r/Bookkeeping • u/tinypepa • 1h ago
Rant I saw an email my client wrote about me... and I just have to pretend I didn't see it?
I (stupidly) did free work helping a client onboard some employees, but she doesn't want to pay me to process her payroll... but then she emailed me multiple times asking if everything was set up correctly. Long, panicky emails. I figured, since any payroll issues will be my responsibility to fix down the road, I will set things up and make sure it's done right. To me, that means doing it the old fashioned way - employees fill out forms, I enter that data into QBO. Client, as an employer, keeps the hiring forms on file.
The employee emailed me her forms, but included a forwarded email from my client. The client (who I am pretty sure is using AI to write her emails because they are so longwinded and repetitive) was saying to her employee, "I don't know why she's doing it this way, my old accountant had employees fill out info directly on QBO... hopefully this is the last form... I'm sorry if this is uncomfortable for you"... meanwhile, the client told me previously that her prior accountant messed up her payroll taxes! In her email she was overly apologetic to the employee (probably AI's decision) for simply having to do what every new employee should do... and throwing me under the bus?
When I saw this email it really upset me. I went out of my way to do free work for her (I never should have done, but I am learning to set boundaries), she pestered me about whether her payroll is set up right, thanks me in emails for being "so thorough"... and then sends an email to her employee like that? Either 1) she didn't actually mean it because it was written by AI or 2) she didn't bother to proofread an email that could have potentially been seen by me, given we three are in a sort of email chain together.
I am feeling like my client is two-faced. And the thing is, she was CC'd on that email forward, and I hit "reply all" to thank the employee for sending me the forms... so she would have to know that I saw that email, right? But she emails me a couple days later like nothing has happened, and I just have to pretend that I didn't see it, to keep the peace?! Unless, of course, she gives me more problems in the future, then I would be in the right to bring up how I saw it, and feel she doesn't value me?
What would you have done? Besides, of course, NOT doing free work for an ungrateful client.
