half the "looking for a cofounder" posts in here are actually the tell that the project isn't real yet
scrolled this sub for ten minutes today and counted three separate posts looking for a cofounder, an operating partner, or a "builder to join early stage." none of them have shipped anything. one wants someone in a specific city for equity only, one wants a teacher specifically, one's recruiting devs into a discord for a security product nobody's used yet.
i get why it happens. finding a cofounder feels like the next logical step once you've got an idea and a deck in your head. but posting publicly for one, before there's a product anyone can touch, kind of gives away that the hard part hasn't started yet. the actual first cofounder test isn't "can i convince a stranger on reddit to work for equity," it's "can i get this far enough alone that someone with real skills wants in without being asked."
i went the other way on my own thing, just built the ugly version by myself first, mostly because nobody i pitched wanted to join a company that was still a slide deck. took way longer solo and it sucked in specific ways i won't get into, but by the time i actually needed help the ask was way smaller: here's a thing that works for 40 people, come make it work for 4000.
not saying cofounder posts never work out. just feels like a lot of people are doing the recruiting step before the proving-it-works step, in the wrong order.
anyone actually landed a real cofounder this way, from a cold post with no product to show?