r/whenthe 19h ago

I know what you are

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u/Dragonssssssssssss 17h ago edited 16h ago

The rule for using Male and Female is: if you could just as easily be talking about an animal, it's a way of dehumanizing the subject of the statement.

"Those females over there": Female what, Sheep? Oh, Female Humans. Luckily we have a word for that. Just say Women, dawg.

"Female Teacher": animals can't be Teachers, so you're fine.

"Females" is used more colloquially because misogyny is baked into society, but it goes both ways. Being called "a Male" is gross. I am not interchangeable with a Ram.

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u/The_Exuberant_Raptor 16h ago

Female as an adjective is fine. Female as a noun is not. That's the way I learned it.

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u/Mach3Fraud 17h ago

A male man

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u/Dragonssssssssssss 17h ago edited 16h ago

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u/Lawsoffire 12h ago

Only tangentially related. But do anyone else actively try to anthropomorphize animals and try to avoid separating humans from animals or am i just weird?

I know in science they usually tend to do the opposite, but at least as far as mammals and birds are concerned they’re at least sentient enough to have a tangible experience of existing. And it wouldn’t be a stretch to say that other intelligent animals experience emotions similarly to ourselves.

Of course they do not give a fuck if i call them “It” or “Her/him”. But it feels better to humanize them. And the opposite feels like turning them into inanimate objects.

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u/Alextaoluu 9h ago

animals can be teachers, a frog taught my boy naruto how to absorb nature chakra. Animals taught us how to bend the four elements, my dude, my female.