I contacted Vic from Dogman Encounters and told him my encounter over the phone because it had a very unique impact on my life. One that he’d never even come across before. Part of my story obviously involved my life, which meant mentioning that I’m in a same-sex relationship. However, after my call, I spent days trying to get a hold of him to figure out the logistics of recording my recounting of it, but wasn’t getting a response until I received a text that included this:

“The day we spoke, when I asked you if you still had the migraine, you said you felt better. Now, you're claiming that you did still have a migraine when we spoke...Either you have a migraine or you don't. Therefore, it's very difficult for me to believe anything else you've told me. I'm moving on. Have a good day.“

So, I had to push back the day we first scheduled to talk to the next day due to a migraine. And in my texts to him trying to figure out what the next step would be, I mentioned in passing that I wasn’t back to 100% yet when we spoke, so I hope I did ok and that he could follow my details. Also after that message I responded telling him to google “migraine” and he’d see that they can affect people for up to 72 hours. But I guess that was too much to ask. I even mentioned how I waited 7 years to finally come forward after listening for that long and my encounter happened 22 years ago and it really messed with me bad. I expressed how being suddenly not believed for pretty much nothing that had to do with anything about my encounter and the hope I had for being able to finally release all this just extinguished legitimately made me think of taking my life, although I really doubt I would do that, but I was distraught enough to have the thought. But I guess he didn’t care.

Can someone help me understand what the hell happened? And a way I can fix this? I have to get this out. I’ve actually gained a significant amount of stress overall since this happened about 6 months ago that I started getting gray hairs. I need help. And is Vic just a straight up homophobe? Everyone I’ve shown the receipts of this to, which is a family member and 2 very close friends all had that as their first thought as well.