I (39M, Aries) met a woman (34F, Capricorn) on a dating app. We hit it off right away over text. Our first call lasted 3 hours. Our first date lasted 7 hours. She told me she really liked my nose (quite a unique compliment to get) and that our first date was perfect.

She was always busy with work, dance classes, or being unwell. I was extremely patient with her and implicitly accommodated her schedule without pressuring her to meet more often. Our second date happened a month after the first, and lasted 8 hours again. In her own words, she said the day had become one big, beautiful memory for her.

Our 3rd date (not really a date) was her dance show she invited me to, a month after our second date. After her show, we met briefly near the stage, and she asked if I wanted to join her and her troupe (about 40 people) for dinner. I told her we could catch up later, and that she should enjoy the time with her troupe after all their hard work. The next day, she told me how great it felt to see me in the audience, and that it made her go the extra mile. She said it made her feel like I was fam.

Our 4th date happened 20 days later. We rented a car and went for a drive, 8 hours together again. Up until I suggested renting a car and going on a trip, she seemed chirpy, happy, and herself. The moment we finalized the plan, I noticed a shift in her energy. She never said anything outright, and she still took interest in planning the logistics, but I could sense something had changed. We rented the car because neither of us owns one in this city. Neither of us had driven in a while, so I was a bit anxious. The night before, I told her I was nervous about driving but that we'd manage.

On the day of the drive, I picked her up from her dance class, and we spent 8 hours together, joking, driving, having fun. When it was time to drop her home, she suggested we get dinner. I gave her a small gift (not costly, but tied to one of our inside jokes) and she loved it. When I dropped her home and went in for a hug, she didn't fully reciprocate, so it ended up being a side hug. Her last words to me that day were, "We should definitely do this more often."

After I got home that night, I returned the rental car, and the agency found a few scratches on the bumper that weren't there before. The rental terms required me to pay for damages, and since it was late and I just wanted to get home, I paid them off. She texted to check if I'd made it home, and I told her right away about the damage charge. She was furious and said I should complain to the booking portal. I was tired and told her most rental agencies in the city operate the same way, and there wasn't much point pushing back. She just replied "ok." Nothing about how good the date was, unlike the previous times.

The next day, no text from her. I messaged her that evening, and she said she was completely drained from work. I tried to offer some support, but she wasn't very responsive. I didn't text her for the next 3 days, assuming she needed space. When I finally reached out, she didn't reply. Three days after that, I messaged again, asking if she was still interested in exploring this, and she said she didn't feel the connection she needed for it to move forward romantically. With a little back and forth, her last message to me was her acknowledging the beautiful memories we have created together.

I'm left wondering what I did wrong? She seemed so present, showing every sign of being into me, extending dates that she could have easily cut short. Does a Cap ever come back around after a decision like this, or is this final?

Any virgo (sun) ,Capricorn (Moon) and Sagittarius (rising) here?

I wanna know about you and your mind traits (in a fun way of exploring ofc) … life has been changing so fast from last few years, two years before me is completely different now.

Wanna know more about our common things in way we think and stuff.

Not mine just came across it funny yet true

Basically an leo girl recently was quite intrested in me and was flirting alot pushing me to meet her and go on olans with her and all and then which i eventually agreed to go on a date with her but i cancelled the plan and pushed her away because i was going through alot at that time and going through some past situationship at that time and did not want to use her as an rebound at that time as I did not want her to be feel used and all . Now that I am over other things and back on track i am wondering if I should reach out and give her try . I have read some cases things between Capricorn and leo don't work well . Plus I have never dated anyone in my life . Any advice what to do and any experiences ?

