First time posting *ever* so please bear with me! Usually the one reading or listening to reddit stories 😂
We (I 32F & 33M husband) have lived in our 1 bedroom "house" for almost 3 years and have had multiple cats show up over the time we've been here just to visit amd get some pats (NZ based) which is nice cos I lost my soul cat not long after my husband and I met and I have missed her terribly ever since.
We've had a young ginger male cat show up and we tried everything to see if he had a home, I posted everywhere, asked neighbors and our rental agent - we even dubbed him Butterscotch and his full govt name is now Sir Butterscotch of House Diet Ginger, yes he's registered at the vet like that 🤣 thanks Materman!
Turns out he doesn't have a home so we adopted him officially about a month ago cos he kept coming and wouldn't go anywhere else, he would even sleep on a mink blanket outside the sliding door all hours and days of the week.
We were hesitant to take him in before because of how reactive he was (think hissing and biting randomly and we'd kept him in one night and got very little sleep with his antics) and the fact we're in such a small space BUT, he got the whole deal, neutered, microchipped, claws trimmed, flea & worm & vaccines. Didn't start off with the cone of shame but he gave himself an infection so that was fun, I ended up taking it off after a recheck visit cos he was faceplanting the water bowl and couldn't drink, ohhhh the flop this boy did when he snuggled afterwards was *precious*!!
We've since discovered he's FIV positive and have kept him strictly indoors - 1 for his safety & 2 for the other cats in the neighborhood and don't want to share the virus.
He's very protective over "his house" and despite being fixed we know he will probably try and fight the other males. He's on special food and the litterbox is a chore cos boy he pees a lot! but we love him to bits, especially come zoomies time.
I may have inadvertently created a monster, when I go to bed he LOVES to play with me, pounces on my hands, feet & to use me as a springboard and goes hell for leather round the house.. he's really settled in and will come snuggle and sleep with us at night which is bliss and has steadily been putting on weight, is almost 5 kg now.
**Questions being please:**
\*We have lots of toys for indoors and he has a huge cat tree right next to a window that he beats the crap out of relentlessly and lays on to bird watch which is why we put it where we did.. plus we have very little space but what else can we do? We both work full time, myself as a truckie so I'm up at 4 ish am and hubby is truckie/yardsman who's up about 6 ish and we can do upto 14 hour shifts but it's *usually* 10 to 12. Hubby sorts him in the mornings and I do it in the afternoons
\*he HATES the cat carrier and refuses to willingly get in so he gets burritod with a blanket and dunked in all while hissing and growling at us - can't slip him gaba, we tried that, can't even pick him up and I'd love to be able to do that and snuggle him.
\*Does anyone have experience with trying to get a cat described above into an easy vest or harness so we could take him out for walks and could recommend one?
*Very food motivated boy* but we have to watch it doesn't upset his stomach and go backwards - he has B12 shots with the vet to help the FIV symptoms.
If you've read this far, thank you so much. Happy for any advice to help enrich our boy until we buy a home - we're gonna build him a catio!