r/personalfinanceindia 18h ago

Planning [23F] After promotion, will be earning 92k - 95k per month

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Background: chennai, in a very healthy workplace and in a super cool project,
I am a spendthrift basically, mostly on lifestyle (rent, utlilities, travel, wont compromise on comfort of living) even when I was earning less, also spent most of my savings earlier on international travel, how to start saving, investing in general - I also feel like this isn't enough and preparing to switch as well within the next 6 months - How to stop this imposter syndrome, or is it genuinely a low salary?


r/personalfinanceindia 11h ago

Budgeting Salary Day and I’m Already Anxious About Money

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I’m 29, based in Delhi, and earn ₹1.23 lakh in hand each month. It’s salary day today, and at 11 PM, I have ₹25,000 left in my bank account.
I’ve set aside ₹60,000 for SIPs, paid my rent and maid, cleared my electricity and water bills, prepaid my fuel credit card for this month’s diesel expenses, and even bought my whey protein.
I’m left with just ₹25,000 to get through the rest of the month.
I’m getting genuinely jittery just thinking about it. And the worst part? I don’t even know why I’m investing so aggressively in the first place.
I feel completely lost when it comes to my finances.


r/personalfinanceindia 12h ago

Investing Feeling Insecure and FOMO | 23M Software Engineer @ Top/Teir Trading Firm

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Hey Everyone,

Have been following the content of this sub for quite some time at this point, and I decided that it was finally the time for me to open up and talk about a few things that have been bugging me and wanted the wisdom of the crowds.

Some context first: I graduated from a Tier-2 College and out of sheer determination, made it into my current organization. I won't rant much about work cause honestly, I really love everything that I do and I enjoy everyday. The saying is infact true that if you love what you do, then you won't be working a single day in your life.

As many might have extrapolated already, I earn pretty good. I invest equally well and I try to live frugally. Here are the approximate numbers:

Take Home: 2.3L
Investments (SIP): 1.7L
Needs: 45k
Rest is savings.

Portfolio: 55.9L (All Mine)
Debt: 0
Responsibilities: 0

Now here is the question: I have been feeling empty and devoid of any emotion when it comes to making more money. Don't get me wrong, I have aspirations and dreams to achieve great things and would love to own cool things, but that thought is not a priority tbh.

I want the wisdom from people that is it ok to feel like this? I see my coworkers "enjoy" life. They buy expensive things whilst incurring debt. Lifestyle inflation. Next question is: Where do I call it quits? I understand FIRE and withdrawal rates but I don't understand what and when to prioritize this?

I want to get myself a good wrist watch as a way to commemorate getting promoted at work this year (if it happens 🤞🏼).

P.S. I am like this due to family background. Dad's into real estate and I have seen what is good way and bad way to park capital. And due to this background I have no responsibility towards my family, financially speaking of course.

P.P.S. The watch in question is a Rolex Submariner No Date.


r/personalfinanceindia 15h ago

Insurance Unpopular opinion: Health insurance is a waste for most families

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Hi folks,

I know we've been hearing from the government, TV ads, from YouTubers since several years, why a health insurance is extremely important, as a single hospitalisation is enough to wipe your entire life's savings, life is unpredictable, lakhs in hospital bills, people end up selling their property, gold, borrowing from relatives and friends, so their loved one could see another day. The same trope has been repeated a thousand times already. So please, save up and get health insurance.

I brought one too paying 35k for it, caught up in all the hype, but after actually looking around, reading medical guidelines, researching about diseases and talking to doctors, I realised, it's mostly a propoganda by insurance companies. Looking at the data, an average Indian gets admitted once in 30 years, mind you this is an average, heavily skewerd by chronically ill people, taking that out, it's about once or twice in their lifetime, if you're already healthy, and develop no major illnesses, or manage the existing ones well, the risk is lower.