I met a Capricorn man on a dating website and talked for about half a week let’s say, if I didn’t text him he won’t reach out so I was like whatever I wanna get to know him and that’s what happened he mentioned a few times that he is looking for something serious and long term not anything platonic, this morning I called him and he was totally normal asking what I’m planning on studying next and stuff, well after that he asked me if I’m ready to take further steps and I said yes of course I mentioned that to him a few times already but whatever then he said that we should meet up and I was totally okay with everything even scheduled a date and everything when he asked if I will be getting my period around that date🤷🏻‍♀️I mentioned him that I’m not being intimate if I’m not in a relationship and he said I don’t wanna waste my time if nothing will happen, I tried to explain that it’s wayy too early to do that and that I’m still getting to know him I suppose he didn’t like that answer and he just started acting understanding and said he had things to do so a few hours late I texted him to make sure he wasn’t upset about it and he said if you want to continue this then contact me a week before the date we arranged and I will plan out everything if not then I wish you the best, I tried reasoning with him that it’s way too early and that he should at least get to know me and he said I already have an opinion on you…all my efforts just went downhill (it might not be a Capricorn thing but why did he rush it?) I think it’s pretty logical to not wanna be intimate with someone who you’re not in a relationship with 😕 is there anyway that can make him take me more seriously or is he just like that? I genuinely liked him he was honest and straightforward, there isn’t a chance of him changing now is it?😅

(PLEASE READ, it's not the kind of lying you are thinking)

If your girlfriend is honest and truthful to you and discloses everything, but wants you to go along with a lie they have told their family that involves you, would you feel that the person is not trustworthy anymore? Will you consider ending this relationship?

I have left the religion I was brought up in. My family is devout and they would not accept that I am marrying someone outside of that religion. They technically have no control over who I am dating but when it comes to marriage, it is serious. If I marry someone outside of the religion, I know my parents will never talk to me ever again. My family does not know that I have left the religion and I intend to keep it that way because I live in another country anyway. In this situation, I want to introduce my partner to my family and lie about his faith.

In every other scenario, I am completely honest, and I have never lied to my boyfriend. Is this going to be a dealbreaker?

Any other Capricorn feeling real spooky? 🎃✨

✨ART BY ME✨🤗

I just ended things with a Cancerian sun and Capricorn moon man, now i would normally miss him and reach to him however this time i think there’s no going back for me .
How does it make him feel deep down?

Help a buddy out with a school project!!! The sources I have been researching have been all different and saying all different things. So based on character traits alone what do we think? A lot of people have been putting super man out there as a Capricorn, which I get because we have an official birthdate but at the same time I kinda feel like that isn’t a great fit. I might be biased and you can absolutely fight me on this, but I think that Tim drake could be a Capricorn for sure

I am a Capricorn (Cap Sun, Leo Sun and Aquarius rising).
I have an 8 month old daughter who is also a Capricorn (Cap Sun, Gemini Moon and Aries Rising).

We are planning another child and I am wondering if I should aim for a Gemini or Cancer*

I have heard that Caps and Cancers are highly compatible but my daughter is a Gemini moon so will that change it at all?

I’d love my kids to be super close!

*I totally understand we might not be so lucky

Hoping I can get some clarity here because the ambiguity is killing me.

I met a Gemini sun and Capricorn moon a few months ago, to say the first meeting was intense is an understatement.

I came in greeting people and turned around to this guy staring with this penetrative stare at me, I was curious so I held his gaze and we were both facing one another, now this went on for 20 seconds or so until a I smiled slightly which he clocked instantly.

He said hello in a really restrained voice and i said hello back then he came over and hugged me.

After the hug, we engaged eye contact again much softer now, we held one another’s gaze and I told him it was “lovely to see him” even though we’re strangers (??? 😂)

He just held my gaze, smiled softly but didn’t say anything.

I went in greeting others and that was it I haven’t seen him since but, I wish I had, something about that interaction felt like so much was communicated without much being said.

I’ve since found out 3 months later he had a girlfriend at the time, I’m a bit taken a back because the interaction felt so damn charged and has rocked me a bit psychologically.

Anyway, I’m 41 and he is 50.

Any ideas Cap friends?

