reactions to my request. Half of the time the barista is very nice and happy to whip up something for me, but the other half of the time they look at me crazy. I even had one barista roll their eyes at me which I thought was uncalled for.
It wasnāt until recently I realized that maybe my request isnāt as fun as I thought, and that baristas would rather you just tell them what you want rather than putting the burden on them or making them risk you getting upset.
For the record, while I am a little shy, I try to be as friendly and chill when I ask and iāve never said anything rude, even the one time I didnāt like the drink. I just carried it with me home and poured it out lol. Also, I am a small, college aged girl, so I doubt I look very intimidating š
I realized in their shoes iād probably be nervous to make something for a customer, just for them to turn around and complain about the drink or go full Karen. To me, thatās the risk you take asking for a random drink. It might be amazing, or pretty good, or not to my taste. But oh well, thatās part of the fun, and I learn something new every time even if itās that I donāt like something.
So, baristas of reddit, would you appreciate a request like this? And is there a way of asking that could help communicate iām chill and wonāt freak out if my drink isnāt to my taste?
Thanks yāall!