Looking at the actual diseases people get hospitalized for in India are, infections followed by heart disease/diabities, digestive issues and accidents. Excluding infections and accidents, 90% of all diseases people have are easily predictable. Modern medicine works on the principle of prevention, most non-infections diseases can be easily predicted, managed without ever needing hospitalisation, sounds weird but true. Heart diseases for example, starts early with hypertension about 15 years before, people don't get themselves annually checked, progresses to stage 2/hypertensive crisis in a few years, people don't bother to check, and during a random check-up, they realise they've got BP, like most Indian parents, and put on meds, which they don't take as prescribed, or don't change their lifestyle. The same goes for diabetes, which brews for a decade, before finally symptoms show up, and the disease has caused significant kidney damage, get hospitalized, and the cry about it on the internet, and run donate me campaigns on Ketto/ImpactGuru.

Heart attack, Kidney disease, respiratory problems, sudden organ failures, strokes, sudden digestive issues, kidney/gall stones, All of these common illnesses could be prevented by annual checkups, sticking to the protocols, and focus on prevention, focusing on lifestyle so your body doesn't reach that state of absolute failure. If you do all of these correctly, the true probability of hospitalisation is extremely low, I've seen my 80 year old grandma, uncles with fat bellies, multiple heart attacks, diabeties etc, all managed well later and a decade passed with no hospitalisation. The worst part is Insurance in India doesn't usually cover OPD, which easily costs a few thousand at least if you're in a tier-1 city like me, most will have to go through USG, CT, MRI and tons of other tests before they get a proper diagnosis, easily costing 5-10k, even before they're considered for a hospitalisation.

The only exceptions here are Cancer & Accidents, which are completely unpredictable. What if I lose my savings to that? That's where deductible and super top-ups come in, if you're fit, and so is your family and no major illness in sight after your regular checkups, get a super top-up policy, triggering around a lakh costing peanuts, or if you feel there could be a risk due to lifestyle factors like obesity or smoking, get a good policy with the maximum deductible, usually 30-50k, costing 20-25k a year, easily manageable for most middle class famalies, start saving up the deductible amount, so it could be redeemed someday, but paying 40-50k for your 60-70 year old parent, who doesn't even have have an illness or an easily manageable one, is rather a waste, most middle class families would be better off, if they stick to protocols, get checked regularly, keep educating themselves on health, than wasting hard earned money on insurance, there is quite a lot of fear mongering going on by these companies and influencers, hence decided to post it. Please don't be swayed away, and if you have extra bucks for that extra security, go spend it. Nevertheless, one should always have a super topup, even if no base policy, so you don't have to sell everything during the crisis.


r/personalfinanceindia 17h ago

Housing Will I be ever to purchase home in India ?

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Post tax income : 2.4L/mo in Gurgaon
Wife : 40K/mo but don’t have long term plans(will quit after baby)
Dad : 50K/mo pension

Savings : Dad (nil as cleared homeloan in town with retirement corpus)

No kids yet.

Expense :
Rent + maintenance = 35000
Maid = 6000 (3K hometown, 2K gurugram, 1K car and bike cleaning)
Grocery = 15000
Electricity = 3000 (yearly avg)
Medicine and hospital = 10000 (unfortunately, we are insured but adhoc medicines )
Eating out = 10000
Clothing = 10000 (both of us have office so have to be presentable)
EMI = 12000 (flat in different corywhich we don’t live, society is ready need to invest 2 lakh more so it becomes rentable with rent ~ EMI)
Insurance = 5K

Savings = 50 Lakh
22 lakh US mutual
28 lakh India (stock + etf + reit + MF)

Personal emergency fund = 5 lakh

Adhoc - 20K (unseen family chores related expenses)
Which brings total expense to 1.1 lakh

My yearly savings becomes close to 16-18 lakhs. Morever there is RSU grant which is 8 lakh post tax so average yearly savings in 25 lakh. Not counting on wife income as it may stop soon and her savings are her emergency fund (~4 lakhs)

With kids I will be needing 3 bhk, which costs are 2.5- 3cr. I prefer staying within 10KM from office as our cities are not commutable.