I am a Capricorn (Cap Sun, Leo Sun and Aquarius rising).
I have an 8 month old daughter who is also a Capricorn (Cap Sun, Gemini Moon and Aries Rising).

We are planning another child and I am wondering if I should aim for a Gemini or Cancer*

I have heard that Caps and Cancers are highly compatible but my daughter is a Gemini moon so will that change it at all?

I’d love my kids to be super close!

*I totally understand we might not be so lucky

I’ve gone through some of the posts on this sub about dating Capricorn men but would also like to ask for some advice on how to go about dating a Capricorn man I really like. (It’s important to me because this is the first time in years I’ve truly allowed myself to like someone like this.)

For context, I’m a woman with a Leo sun, Pisces rising, and Virgo moon. The only time I really feel my Leo-ness is during my birth month and most of the time, I feel more Pisces and Virgo. My virgo moon takes care of whatever delusion-like/unrealistic ideas or expectations my sun and rising placements have. Nips them in the bud right away. I’m providing this context since I saw a post from a Leo woman in this sub and was a little discouraged by some of the comments made, although fair, but still wanna check if I can pursue this because I really like him.

I’ll just send these questions since these are the things I need advice on the most:

1) Since becoming single, I’ve made it a habit to simply just give back the energy I’m shown. However, it’s hard with this Cap man since I’ve made an exception for him. Because it seems like he’s just genuinely busy. (I could be wrong but we text and facetime everyday; there are just gaps in between because of the time difference and of course work on both our ends)
My first question is, is it okay for me to be chatty when he’s busy like sending random photos or things I found interesting that day or is that just overwhelming? Can I just share stuff without expecting a response back or is that a turn off? I’ve also been trying to not be so emotional (like excited or happy or just emotional in general) in texts and that usually ends with him asking if I’m okay.

2) Sometimes he likes to be on a call while he’s working even if we don’t really talk. It rubbed me the wrong way at first because I felt like what was the point of calling. Now though, I’m okay with it. We do that and we barely talk, just work while the call is going on.

My second question is, do I need to be the one who’s chatty and give off palpable interest? Or is it okay that we’re just spending time over call without talking? (because I also honestly don’t mind that)

3) How do I appreciate and give praise without it coming off like too much or mushy or overwhelming? I just feel so out of my element because my last partner was a fire sign and everything was so intense right away and we were very expressive with our appreciations and affections which the fire sign in me loved. The guy I’m seeing is so much more calm and stable and feels like a slow burn which I have been waiting for so I want to know how I can make him feel appreciated without it being too too much.

Also to add, I’ve always communicated my feelings whenever I feel sad or unsure about his feelings for me. I did them in a calm manner but my fear is if I have to communicate my feelings all the time they’ll feel more like a burden and breed resentment.

Sorry if that was a lot and thank you in advance for the insights.

My Capricorn colleague (M) took me out for lunch, but it almost felt like a date to me. Context: I was working in the ward (we're both doctors) when around 3 pm he came and asked if I had eaten. I said no, as there was a lot of work pending. He helped me finish it and then asked my senior to let me go instead of giving more work. By this time, he had already worked for almost 32 hours straight in the emergency and ICU with 8 more hours to go. Then he asked if we should go out to have lunch and we went to a Subway nearby.

Once there, I asked him what he'd be ordering. That was when he said that he had already had lunch. I was confused and asked him why'd he come with me then despite being exhausted when he could have finished some of his work or simply taken a nap, I could have ordered in. He replied, "It was because it was already past lunchtime and food delivery would take time so I thought I'd rather take you out myself."

At that time I was too exhausted to think about anything and even order my own sub. So he ordered it for me. And then we talked about our work, family, childhood, future plans etc and then shared a cookie. Also, when the sandwich was dripping with sauces while I ate , he wrapped the sub properly for me coz I was struggling to eat it (his fault for choosing so many sauces lol).

Does this sound like a date?