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r/insaneparents • u/AmazingRub69 • 18h ago

SMS After I told Dad about my recent ADHD diagnosis and told him about how much kinder he could've been to me instead of beating me and calling me everything from lazy to retarded throughout my childhood, he said "maybe". I hung up and haven't spoken for over a week. Now I get this text from Mom

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299 Upvotes

62 comments

r/insaneparents • u/voidberrylady • 1d ago

SMS Mom disowns me for the 3rd time. She wanted me to take out a $2k loan. I offered her the money, but not in the form of a loan. I should be ashamed xD

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711 Upvotes

184 comments

r/insaneparents • u/JJ246_gnc • 1d ago

Other My parents are wonderful /j

788 Upvotes

30 comments

r/insaneparents • u/ValuedAlien • 1d ago

Email I supported my sister wanting to move 1.5 hours away because that’s what she wants for her family and my parents had some thoughts Spoiler

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126 Upvotes

34 comments

r/insaneparents • u/polkapen • 2d ago

SMS My mom texted me this fake suicide note and then turned off her phone. She claims she was “expressing herself”

721 Upvotes

32 comments

r/insaneparents • u/Summer_lifeishard • 2d ago

SMS What my mom did a while ago after I was talking to my brother which means he told her 🙄 have both blocked for other reasons now

14 Upvotes

6 comments

r/insaneparents • u/Major-Obligation-109 • 4d ago

SMS A conversation between me (16f) and my mom. I am required to work at the farm (have since I was 12) for upwards of 7 hours a day when not in school. I'm not crazy right? This is messed up right??

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1.2k Upvotes

129 comments

r/insaneparents • u/WhateverYouSay1084 • 5d ago

SMS Oldie But Goody - My Dad, the day I gave birth to my 2nd kid and I didn't text him quickly enough (names blurred are my maternal cousins, who found out because my mother was fully involved and sent texts)

1.3k Upvotes

51 comments

r/insaneparents • u/e17j • 5d ago

SMS Mother in law wants to share photos of my daughter despite repeatedly being told not to, now wants her friend “draw” her with AI

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709 Upvotes

53 comments

r/insaneparents • u/Everythingistaken_so • 5d ago

SMS dad threatened to burn the house down with my mom and sister in it, now misses me?

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55 Upvotes

14 comments

r/insaneparents • u/thevodkapapi • 5d ago

SMS I was being honest as to why my Instagram was private (she would watch my stories and then block me right after so I wouldn't see) im also 27 lmfao 🥀 ended up deactivating my account for rn but she has a history of stalking ppl and didn't like being called out

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272 Upvotes

42 comments

r/insaneparents • u/EhhWhatsUpDoc • 6d ago

SMS I'm too old for this Spoiler

1.2k Upvotes

60 comments

r/insaneparents • u/abbessy • 6d ago

SMS RH negatives (such as us) are "being hunted"/ "We're subhuman"

347 Upvotes

74 comments

r/insaneparents • u/87-percent-gay • 6d ago

SMS After my Dad said he never forgave me for going no contact with him and that he feels like I use him. When I started crying because that hurt my feelings he said I need to get my meds checked lol

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59 Upvotes

16 comments

r/insaneparents • u/BillythenotaKid • 7d ago

SMS My dad’s reaction after I showed him the Na’vi were based on native Americans (he didn’t believe they were)

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220 Upvotes

63 comments

r/insaneparents • u/the-archivist-system • 8d ago

Email Insane shit my father said (I'm certain I got the names this time)

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26 Upvotes

10 comments

r/insaneparents • u/digitdotwav • 8d ago

SMS special interest for computers means i should upload ai slop to make my parents money

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90 Upvotes

11 comments

r/insaneparents • u/SebbyTheBug • 9d ago

SMS My mom casually going into my room and throwing away my stuff because they’re useless to HER

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267 Upvotes

41 comments

r/insaneparents • u/tessieedwards • 10d ago

SMS Mom’s response to me saying I’m having a bad day (I’m 2 months postpartum)

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444 Upvotes

50 comments

r/insaneparents • u/Moon_Savior • 10d ago

Other My mom is weird, so glad I got to move out if only temporary

71 Upvotes

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r/insaneparents • u/Pure-Elevator-7938 • 10d ago

SMS My mom picks and chooses when she wants to be a mom

173 Upvotes

27 comments

r/insaneparents • u/gasmoneysniper • 11d ago

SMS “I will come for my grandchildren. You can either make it easy or you can make it hard for you.” — My mother after going no contact

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787 Upvotes

141 comments

r/insaneparents • u/Curious-Spell-9031 • 12d ago

SMS I just got back from visiting my dad (context in comments)

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131 Upvotes

32 comments

r/insaneparents • u/Street_Buyer402 • 13d ago

SMS My birth mom contacted me after 12 years (I was 8 when I got out into foster care). To provide context, last week she told me she was going to the doctor every day and my phone kept loosing connection. This was what came from it.

455 Upvotes

44 comments

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