Risk : AI based job role reduction and might have pay-cut


r/personalfinanceindia 23h ago

Budgeting Can I afford sierra EV?

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About me-

Age- 27 (just turned)

In-hand salary - 1.51 lakhs.

Current savings- 4 lakhs in MF(never looked at PF account savings and don't even wanna touch it)

Spent around 6-7 lakhs of savings in house interiors and renovation (Total costed 60 lakhs, I invested around 6.5 lakhs)

Bought a bike worth 1.3 lakhs for my brother .

And spent some good amount on trips last year.

So after all this I am left with 4 lakhs of savings.

Parents are well to do, and don't need much financial support though I still send them 10k every month.

Current EMIs- 15k

Planning to go for 3 lakhs DP and would have an EMI of 30k. I can easily repay the loan early.

I believe that I am quite young and earn a decent amount, though not very high but decent enough to manage my expenses hence I think I can buy sierra EV adventure which is costing me 21.8L onroad.

Once I am married, I would have a lot of responsibilities which will restrict me to buy expensive things.

Post EMI of 30k , I can easily invest 50k every month into SIP.

What are you thoughts on it?


r/personalfinanceindia 3h ago

Saving/Banking Which bank would you suggest for a corporate employee?

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Hey folks, I'm joining a MNC as a fresher, which bank would be the most rewarding and saving, i don't earn much now tho.


r/personalfinanceindia 20h ago

Planning Need Financial Advice

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Hey, I am 25M working in corporate in Bangalore.

I have saved around 50L and all that cash lies in my savings account.

I belongs to poor rural family from hardoi, UP. What I should do with all this money.

  1. Build my house in village/city

  2. Get married

  3. Has to finance sister marriage 20L

  4. Dont has a life insurance and personal health insurance (except corporate one)


r/personalfinanceindia 21h ago

Auto/Car Can I afford a Toyota Hilux

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32 M, single, to be married soon. Inhand 3.6Lakhs per month (excluding stocks and bonus); partner to quit job (initial few months as I will be the sole earner), can expect her to make 50-60k per month after that. In tech, layoff fear is real.

Current EMIs: ~40k. Month expense ~80k (single).

Equity: ~1.5cr. FD/PPF: ~25-30 lakhs.

Hilux is more of a passion choice than a family car. But costs almost 50lakhs onroad. But this will be my primary car as I do not have another one.


r/personalfinanceindia 34m ago

PFI Marketplace (Wednesday Only) Built a financial planning app for salaried Indians. No bank linking to start. Looking for honest feedback.

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Many money apps are built around one part of your financial life. Dhi tries to understand the whole picture: cash flow, net worth, protection and goals.

The idea is to help with questions like:

Can I afford this car?

Am I saving enough to retire at 50?

Do I have enough insurance?

Should I prepay my loan or invest the bonus?

You don't need to connect accounts, give us Gmail access, or manually enter everything on day one. Start with a sample profile, tweak a few numbers and explore. If it feels useful, make the numbers accurate later.

We launched in July and have 100+ early users.

It's free right now. The plan is subscription-only, around ₹5,000/year for premium. No commissions.

Two things I'd especially love feedback on:

  1. Is this meaningfully better than managing your finances with spreadsheets and individual apps?
  2. What would make you trust something like this with your financial information?

Harsh feedback welcome.

https://dhi.money


r/personalfinanceindia 59m ago

Other 27F , Need Advice, Kinda broke in life

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HI everyone, short intro about me ,
Was studying engineering , was in 5th sem, i had loved a person , he wasn't from my caste, so my parents opposed , they had fixed an engagement with a person , which i didn't like. So somehow i and my lover got married, i was just 19 at that time. Discontinued engineering , gradually my parents also accepted.
He is not financially strong background , did not even have a fixed job, yet i made that choice. Then i joined BBA , then he took a yellow board car, he started earning pretty well, but we didn't even save penny ( Regret a lot ) . Now it's been 8 years since we got married. I did Offline MBA hoping to get a decent job , but didn't know the job market was such a mess. Somehow i got a Office Admin job near to my house itself, i get paid 20k per month and my husband's income is also not fixed.
We don't have proper saving , no Child , 1 lakh in bank account
Around 70-80 grams of gold
And a joint health insurance.
My parents are very supportive now ( Been very lucky in this )
So now i need to save money, live a decent life, i am just confused and scared where the life takes us , been stressing about this daily. Need suggestions from everyone , how i can rebuid my life.


r/personalfinanceindia 21h ago

Planning How to plan for bigger home + 2 kids over the next 5 years?

