r/questioning • u/Few_Bee_3172 • 8h ago

Is there something wrong with me? (M 18)

I'm 18, male, and Black. I don't have a girlfriend, never had a girlfriend, and have never kissed anyone.
I have many female friends, and love women. I describe myself as a feminist.
I was raised by as strong mom and the best women throughout my life.
I don't harbor any hate toward anyone and really don't like incel culture.
I have never done anything toward a woman that she wasn't comfortable with.

I also made sure I don't have ridiculous standards.
I just want someone who's kind, loves art, humor, loves to talk, and is left leaning.
I would also love to be a stay at home dad, I don't have a racial or ethnic preference.

Maybe it's just because of my age, but I am genuinely confused.
I love myself and who I became to be, but if this is how it's going to be for the next 80 or so years, I'd at least like a confirmation.

Disclaimer: I am not asking for any pity. I am merely sharing my thoughts. Thank you.

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u/alllclear cis butchsexual 7h ago

What are you asking exactly

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u/Few_Bee_3172 1h ago

Advice on what to do

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u/CuriousAaboutthingss 6h ago

Guarda, secondo me il "problema" non sei tu. E assolutamente non c'è nulla che non va in te, anzi. Ti parlo da ragazza, ce ne sono a vagone di ragazze che cercano persone come, hai mai pensato che magari possa essere che sono i luoghi che frequenti? Oppure, sei timido? Hai mai provato tu a chiedere l'instagram/ i social di qualche ragazza? O aspetti siano loro a fare il primo passo?

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u/Few_Bee_3172 1h ago

Grazie per aver risposto in italiano!

Ti ringrazio. Nel corso degli anni sono diventato più socievole, ma la zona in cui vivo non è l'ideale per conoscere gente, trattandosi di un'area suburbana. Me la cavo bene nelle conversazioni.

Ti auguro buona fortuna, grazie mille.