A problem with another community

[u/Mysyk]

Hello. I never thought I would encounter such hostile, arrogant and toxic community. Ask Central Asian. I tried my best to resolve a situation but users instead proved they have bad attitude. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/LKlhDei6xz

I hope you are prudent.

Update. Everything started in this thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/LZqW41gJV7 They did personal attacks or mocks for no reason. Hostile, arrogant and toxic. Same mentality was back in 2000s. After a maistaken ban on Discord I asked for help in that thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/5ME8IdIq4j Guess what? Same misconduct did happen from those users again. I didn't know what to do and thus, I created another thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/vysSeFgH3J Even worse abuse did happen. Their approach and engagement proved my stance and view of them.

[u/olevsol]

Can you provide us with full picture of what happened?

[u/louis_d_t → u/olevsol]

OP posted complaints against the messaging app Discord in multiple different Central Asia subreddits, and when people questioned the relevance of these posts, OP called them stupid.

[u/Mysyk → u/louis_d_t]

I have strong doubts about their attitude. It wasn't questioning.

[u/Mysyk → u/olevsol]

Hello. Thank you for asking to clarify. I lost my temper and it will take a while to provide full picture.

[u/Mysyk → u/olevsol]

Everything started in this thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/LZqW41gJV7 They did personal attacks or mocks for no reason. Hostile, arrogant and toxic. Same mentality was back in 2000s. After a maistaken ban on Discord I asked for help in that thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/5ME8IdIq4j Guess what? Same misconduct did happen from those users again. I didn't know what to do and thus, I created another thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskCentralAsia/s/yBqncTgdv3 Even worse abuse did happen.

[u/olevsol → u/Mysyk]

What was the point of posting the first and second thread?

I see only one or two insults in comments, the rest are just confused what is the connection with the subreddit. I don’t see any arrogance/hostility when most of people are trying to clarify or simply pointing if they don’t agree with you.

[u/Mysyk → u/olevsol]

I highly doubt they did questions or wanted to clarify. Even if they did their manners were unsuitable for conversations. No neutrality in comments. No evidence and proof. Zero constructivism. But then again if they really meant it then they burnt bridges instead. One or another insults were more than enough. Compare your messages and theirs. You demonstrated interest of matter. But you still should change a style and approach with your message because at first glance your comment looked liked a sentencing. Thank you for asking and care.

[u/olevsol → u/Mysyk]

Мысык казак турбайсыңбы, казакча же орусча эле ошол тредстерден эмне алгың келгенин жазып койчу

[u/Mysyk → u/olevsol]

It depends how do you ask. Yes. My citizenship is Kazakh but my ethnicity or ethnic background mixed. For some reasons I know Kazakh language not enough. Russian language is disparaged and frowned upon due to current political turmoil. Now a real purpose and goal from these threads. 1. I want those users to be condemned get apologises from them. 2. To restore karma. I cannot interact in some communities. 3. I want reach Discord team and lift my ban. 4. I would like to know how people engage with foreigners. 5. I want to find players from our region who play old school or retro games like Doom 1-2, Heretic, Battlefield 2142 and others to play online.

[u/olevsol → u/Mysyk]

Сколько тебе лет? Какой у тебя родной язык?

[u/Mysyk → u/olevsol]

Ана тілім - орыс тілі. Мен 38 жастамын.

[u/Mysyk → u/olevsol]

I wanted to share my life. I wanted to demonstrate my curiosity and joy. I thought denizens of our region have different engagement with foreigners and thus I wanted others to share about it. To exchange experiences. But it resulted in catastrophe and zero constructivism. In second thread I didn't know what to do with a ban in Discord and asked for help. Discord develops implemented AI tech to detect violations. False positive was triggered for spam.

[u/louis_d_t]

Mate, when someone pointed out that your complaints against Discord, the messaging app, weren't relevant to an Ask Central Asia sub Reddit, you called that person "profoundly stupid". This one is entirely on you.

[u/Mysyk → u/louis_d_t]

Are you sure they did it? It isn't about Discord only. There is a long history. Also do not forget about tone and attitude of messages. They didn't try to apprehend, to understand.

[u/Mysyk → u/louis_d_t]

I think I gave them mild saying. They are shitheads. A pity you do not know real situation.

[u/Mysyk → u/louis_d_t]

Well. You conflating cause and correlation.