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My husband (32M) and I (30F) live in Mumbai and have a combined post-tax income of around ₹3 lakh/month.

Our current situation:
We own a 1 BHK in Mumbai with an outstanding home loan of around 40 lakh.
Current EMI: 40k/month
Household expenses, bills, conveyance, etc.: around 40k/month, mostly managed by my husband.
I spend around 35k/month on conveyance, personal/household expenses and outings.
I currently invest around 75k/month.
My husband has relatively limited savings currently, while I have more investments/savings.
My parents are financially independent. My husband has a single parent who is financially dependent on him and stays with us.
We are both relatively new in our current jobs, so I don’t expect major promotions or significant salary increases over the next 2 years.
We would also like to travel internationally once a year if feasible.

Why we are considering moving:
Our current 1 BHK is becoming difficult for us from a space and overall quality-of-life perspective, and we’d ideally like to live closer to my parents as well as they age. So moving to a larger home is becoming more of a practical need than just a lifestyle upgrade.

Our plans for the next 5–6 years:
Start a family, hopefully having 2 children over the next 6 years. We are considering our first child within the next 2 years.
Move to at least a 2/2.5 BHK, preferably closer to central Mumbai, where property prices are significantly higher.
Continue investing and maintain a reasonable lifestyle, including one trip a year.
Ideally, retain our existing 1 BHK as an investment/rental property while purchasing the larger home, although we are open to selling it if that makes more financial sense.

What I’m trying to understand
Given our current income and situation:
How realistic is it to upgrade to a 2/2.5 BHK within the next 5 years, while also having children?
Would it be financially sensible to retain the existing 1 BHK and take another home loan, or would selling it be the smarter option?
How much should we ideally have saved/invested before purchasing the second property?
How should we balance the house purchase with childcare, retirement investments, travel and lifestyle?
Would particularly appreciate perspectives from people living in Mumbai who have upgraded from a 1 BHK to a larger home while starting a family.
What would you do in our situation?


r/personalfinanceindia 2h ago

Budgeting ₹1.08L monthly take-home — how can I save and invest more aggressively?

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25M Need advice on saving and investing more aggressively with a ₹1.08L monthly take-home
As mentioned in the title, I currently have a monthly take-home salary of around ₹1.08L. I’m investing around ₹17K in SIPs and ₹5K in stocks every month.
I want to diversify my investments and would like to know what other instruments I should consider, such as bonds etc.

I live in Bangalore, and with the cost of living getting higher, I’d also like some advice on how I can reduce my expenses and save more aggressively.
One area where I’ve recently overspent is perfumes. I started collecting perfumes and ended up making a few impulse purchases, so I’m also trying to get better at controlling discretionary spending.

Current monthly structure:
Take-home: ₹1.08L
SIPs: ₹17K
Stocks: ₹5K
Rent: ₹12.5K
Gym: ₹5K
Expenses : 40-50k
Debt: Zero

One additional factor is that my father has a business loan of around ₹20L, and I’d like to contribute some money towards helping him clear it faster.

So, how would you structure my finances if the goal is to save/invest more aggressively while also helping with the family.

Please suggest on
How much I should reasonably contribute towards my father’s loan without compromising my own financial goals
Any practical advice or personal experiences would be really helpful. Thanks!

Used chatgpt to write this post.


r/personalfinanceindia 20h ago

Investing 36,600 Charge by Indian Clearing House

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One week back I have sold my stocks and mutual funds.

