r/slp • u/Weak_Criticism_7426 • 2h ago
Seeking Advice Just had a parent say they do not consent to dismissal and will need to think about it
I work in ICF for the state. We have 50 school-age and 420 adults with developmental disabilities. We have our own special education department that runs year round. Iāve been seeing this boy for 9 years in direct speech. He has moderate ID with Autism. Guardian (Mom) is on the spectrum herself and we have had a lot of issues in the last several years with her. Heās 18 now and is not making progress and has most definitely met his potential. I have assessments and reports to back this up. The team agreed with me last year on him being dismissed but we had a strange situation where his Mom would not participate in the meeting and wrote a letter afterward saying she didnāt agree. I was pushed to keep him in to keep the peace (many more issue than this was going on) and I went ahead and kept him another year. Well today she was there and again I recommended dismissal. She said she had to think about it but at this time she does not give consent. I didnāt even know what to say and no one else did either. She told the special ed director she would call her by Friday. My coworkers said it was my decision along with the team and told me to stick to it and write the dismissal report. I know we are bound by a code of ethics and I absolutely donāt feel right keeping him in speech when heās not benefiting just to appease Mom. Help please! What would you guys do? I should add that I get paid a flat rate and we donāt do any billing for direct hours served.