Lawful would be more "conventional" identities like simply "non binary", while chaotic is shit like xenogenders and such, the things that make anti-woke/sjw people stay up at night.
How do you actually ask thia question legitimately? Do you say "do you present feminine or masculine?" Or something? Like if someone prefers a certain bodytype and needs to know if the NB person is a hunk or pretty 'lil thang.
You be upfront with your intentions. It's as simple as that. Make it clear you respect their gender identity regardless but preferences are preferences
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u/suitcasecat 18h ago
Girl NB or Boy NB