And today I got a message saying indian Clearing House has charged me 36,600 any idea why this charge ?


r/personalfinanceindia 17h ago

Housing My home loan interest rate was hiked from 9.25% to 11% with zero notice, and now the tenure numbers don't even match what the bank confirmed in writing. Need advice.

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(This post was written with help from Claude, an AI, to organize my thoughts clearly. All the details and the experience are mine.)

Hi everyone, hoping someone here has dealt with something similar or can tell me if this is normal or if I'm being taken for a ride.

I took a home loan of 20 lakhs back in Dec 2020 from GIC Housing Finance Ltd (GICHFL). It was fixed at 9.25% for the first 61 months, after which it becomes floating, linked to their Base Lending Rate. Original tenure was 240 months, EMI was around 18,318.

In October 2025, I asked them to increase my EMI, and they wrote back confirming a new EMI of 20,150 with a remaining tenure of 151 months, effective November 2025. I have this in writing.

Fast forward to August 2026, and I randomly notice my ROI has jumped to 11%. No SMS, no email, no call, nothing. When I asked them about it, they said the rate changed because my 61 month fixed period ended in January 2026, and it's now aligned to their current base lending rate. Fair enough in theory, but then I noticed something else. They are now saying my remaining tenure is 172 months, not the 151 months they confirmed in writing just a few months earlier.

I sent them a formal email on 13th August asking for the exact date the rate changed, the base lending rate and the formula used to calculate 11%, a copy of the rate revision notice, an explanation for the tenure jump, and full details of a paid scheme they mentioned to lower the rate. Two weeks went by with no response at all.

Then out of nowhere, they emailed me offering to convert my rate to 10.10% floating, but only if I sign a supplementary agreement, get it notarized on stamp paper, submit a hard copy to their branch, and pay a conversion fee of 2360 rupees. I looked at the agreement they sent and it has blank spaces for my EMI, tenure, and interest rate, meant to be filled in later by them. It also has a clause where I agree in advance to be bound by future rate resets and any resulting increase in EMI or tenure.

I'm not against paying a fair rate. What's bothering me is signing a form with blank numbers and no explanation for the tenure jump, and being asked to pay before anything is clarified.

Has anyone dealt with GICHFL or a similar housing finance company doing this? Is this normal industry practice or a shady move? What would you do in my position? Any advice on escalation, RBI ombudsman, or anything else I should know, would really help.

Thanks for reading this far.


r/personalfinanceindia 3h ago

Insurance 22M | ₹1.75 Cr Term Insurance at 22 - My Research, Decisions & Experience

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Hello there, fellow finance wizards. I'm 22M, took babysteps into the worlds of personal finance. I graduated college this year and started my first job as a consultant from last 3 months.

I learned about SMART goals and taking a term insurance for myself is one among them. I took a 1.75CR policy from ICICI pru Iprotect Smart Plus. Hoping this would help fellow fin ethusiasts in your research. I would like to hear your thoughts, suggestions and feedback :)

Some decisions I took

  • Opted for cover till 65 years of age (I took the policy early because my 2 parents depends on my income heavily, otherwise thought of taking around time of marriage)
  • Regaular Pay
  • No Raiders attached
  • Monthly payment term with autodebit set
  • Created a folder having all the details for insurance - policy, payment receipts, health records and small guide note on the claim process.
  • Appointed my mother as beneficiary, also informed 2 close friends about the policy who are finance savvy and can help with the claim.

Researching

I wanted to know every detail out there in term insurance specifically and liked a madman. From the subs, scheduled 2 calls with ditto insurance, dig through Khan academy and Shiller's modules on Insurance to learn above and beyond. Will make a seperate post on the learnings.

Taking the Policy

  • I filled the application through ICICI pru portal directly
  • The underwriting and approval took 8 days overall from the day of application - document and income verification (2 days), medical tests and reports (3 days), underwriting and approval (3 days).
  • I'm a non smoker and I don't drink alchohol, with a healthy lifestyle and n pre-existing diseases, so underwriting went very well for me :)
  • I scheduled medical tests and the practitioner did blood test, ECG and urine tests, So I also gained a wealth of info about myself. WIN WIN.

