r/relationshipproblems • u/Dirty_Telephone_310 • 1d ago
Advice Wanted I need help pt. 2
I really did not get a few answers I was looking for so let me ask for help one more time.
Me male 37 and my (exish) gf female 24. We have been together for almost 4 years and it had been the best 4 years of my life with anyone, Sh e was is still my world for now. We have not once had a fight or argument.
Tell now kind of, you all well know why i say it that way. 2 weekends ago her and her friends went on a girls trip as normal as they do once a month and i do not think anything of it, As she did and always did throughout our relationship. Well after this past one she seemed very distant and ignored me at every chance she got. Well this past wednesday she randomly texted in early the morning she texted me she cheated and told she does not think we should be freinds or together anymore thats it nothing else. I have not heard from her sense. She event blocked my number and blocked me on social media. She also quit her job where we saw each other for the first time, and where i stop by every weekend for a drink.,
I really really loved her alot and was event in the process of looking for a ring. I need closure and need to figure out a way to just talk to her,
Let me also get a few things strighten out. I know there is a large age gap and i knew what i was getting into when i even ask her out. She is very mature for her age or so i thought. She is afriaid of agreeing with people cause of abusive relationship in the past which one reason i think she well not talk to me at all.
Her friends also have my back on this and have also said she barley talks to them now also which worries me alot. As i said i love her and care for a lot and I agree there is excuss for her cheating. I just want and need closure on the whole and just want to talk to her again.
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