Overall I'm happy for the decision i took and hopefully make good progress on the other goals as well. Cheers and happy journey for you as well.


r/personalfinanceindia 12h ago

Insurance Policybazar has no plan without 'Full refund of premium'?

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Hi guys, I was looking for a term insurance on Policybazar. Youtubers say not to get the plan with return of premium. But all plans have a 'Full refund of premium' on the policybazar, and it doesn't even cost too much.

Am I missing something? Or I will get the benifit of premium refund without paying high cost (looks too good to be true).

Screenshots: https://postimg.cc/PL1c3PFQ https://postimg.cc/cgZzV0VB


r/personalfinanceindia 18h ago

Planning Could a job loss put me in a difficult position financially?

5 Upvotes

I have been working in IT for over a decade, mainly in automation software testing, and I am quite burned out. I also don't consider myself a particularly strong software engineer, so if I lose my job, I may need significant time to upskill before finding another one.

My net worth is around 1.15Cr:

  1. Mutual funds: 52L
  2. Indian stocks: 10L
  3. US stocks: 3L
  4. PPF: 18.5L
  5. FDs: 17.5L
  6. EPF: 8.5L
  7. Savings: 5L
  8. NPS/pension: 1.5L
  9. Monthly expenses: around 65000
  10. No debt
  11. No dependents and no plans to marry
  12. My parents are financially independent and we live as one unit, but I do not want to depend on their passive income.

I live in a family owned flat in a Tier 1 city, which I will eventually need to sell and replace in the next few years.

My main concern is whether losing my job and being unable to find another one for a long time could put me in a difficult financial position despite having around 1.15Cr in savings and investments. I may need significant time to upskill before I can find another job.

For those who have experienced something similar, does moving to a lower tier city meaningfully reduce expenses, anxiety, and stress compared with living in a Tier 1 city?


r/personalfinanceindia 1h ago

Planning Gold scheme redemption query

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I (28) have been investing 1L pm in a 11-month gold scheme with a reputed jeweller since last year to get discount on making charges.

Intent was to get married by 2026 end/2027 early with my then partner of 10 years. But, we separated months back and now I'm unsure about getting married - even if so, atleast not in the next few years.

Should I purchase jewellery, or, redeem them for gold coins? What would be a more sensible thing to do.

People who purchased jewellery prior to getting to know your partner, how did you figure out the jewellery sizes?

My culture doesn't have the tradition of gifting too many jewellery to bride & gold in general, so they don't care much about what I do about this. But, since I live in a rented place so storing them is also a concern - please suggest on this as well.


r/personalfinanceindia 16h ago

Housing Is there new obsession for Gated societies or luxury apartments ?

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It seems everyone these days wants to live in gated societies or luxury apartments with all the so called amenities like Gym and pool and misc. obviously there isn’t a problem in this.

One problem I see is first how are people affording the houses, I assume a flat would be 50% more expensive and also you have to deal with huge maintenance bill every month. Another thing is Builders prioritising these luxury apartments more because the margins are much better, this in turn increases the cost of real estate even more.

Also one potential problem I see is what would be the maintenance issues in let’s say a 30 year old building? In 30 years you’ll be looking at very maintenance bill with all the repairs and everything. Let’s be honest it’s not like builders are using high end materials for luxury apartments, same raw materials being used but making it seem more flashy.

What you guys think ?


r/personalfinanceindia 13h ago

Investing What's the biggest financial scam that Indians still consider a good investment?

134 Upvotes

Not talking about illegal scams.

I'm talking about things that are widely accepted as "smart investments" but often turn out to be terrible financially.

What's your pick?


r/personalfinanceindia 10h ago

Debt 28M earning ₹1.5L/month, family wants me to take a ₹20L loan for land. I’m confused and mentally exhausted.

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I’m 28M and have been working for around 4 years. For the last 2 years, I’ve been working at a very early-stage service-based startup. We’re only 4 people, and my current in-hand salary is around ₹1.5L per month after deductions. Apart from a yearly bonus, there aren’t really any extra benefits.

I’m the eldest son in the family, and my father’s business took a big hit after COVID and still hasn’t fully recovered.

Ever since I started working, I’ve had some responsibility or another. I helped pay off my two elder sisters’ marriage loans, cleared some of my father’s debt, and I currently support my two younger siblings as well. One is in Class 12 and the other is in the final year of her master’s. Last year, I also spent money renovating some parts of our house.

After all this, I finally felt like my liabilities were reducing and maybe I could start focusing more on my own financial future.

But recently, we had a land-related issue. We sold our agricultural land for around ₹22L and bought another piece of land for ₹25L, and I contributed the remaining amount.

The problem is that the agricultural land was originally bought by my grandfather, and he is very emotionally attached to it. That land is now worth around ₹32L, and he wants me to buy back at least ₹20L worth of it.

That would most likely mean taking a loan of around ₹20L.

And this is where I’m getting really stressed.

My father feels that since I earn ₹1.5L in hand, I should be able to manage the EMI comfortably. But I haven’t fully explained to him how unstable my job actually is. We are a tiny startup, and I don’t have the kind of job security where I feel comfortable taking on a huge long-term loan.

If I had a stable job, maybe I would have considered taking the risk. But right now, the thought of carrying another big liability for years genuinely scares me.

At the same time, I feel guilty because I understand my grandfather’s emotional attachment to the land.

My mom and I were also planning to renovate the upper floor of our house gradually, and she is worried about my marriage as well. Personally, I was hoping that after four years of handling family expenses, I could finally save properly and maybe buy a car for myself sometime in the future.

For some personal finance context, I invest around ₹20k per month in mutual funds and another ₹5k towards gold. Since my job is mostly WFH, my own expenses are relatively low, so I do manage to save. But most of my savings over the years have ended up going towards family debts, education, house expenses or some unexpected responsibility.

I don’t have an issue supporting my family. I’ve been doing it willingly.

But I’m starting to feel like every time one liability ends, another one appears, and I never really get the chance to build financial security for myself.

Am I being selfish for not wanting to take a ₹20L loan?

Would you take this risk in my situation just because the land has emotional value for the family, or is it reasonable to finally draw a line and say I can’t take on another major liability?


r/personalfinanceindia 17h ago

Saving/Banking So I just turned 18 and now I wanna open my own acc but dk which one to open

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Hey guys so I turned 18 like in June and now I wanna open my own bank acc but dk which one to open I saw one post where most of the comments recommended IDFC but they said that the min balance to open an acc in idfc is 25k so idk I js need an acc with like good customer service or banking service and which isn't risky so pls drop your suggestions


r/personalfinanceindia 27m ago

Planning Married couple splitting expenses?

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Wanted to understand how other households do it! This is a question for couples where both are working. Regardless of who earns more, husband or wife.

  1. 50-50, on everything (rent, trips, kids)
  2. Proportional to income (rent and kids, trips maybe you are doing 50-50?)
  3. One person’s income is used for all kinds of spends while the other person’s is used to save/invest. (Do you think that’s fair? What if things go south and all the savings are only in one person’s name?)

My husband and I do proportional to income for household spends, plan to continue to do the same if we buy a house, and towards kids education and trips. But when it comes to our trips, we do 50-50.

Now I earn half of my husband’s salary, so handling expenses proportional to income other than trips let’s us also save/invest proportional to income. For the most part we both have similar spending habits.


r/personalfinanceindia 46m ago

Housing Any way to save 1% mortgage charges on the Topup homeloan?

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I purchased my flat a few years back and paid a fat stamp duty for the same. Now, I am renovating it and planning to get a top-up loan on my existing home loan. However, as per the new rules in Gujarat, I will have to pay the mortgage fees at 1% of the total loan amount. I believe this is pure loot, and I don't want to pay that. Any way to save that fee?